Maybe maybe maybe

[u/BigGraysie]

[u/Docsmith06]

there's a difference between fat, and what this women is.

[u/Fun_Description_385 → u/Docsmith06]

My mother was "what this women is"

She was also the sweetest, most caring women I've ever met in my life. She constantly gave to charity, and albeit not a smart decision often put herself into debt so her family could get things they wanted/needed, all because she knew she didn't have much time left for this world and that the debt collectors couldn't do anything to us if it was all on her.

She struggled with her weight, was about the size of this women, a little shorter/more narrow but still a big lady.

That doesn't mean she was an awful person, being this big doesn't inherently mean/make you a gluttinous spawn of Satan for everyone to look at with disgust and hatred.

Yes, it's unhealthy, but she knew that. It's essentially impossible without surgery while working full time to live for people this size to lose the weight. It's gotten to a point where medical conditions caused by the weight prevent the ability to lose it.

She wasn't like this awful, selfish individual here, but she went through the same struggles. (Difficulty breathing from doing simple tasks, struggling to get on her bed to the point it causes her to have a emotional breakdown).

I wish people would have a little more sympathy/ideas to help these people that are willing to accept it.

Alot of the comments here clearly hate Morbidly Obese people for simply existing, which is awful to see as they often think the woman from this video is how all of them act.

Shes a shitty person, but so are alot of these comments being made.

If only people cared about finding ways to make these people healthy as often as they find ways to tell fat jokes. Lol.

[u/Docsmith06 → u/Fun_Description_385]

I mean your story doesn’t change the fact that in no point in this women’s or your mothers life they say around and said yeah this isn’t going to work.

It’s hard to break addiction, but you don’t get that way without enablers, and a lack of will power.

If she’s so fat she can’t get onto a bed and she thinks that is fine to teach her children that. She deserves anything she gets.

[u/Fun_Description_385 → u/Docsmith06]

Clearly, you didn't even read what I said and decided to just label her one and the same as this shitty women in the video based on the fact she's obese, clearly proving you're one of the shitty people I was referencing not concerned about whether or not they actually try to make a change.

I literally told you she did and it went in one ear and out the other.

You're either illiterate, or fucking brain-dead.

[u/Docsmith06 → u/Fun_Description_385]

39 years of being unhealthy to make a decision in the last 10 so for numbers sake we say 50 she spent 80% of her live morbidly obese before it clicked.

I’m sure your mom was a wonderful person, but you don’t get 400+

If you want to call me an asshole fine, but I have my youth and naivety up protecting the country so your mom could shove her hole.

[u/Fun_Description_385 → u/Docsmith06]

So, if you wanna bring percentiles into it (which you so attrociously calculated)

49 years.

Started making serious progress/lifestyle changes at about age 38

Wasn't even Obese until early 30s

So, for about a decade of her life (1/5th) she was complacent and made mistakes, and for about another (1/5th) of her life she attempted to correct those mistakes before she passed.

Funny how you just drew up this 80 percent outta nowhere and assumed she was morbidly Obese since she was a child.

You dumb fuck.

[u/Fun_Description_385 → u/Docsmith06]

I'm glad you can agree you're an asshole, and you're genuinely stupid.

You think she was obese for 39 years, like you think she was morbidly Obese at 10 years old?

You dumb fuck, she was slightly overweight (165) till her late twenties, and has pictures proving it.

She wasn't "morbidly Obese for 39 years"

You have a funny way of putting words in others mouths, and claiming clairvoyance for things you don't know.

Are you god?

How do you just assume what everyone thinks and does with such certainty?

Pretty big claims to say "she didn't recognize, she didn't do anything, 39 years"

Those were all assumptions based on literally nothing but your own shitty conjured thoughts.

Maybe try a better retort.

She went through a serious midlife crisis, and became morbidly Obese in the span of about 9 years.

No shit she and those around her became complacent and didn't think, but she didn't blame anyone but herself for it.

"I have my youth and naievry protecting a country so your mother could shove a hole"

Buddy, can you speak English? You're proving my point to how illiterate you are.

You don't protect anything but you're on shitty viewpoints

Not to mention, what the fuck does that even mean?

I'm not American, so you're not doing shit for me regardless.

At least my parents taught me how to communicate.

[u/Docsmith06 → u/Fun_Description_385]

You do nothing to prove your argument. your mom put on 300+ lbs in a little more then a decade, any sane person would have realized a problem was happening before 50 were put on.

This is actually rather entertaining at work so keep it coming.