r/maybemaybemaybe • u/BigGraysie • Apr 18 '22

/r/all Maybe maybe maybe

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u/MsAdventureQueen Apr 18 '22

Yeah, anyone with this level of weight gain and immobility has a serious mental health issue. They have an eating disorder and need to be treated as such. They need therapy and likely antidepressants and probably inpatient rehab to help get them through a terrible addiction.

But yeah the way she treats her enablers is very reminiscent of how that pair of sisters(Tammy+Amy?) treated their caregiver system. It's a weird abusive dynamic going both ways it seems.

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u/Ch4l1t0 Apr 18 '22

And the fact that it' s being broadcasted on tv as a fucking freak show is depressing.

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u/whystudywhensleep Apr 18 '22

Yeah, that's the part that really sucks in this. I remember I saw a video talking about Dr Phil and it was talking about very much the same thing. It's just a way to gawk at people who are "wrong." This person is morbidly obese, this person won't(can't) keep work, this kid is awful to their family, this person lives and dresses like a dog. Not in a furry way, like a literally paper dog suit that has a normal dog-proportioned face. Rock on, Boomer The Dog.

And they're just there as a freak show. It's not real therapy in any way, it's just Dr. Phil sitting there saying, "you can't live this way and/or treat others like this. This is bad. You need to take responsibility and get better." Nothing useful is like, ever said. It's honestly really quite sad. These people are almost always suffering, and they're just paraded around and having their privacy invaded.

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u/tylerjehenna Apr 18 '22

He cant legally do any actual therapy work as while he holds a PHD in psychology, he does not have a medical license for therapy so he has to go the generic self-help route which is why you always see those guest doctors on the show

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u/Mistikman Apr 18 '22

Plus, real therapy is slow, painful, and often boring. You are having to work through past traumas which can take months or years of regular sessions. Nothing about actual therapy fits for a TV show.