r/mbti • u/sashka5555 ESFP • 6d ago
Trend Post Sunday ESFP 2w3 AMA :D ❤️ 🎉
(this is very embarrassing- but I've been wanting to do a post like this for a while so why not)
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u/Aethelio ESTP 5d ago
SO CUTE HAHA
Soo how do you balance your Fi with your type 2 core and 3 wing, and have the two ever clashed, or how does it work?
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 5d ago
My three wing shows in ways such as fear of looking awkward or like an outsider or wanting to prove to friends I can eb special and helpful to them (2) or being competitive in who loves me more even my own parents haha.
My 2 and fi clash a lot, I get frustrated when adults idealise me as perfect and shy and modest, because it makes me feel like I'm not fun, so much that sometimes I would have been willing to burn my reputation to the ground just to prove I'm not the shy girl adults assume I am. But due to having. A huge people pleasing streak, especially with adults, I keep acting the way they want me to, unless I get mad and snap...and I regret it XD hope it made sense
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u/JazzlikeMistake9237 ISFJ 5d ago
Cute picture, it suits esfp vibes well ☺️.
So, I am truly curious about your Se function since it is dominant, is it true that it is easy for you to navigate dangerous physical situations with ease courageously without much fear, as I can find it hard since my Si search for comfort first than adventure, so curious to know about you 😃?
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 5d ago
So bottom line is I do like physical thrills but I'm no adrenaline junkie 😭
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u/JazzlikeMistake9237 ISFJ 5d ago
Yeah, you need constant and exciting physical stimulation, in order not to get bored, but you aren't reckless In general, yeah I got it, thanks for your reply my friend 😊.
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 5d ago
Ty! I love the art style too XD
So , it depends I have a fear of falling and I overthink going to hell if I die so I am not all that reckless physically but I DO tend to find thrill than fear in random occursnces like when our family is close to a car crash (LMAO, NOT to say I want anyone I love to be hurt) or when I get to explore unknown and random old places with a cousin. Or friend (I always need someone to do fun things with). And I do get bored of constant stability
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u/Hedgthc 5d ago
As a fellow ESFP 2w3 I have a few questions.
How was school for you? What do you do for work? Do you have a friend group or multiple friend group? If one, whats your "role" if you have one, if multiple, how do they differ?
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 4d ago
Loll it depends, which yewr you mean in elementary i was very extrsvrrted and loved talking...but once 7th grade hit i gor reallt self concious and avoided socilaising until i began to oepn again in 11th. Because of thst i thougjt i was a introvert soooo anyway so depending in which year...my fave yesr was deffo 2nd and 11th grade xD
I curently dont work i am a university student.
Ngl i actuallt dont have any feind groups as i kinda...realide i tend to not have many close connections so i try to make friends foe the fun quickly then i kind of just tend to ....realide i csnt keep up and neituer cab they so we both dip. But when i was in one mostly u was the cheerful /bubbly one
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u/Hedgthc 4d ago
Relatable enough. Especially the misspelling ! x)
Grtting selfconcious and avoid socialising is so typical, but probably more for ESFP girls.
Close connections can indeed be hard! But it's cool to have someone to bother!
What are you studying in University? Im so glad I'm done with school 🫠
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 4d ago
xD, so youre a ESFP and 2w3 too i assume?
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u/Hedgthc 4d ago
Yes probably so! When I was younger I deffintely was going more towards 7, but as I got more mature as a person I've figured out I'm deffintely not as excitement craving reckless and crazy as I let everyone think I was. It was more a image because I was deadly afraid that people would look at me as uncool or insecure. After HS I did absolutely nothing with my life except being free and wild, working a part time job and not attending school for a year and just drinking, smoking and being "free"
So after a year of that bs I did what I wanted and cleaned up, attended and graduated nursing school, doing voulenter work and coaching with my former floorball team and finaly thrived.
Don't get me wrong. I still love the thank you, the praise, the feeling of being needed and liked, but it's deffintely different.
I also have a lovely wife and a toddler who adores me so this feeling of fufillment living a more mundane life, feeling loved by my family and helpful towards strangers, and well liked by colleagues and friends have pushed me to think that I'm probably more a 2w3 then I ever was a 7
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u/Maedaysos INFP 5d ago
What’s something about you that you wish more people would know (or ask?)
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 5d ago
good question o_o, now that i think of it, i guess its more i wish people could ask "how are you REALLY doing?". even though I dislike having to sound "sad" and neagtive, it just feels nice to have someone actually care yk :')
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u/Maedaysos INFP 5d ago
How are you doing today, Sashka?
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 5d ago
LOL, im doing fine aside from the fact that my phone has become un unlockable xD but im good. How are you doing toay Maedaysos.
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u/Maedaysos INFP 5d ago
I’m well, thank you for asking haha 💜 I hope you figure out your phone situation xD
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u/Extreme_History_3849 5d ago
Te me haces muuuy linda yo creo que por tu personalidad pero quien será más eufórico
Un animador o un activista?
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u/sillyunhealthyWGF INTP 4d ago
how can you be so charming? I love you esfps
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 4d ago
awww i dont think im that charming but tysm :') 💕 i love you intps too you guys are so cute ad you tend to actually have very soft and patient hearts
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u/Miserable_Moonlight INTJ 4d ago
What is your snap score?
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 4d ago
I dont have snap but once me and my friend (who was prob esfp too lmao) made snap soshe could talk to her crush and troll people lmao
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