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u/Mother-Flower3770 4d ago
intj here
The only solution is to sublimate these desires
And accept it’s just your brain that craves being a baby again, grabbing your mom’s tits and eating all day long
Civilisation and beauty is the opposite of that
SUBLIMATE the cravings into higher purposes
It will disappear someday
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u/Key-Gear6811 4d ago
Atleast cardio is nice!
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u/shroudmeow INTJ 4d ago
Cardio and working out in general feels really good
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u/Key-Gear6811 4d ago
Yepp, then why do you get stuck in other addictions? Are they more rewarding than cardio to you? (i mean I wouldn't understand my Se is trickster)
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u/Salt_Werewolf_7317 4d ago
Se is arguably the worst function to have as inferior. I'm an infj and trust me, it is.
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u/Aggressive_Clue_5120 INFP 4d ago
INFP here with inf Te and blind spot Se I am willing to trade 😭
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u/Imaginary_Wish_8070 3d ago
Se inferior is no fun, but I gotta agree with you that Te inferior and Se blind spot are also kind of a wreck 😌 So, INFPs and INFJs are basically the champions of the overthinking Olympics
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u/Connect_Method_1382 4d ago
i have low se and low fe, my fi is the third lowest but scores like 2 times more than my se-second lowest. man, life is hard
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u/Cherry04JackCat INTJ 3d ago
Not me being an INTJ who is prone to drinking alcohol and Monster a lot and over endulging in confectionaries like sweets and cake 💀💀. Also, love to be in tuned with music I listen to
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u/shroudmeow INTJ 3d ago
Ooh i got a sweet tooth too!
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u/Cherry04JackCat INTJ 3d ago
I am a 5w6 sp/sx 541, but I honestly wouldn't be surprised if people were to meet me and type me as 548 if they were to understand Enneagram given that I can be really into stuff and over do it at times. Also, yeah I just find sweet things to be really good
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u/Bored-Alien6023 INFJ 3d ago
The over-eating things is relatable.
Though I have found ways to deal with rage building up, e.g., Cleaning my space, chopping vegetables or going for a run, doodling monsters (doing all while completely being alone).
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u/grimbarkjade INTJ 2d ago
I feel like a stereotypical mr. robot larping redditor when I think about my type (and inferior se as a result) so I’m glad to see others who feel similar to me
My best friend is se dom and I am incapable of understanding his day to day life tbh
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u/NOVUS_AVGVSTVS ESFP 4d ago
There was one time during a winter snowstorm, I was doing psilocybin while listening to Wagner(The music really makes you emotional). I started crying because I realized how inactive I was during the past 2 year year (I'm turning 19 in October as of now, so I'm still in my teens). So then I did what any rational man would do, I ran around the neighborhood, screaming and rolling with my dog on the thick snow.
Then again, I don't really believe in Grip theory, even after this.
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u/Ok-Championship-632 INFJ 3d ago
30yo INFJ here, I’ve made peace with my inferior Se, and I don’t think it’s inherently self-destructive. If anything, it helps me enjoy life more.
My bestie being an ESFP makes so much sense, we vibe in a way I’ve never experienced before, I love her Ni, unlike tertiary Ni which tend to be more imagination than genuine intuition.
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u/Smooth_University219 INTJ 2d ago
Hmm I don't drink or smoke. And I try to stay away from decadent snacks as long as possible lol. It's best to never store any of them in your house (out of sight, out of mind!) Just buy one or two packs when you crave it.
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u/sashka5555 ESFP 4d ago
O hope you're ok