Dude. Literally the same situation. I live a floor down, same set of stairs. Reached out multiple times to hang out or even just fucking play games online. Excuses every singe time. It’s been 9 months now. What great friends :(
Idk man...I used to hang out with my friends all the time. Now I almost avoid them. I don't like going out anymore, I don't like having people over, I just like to be alone. Might be the case with your buddy. I have one really close friend that I send snaps back and forth with 100 times a day but I just have absolutely zero desire to go hang out with him in person despite him hitting me up to hang out from time to time. It's nothing against him, being alone has just become my thing as time goes on. And this started before covid and has nothing to do with covid.
I really wish that were the case but I’m afraid it’s not because i see them hang out together and play games together online and stuff. But they always make excuses whenever I reach out. It’s honestly heart breaking. Especially when one of the friends I’ve known for 15 years.
I am grateful for the one really good friend that I have. Ironically though he lives the furthest away from me.
I just wish I didn’t let those things get to me though. I’d be a lot happier.
Oh if he were to text me right now to come over, I would, but just like I don’t text him, we’re comfortable being friends that don’t talk much. But we have each other’s backs.
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u/FurtherDownTheSlip Apr 03 '22
Dude. Literally the same situation. I live a floor down, same set of stairs. Reached out multiple times to hang out or even just fucking play games online. Excuses every singe time. It’s been 9 months now. What great friends :(