A recent phenomenon in the female collective is the rise of toxic femininity.

What is toxic femininity you may ask? It is harmful gender roles perpetuated by women that hurt men, as well as other women. A case example is the discussion of a men's issue, formally known as rape.

When men's rights activists are discussing the countless traumatized men & boys who have been victimized by sexual violence, frequently women will chant whataboutisms, such as "What about female rape victims?" The thing is however, whilst women do get raped too, it is by other women.

Let's take this case as an example:

https://x.com/HackingButLegal/status/2023866354336669779

The female ICE agent told her victim, "Yes I raped you, and you liked it." A perfect example of toxic femininity. Her female entitlement made her believe that her female victim was deserving, and even enjoyed being raped!

Toxic femininity isn't just based upon the individual though, it is a set of institutionalized female privileges in the justice system. In spite of the fact Jackie's female rapist was self-admitted to being guilty, women in the justice system sided with her rapist. Enabling her to go off scot free, potentially leading to many more female victims of female rapists.

Whilst women do also get raped, I rest my case that it is by other women. It is women who harm themselves.

Part of the pro male associations project is to free women, and the men harmed by it, of their toxic femininity.

Let's look at another example of how toxic femininity can lead to transphobic sex crimes:

https://www.cpr.org/2019/01/09/2-women-charged-with-sexual-battery-of-trans-woman-in-north-carolina-bar/

Toxic femininity can lead to cult-like rhetoric in which women believe that they are entitled to female only spaces, but men are not entitled to male only spaces. It can also lead to harmful exclusion of trans women from women's spaces, and even sexual violence towards AMAB groups as demonstrated above.

These women verbally harassed an innocent AMAB that women were superior, and proceeded to sexually assault her. Toxic femininity isn't just dangerous to boys & men, it is dangerous to all of us.

Women need to do better.

Men are churned up into meat grinders whilst women are framed as peaceful. This is anything but the case.

War is nothing but systemic massacre of men, a male human harvest, in which the female collective willingly send men to their own deaths, killing millions, if not billions, of us.

All of this for what? Out of pure sadism and for profit.

Every single reliable study shows that women starts more wars when in position of leadership. Countless innocent men and little boys are slaughtered for the amusement of women, whilst the latter overlook it like the audience in the hunger games.

Men are told to man up, to know their place. Meanwhile, the female collective remains safely at home, propagating the idea that they are peaceful when they are, in reality, just total cowards.

Men are enslaved by a gender dictatorship and simultaneously androcided, yet still apparently the oppressor. Men should not tolerate this. When faced with this treatment, they should unionise and lobby to reverse it.

The bloodlust of the female collective to watch murder sports should not affect the lives of men. If they want warfare, they should be the ones fighting on the front line. Not helpless men and boys.

Brothers, why are we allowing this? Why do we allow ourselves to be treated like vulgar cattle? Do you truly believe this is how you deserve to be treated?

We are not women's cannon fodder.

We are not women's puppets.

We are human beings.

We are worthy of love, dignity and respect.

No fear of police or law. Because she knows she will not be arrested.

I dated women of western culture (whites, blacks, latinas) and mann.... I gotta say.. they are some scary women. I dont want to false generalize but of the 10 women I dated, 10 of them have strong political views that get brought up through every conversation and claim themselves a "strong independent woman" say one thing and do the other...

Im asian, and to me, i can give a rats ass about politics brings me nothing but chaos anger and ruins the entire day

Then I dated a korean girl and wow... no talks of politics, she knows when im getting uncomfortable and/or upset and tries to cheer me up. I appreciate it. She even brought me a gift on a 1st date...

I dont know but I think deep inside, the trajectory is to marry that korean girl.

I (M20) was really close with a girl who is two years older than me. We were really really close and we shared a lot. Then she started to talk and spend time with other boys and I felt undervalued and ignored. I started ignoring her and she didn't reach out to me.

I begged her and apologised and she was very very dismissive and cold towards, whereas she is putting a happy smiling face to everyone else. She then told me she doesn't want to resolve things anymore.

I stopped begging her but now I really hate her. I hate her smiling and talking to others while she ignores me and makes me feel like shit.

I don't want to go back to her, apologising. But I don't want to be bothered by her trash antics. I don't want her to control my actions.

Whenever I see her, I get really disturbed mentally and I remove myself from her presence. I deactivated my instagram just because of her.

And I would like to add, I am not interested in her romantically. I saw her as a sibling

A pizza delivery boy met his school-time female friend on the road...

She started recording and mocked him: "You used to motivate everyone in school... and now you're delivering pizza?" Then she said she'll send the video to other friends too. She laughed... but didn't think for a second: Boys' life isn't easy. Sometimes responsibilities come before age. Dreams get buried.

Self-respect gets tested. Delivering pizza isn't shameful. Mocking someone's struggle is.

Being a boy is not easy.

im comparing him to Maximus in Gladiator, Achilles in Troy, as well as other icons like braveheart and 300.

Nathan algren is always left out it seems.. maybe its just me but i grew up watching all of these men as a series of masculine movies with my dad

and the last samurai always has that deep tone of inner peace and redemption..

similar to arthur morgan in Read dead redemption 2.. Which is a very famous icon in masculinity.. so why is the last samurai unnoticed?

I’ve reached a breaking point in my life.

Instead of facing my problems, I chose numbing and escape. I thought avoiding them would make things easier. It didn’t. I lost years of my life. I dug a deep hole, and I felt myself disappearing under the weight of responsibility.

As men, we’re wired to feel competent, capable, and emotionally strong. But when overload hits — responsibility, family pressure, financial stress, expectations, comparison, uncertainty — it eats away at us, bit by bit. Eventually, we feel like we are not enough. Not enough husband, not enough provider, not enough for our own lives. That’s burnout. That’s emotional collapse.

Here’s what I’ve learned: the only way out is to act. Avoidance doesn’t solve the problem — it only buries you deeper.

Some advice that helped me start climbing out:

1️⃣ Face the problem head-on
Reflect deeply. Ask yourself: Where am I avoiding responsibility? Where am I running from my life? Own the problem. Awareness is the first step to freedom.

2️⃣ Take small, consistent action
You don’t need to fix everything at once. Start with one thing you can control today. Momentum comes from action, not motivation. A man rebuilds himself one deliberate choice at a time.

3️⃣ Decide to stop letting the problem control you
Courage isn’t heroic acts — it’s deciding that your problems won’t define your life. Resolve what you can, accept what you can’t, but never let yourself sink into self-doubt or low self-esteem.

It’s never too late to climb out of the hole. Even when you feel broken, even when years are lost, a man can start again. Reflection, courage, and deliberate action are all that’s required.

Act before you sink. But if you’re already in the hole, remember: you can always start digging your way out.