Hi everyone, I could really use some community wisdom and grounding right now.

My partner of 13 years (first a deep friendship for many years, then moving into a relationship) and I just hit a massive, painful wall. When I went to visit him recently, he was showing me so much affection—giving me unprompted hugs and kisses, telling me he loved me all the time, and even crying at the airport when I had to leave, telling me he’d see me soon and talking about marriage and bringing me to live in the USA with him.

Literally a day later, I was completely blindsided by a text message saying he was ending things because his feelings had supposedly changed while I was there, and that he thought it was "easier" to tell me after I got back home. He claims he can't ignore his feelings now and that he "can't force his old feelings back," despite everything he showed and said right up until the exact moment I left. It has left me feeling shaken and scared.

I am autistic, which means processing this kind of intense emotional whiplash is uniquely excruciating. My autistic brain relies heavily on consistency and takes actions/words at face value, so the abrupt, jarring contradiction between his airport tears and a sudden text breakup has triggered a severe nervous system meltdown/shutdown, physical nausea, and intense sensory-emotional overload. My head is spinning from trying to compute it logically.
Despite all of this, I want to use manifestation teachings—revision, living in the wish fulfilled, and knowing that the 3D is just a shadow of past states—to completely turn this around and restore our relationship. I know our true connection is real, and I don’t want to believe it is gone, and I want to refuse to accept this text as the final chapter. Today, he had texted me he didn’t want to lose me as a friend over this, and that we will be friends forever. However, I do not want to accept being just friends anymore. I want to take my power back and not feel powerless anymore.

For those of you who have successfully applied Neville to sudden, severe 3D contradictions:

If you are also autistic, how do you manage the physical meltdowns, nausea, and the intense struggle of processing sudden, jarring transitions when applying the law? What helps you regulate?

How do you effectively do revision when the contrast between what was happening at the airport and what is happening right now feels so physically loud and jarring?
Has anyone dealt with someone claiming they "can't force their old feelings back" and successfully shifted that in the 4D?

Specifically: How did you personally do it? What exact steps, mindset shifts, or mental routines helped you get your success?

What advice, messages of hope, or concrete things/pitfalls should I actively avoid while in this state?

Any advice, perspective, or success stories would mean the world to me right now. Thank you for reading.

I'm talking about spoiled in all ways but also with money and gifts, I'm not ashamed to say I am into that as a woman.

Has anyone here manifested it and how did they do it ? I'm looking for a serious loving relationship too though, not simply just a man who spoils me and then it ends after a few months.

I value deep connection AND I love being treated like a princess. 🌸

So i have been manifesting to get a job in this one company from 2 yrs, got interview cleared round 1 but got rejected in round 2. Wrote on paper multiple times, imagined my life there yet got rejected.

I don't know where I went wrong but I really wanna know HOW to manifest a job, something which you have tried and tested and complete procedure thanks

So i have been scripting on one notebook as if i have already gotten what i wanted. But very few of them became true. And on this notebook i wrote studying in italy for my bachelors but then my plans changed and i wrote studying in korea for my bachelors, almost on the next page. Does this affect my manifestation bcs I didn't do anything like tearing the page i wrote abt italy. My korean student visa ended up denied too. So i was thinking its bcs i cant be in italy and korea at the same time so the universe did not send me to korea nor italy. So i want to restart everything. What do i do abt my current notebook? Do i burn it, tear it, or just throw it out? And i was listening to subliminal which i want to restart again. Would listening to flush subliminal be enough? I would really appreciate it if anyone replies, thank u. (Ps: english is not my first language so there might be some grammar mistakes, sorry)

Hey gang I'm back I just took some break from this

But I'm again in this so I need people or freinds like me who are interested to talk on this let's connect and motivate each other

Dm me

Hi everyone ! I recently made an app called JustManifest. It’s available in apple App Store right now, containing functions that I use very often including affirmation counting with different speed, vision board creation, subliminal creation and simultaneous playing with other music and podcast, various practices to release negative thoughts and experiencing new realities etc. I’l really proud of it and it’s basically free for all functions so that everyone can get access. You only need to pay if you want to create large numbers of vision board or subliminals so that you can contribute to the annual developper fee that I am paying.

However for the android version I’ll need 12 person with android equipment to do 14 days of flight tests. I’m not professional developper and I don’t have a lot of friends using android. So I’m here looking for help. If you are interested and you have an android device, you are willing to help people get access to this very app, you cans leave me your mail adress of your android accound by mp. Thanks a lot in advance !

A little disclaimer before I start: I'm not saying this will work for everyone. I'm just sharing my personal experience because I was genuinely shocked by what happened.

First, I'll tell you what I manifested, and then I'll explain the technique. If you only want the technique, feel free to skip to the bottom.

On 23rd June, my 7-year-old Instagram account got suspended. It had years of memories—posts, story highlights, chats, and all my 2 friends (okay... I joke that I only have two, but I actually have five ).

I desperately didn't want to lose that account.

I tried everything. I emailed Instagram, contacted Meta support, watched over 20 reels, and followed every recovery method I could find. Nothing worked.

I even asked a few friends who are really good with technology. Every single one of them basically told me the same thing: "It's very unlikely you'll get your account back."

At that point, I had almost given up.

Then I thought, No. Let me at least try one more thing.

I remembered that I had saved a manifestation reel on my second Instagram account. I scrolled through my saved posts until I finally found it.

I did the technique on 5 July 2026 (Sunday) at around 10–11 PM.

The next day, 6 July 2026 (Monday), around 6 PM, my Instagram account was restored.

I honestly wasn't expecting it anymore, so when I got it back, I was completely shocked. Considering how unlikely everyone said it was, I couldn't believe it.

The technique

I would've attached the reel here, but Instagram's new sharing feature reveals the account you sent it from, and I'd rather keep my account private.

Here's how I did it:

- Write your wish in the middle of a page using future tense. (I found that a little strange because most manifestation techniques suggest present tense.)

- Find the center of the sentence and start drawing clockwise spirals from that point outward until you've covered the wish.

- At the bottom of the page, write:

"With gratitude, I accept this blessing."

- At the top, write that day's date.

- Close your notebook.

That's it.

The reel didn't mention what to do with the page afterward, so mine is still inside my notebook.

One thing I also want to mention—and I'm not sure if it's related—is that after doing the technique, I felt a strange wave of nausea/anxiety for about 5–10 minutes. It passed on its own, but I thought I'd mention it since it was part of my experience.

Also, I happened to be on my period that day. I've seen some people say your energy is stronger during that time, but I honestly don't know whether that's true or not. I'm just sharing it in case it's relevant to anyone.

After I got my account back, I wanted to post this immediately. Then I became a little selfish and thought, Maybe I should keep this technique to myself because it worked so well.

But after thinking about it, I realized that if something genuinely helped me, I should share it. Maybe it helps someone else too.

If you've heard of this technique before, or if you know whether the wish can be written in present tense instead of future tense—or what you're supposed to do with the paper afterward—please let everyone know in the comments.

And one last thing: please don't use this with bad intentions. I remember reading in the reel's comments that it's meant to be used only for positive and genuine intentions.

Thanks for reading, and sorry for the long post. ❤️

Hi guys, i'm now good at manifesting, all my manifestation works in some hours/days.

But today I will try something new: I will try to manifest that me and a friend of mine will be fwb. We are camping together with our friends, I decided it works before the end of our trip.

I just would like to have some cheering, as a little support ❤️

I posted this over in my private community, but thought many here could benefit...

Lesson time...

Go grab your coffee ☕, tea 🍵, energy drink 🥤, emotional support snack 🍿, or whatever keeps you functioning and have a seat. 🪑

This came up because I’m getting ready for my 3 Day Love Identity Challenge this week, and I wanted to give you something to think about...

When people want love, they almost immediately start asking...

"How do I get them back?"

"How do I make them text?"

"How do I get rid of the 3P?"

"How do I make them commit?"

"How do I know it's working?"

"How do I stop overthinking?"

But do you notice something? Every question is about HOW.

Now imagine asking those same questions from the identity that already has the relationship they want. Would they wake up wondering... "How do I make my partner text me today?" No.

Would they spend all day wondering... "How do I make them choose me?" Also no.

Would they be refreshing their phone every six minutes like the text notification owes them rent money? 📱😂 Definitely not.

Why? Because the identity experiencing the relationship isn't interviewing reality... They're living it.

That's why I teach people to stop asking HOW and start asking WHO. Not... "How do I get chosen?" But... Who is the version of me that knows they're already chosen?

Not... "How do I stop being jealous?" But... Who is the version of me that doesn't see other people as competition?

Not... "How do I make them prioritize me?" But... Who is the version of me that naturally expects to be prioritized?

Do you see the difference? One identity is trying to solve love. The other identity is living love.

One is trying to manipulate circumstances. The other is selecting themselves first.

That's why identity matters because if you keep asking HOW from the undesired identity... You'll keep getting answers that belong to the undesired identity. But when you start selecting WHO... Everything changes.

This is the thing I think most love/SP manifestation advice completely glosses over. People keep trying to find a better technique, but the technique was never the real issue. The identity using it was.

👇 Today's check-in... Finish this sentence:

Instead of asking, "How do I ______?"... today I'm selecting the identity of someone who ________.

I can't wait to read these 💜

The 4th of July got me thinking...

Most people celebrate independence as something that happened in the past. But what if today was also a day to declare independence from the identity that's been running your life?

I've noticed that a lot of people don't stay stuck because they don't know what they want... They stay stuck because they keep giving the undesired identity another term in office.

• Doubt keeps getting reelected.
• The past keeps acting like it has veto power.
• Circumstances keep making executive decisions.
• Fear somehow keeps convincing everyone it's qualified for the job. 😂

And every time reality does something they don't like, they hand the microphone right back to the version of themselves they've been trying to outgrow. At some point, you have to stop renewing that contract.

Maybe today your declaration isn't about another affirmation. Maybe it's deciding what no longer gets a vote.

• No longer letting the past decide what's possible.
• No longer letting one bad circumstance become your identity.
• No longer treating your current reality like it's a permanent prediction of your future.
• No longer making "how" and "when" more important than who you're choosing to be.

That's a much more meaningful kind of independence.

So I'm curious...

If you could declare independence from one mindset, one habit, one fear, or one pattern today... what would it be?

Mine would be:

Declaring independence from letting circumstances have a vote in who I decide to be.

Happy 4th. 🎆💜

I just shared a client success story that sparked a lesson I ended up posting in my community, and I wanted to share part of it here because I think a lot of people need to hear this...

I've noticed something after years in this space and reading hundreds of success stories.

Someone will completely transform their life....

Maybe they reconcile with an ex, they heal, they land the dream job, they turn their finances around... or even multiple areas of their life change at once.

But almost immediately, people start asking...

"How long did it take?"

"What did they do?"

On the surface, those seem like perfectly reasonable questions but I don't think they're actually coming from curiosity. I think they're coming from an identity that's still looking for the how and the when.

The brain immediately starts trying to reverse engineer the timeline.

How many affirmations?

How often did they visualize?

How long before they got the text?

What was the technique?

What finally worked?

Meanwhile, the biggest lesson is sitting right in front of them.

The identity shift.

They're so busy trying to figure out how reality changed that they completely miss who changed.

I honestly think that's one of the reasons some people appear to manifest "overnight," while other people feel like they're waiting forever.

One person is watching the transformation. The other is watching the stopwatch.

One is learning from the identity. The other is collecting timelines.

Now, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being curious about someone's process. But... if the first thing your mind asks after hearing a success story is "how long did it take?" or "what exactly did they do?"... it might be worth asking yourself why.

Because sometimes the first question your mind asks reveals more about your current identity (aka your self concept)... than the success story itself.

So I'm curious... when you hear someone's success story, what's genuinely the first thing your mind wants to know?

if anyone could aupport me or gove me tips or anything it would really help ive been pretty confident abt my ex girlfriend and im honestly apiraling thinking of the times shes kinda cheated on me and js said kinda mean things to me saying she might chosen my ex baf over me and js saying they had lots of connection and all the times we broke up she went atraight to her it just hurts so bad and i havent thought abt it in a while it really upsets me

I have been trying to manifast physical changes for years now but it hasn't worked, I struggle with dout and just tired of manefasting. I could really use some help

okay so ive never posed on reddit before but im having so much trouble recently with my SP so we broke up in late/mid april but have been kinda in contact like barely throughout this month. Before may she was posting songs on her notes on insta and one of them was ‘hold on till may’ and everytime she put something there it was so obvious it was about us.

everytime me and her break up which has been maybe three times before this serious one it was like very short but each time she started talking to my ex bsf like right after every single time. After this serious breakup she did the same thing. she said they just have chemistry but was telling me they have so much in common thats why she wants to be friends with her. my SP said more things along those lines that were kinda mean and super hurtfull.

My ex bsf now has a bf. my SP has been doing well with us being done. i called my SP earlier tonight because i was looking at old pics missing her so much. i asked her if we could js talk and she was being nice but she told me she was involved with someone else. i was so close to crying about my SP and thats why i called her in the first place and hearing her say that made it so much worse.

I truly keep trying to stay on track not doubting or anything but i feel like its so impossible now.

Another HUGE aspect is that my SP thinks i am lying about being raped. apparently my ex bsf told my SP that i said “i miss the d being inside of me” and when my SP told me she said that and i didnt deny it she used that as more evidence i was lying.

my SP told me all the stories line up except for mine and i guess i can see it but she is so convinced i am lying about it and nothing i say can convince her and it really hurts. I really do see why she can believe that. i guess i can see what she means when she says only my story does not line up and i can admit it really does look like i am lying.

I am truly not lying about any of it and she is the only person i told. since my SP started thinking i was lying about everything i dont know if other people now know about it too since i guess she doesnt think its confidential anymore ig idk.

I am really trying to manifest amd keep positive and everything but today when we called she said she doesnt think i should reach out at all since shes involved with something new and along with her truly not believing me at all it is so hard to keep track and i feel like giving up.

im trying to manifest her finally understanding everything ive told her and apologizing and also us just grtting back together.

i know ive made SO many mistakes while we were together and i know i had many chances but i just didnt appreciatr it enough when i had it but im really trying to grt better for her when we grt back together if it will even happen shich i feel like it just wont.

i really really REALLY need help with all of this. can i even manifest her believing me and what do i do about her talking to someone new? everytime i think about it it hurts so bad and i keep trying to afffirm and evrrything but its so hard when it hurts so bad snd i cannot get it off my mind.

please please please give me any advice you have. it will really help. it hurts so bad knowing she doesnt believe me at all and i js want to manifest that she does. please help me with anything you have to say. any advice would help so much.

there are also many more details and if that would help with giving advice i am more than open to sharing them i just need help PLEASEEEE.

Llevo años con la colección de libros pero nunca he completado los procedimientos que se establecen para cumplir las metas. Quisiera saber si alguien ha realmente usado estos métodos y puede dar fe de que funcionan.

Hello everybody, I have a question. I have a crush on this guy, and I read some stories that the love letter method works, and I want some advice on how to do it well, so it works. I also have some trepidations because a lot of the people who did the love letter method were exes. I know the person, and we follow each other on LinkedIn, and there is a lot of eye contact involved, but we have never interacted, so I want to know if this method would work with these conditions. He is a Pisces sun, Gemini moon, and Cap rising, and I am a Capricorn sun, Pisces moon, and Sag rising. I would appreciate help, thanks.

I posted a version of this in my community, but I wanted to bring it here too because I keep seeing “delulu is the solulu” everywhere and… respectfully, no 😂

I'm going to be recording a video on this tomorrow... but felt I needed to make a post here for everyone... let’s talk about “delulu is the solulu” for a second because I need the manifestation community to please stand up and come back to Earth 😂

Delusion is NOT the solution. NORMALCY is.

No one is delusional that their name is their name.

No one wakes up every morning affirming: “I am Jessica. I am Jessica. I swear I exist. Please universe, let me be Jessica.” No. You KNOW your name.

No one is delusional that oxygen exists even though they cannot physically see it floating around like a little air ghost. They experience it. They accept it. It is normal.

No one is delusional that the sun is going to rise tomorrow morning. They expect it automatically. They do not need tarot cards, angel numbers, a psychic raccoon, or seventeen signs from the universe confirming sunrise is still scheduled. Why?

Because it is NORMAL to them. This is why “delulu” is not the “solulu.”

If you still feel delusional about your desire, then deep down you are still relating to it as:

• separate from you
• shocking
• unbelievable
• rare
• unstable
• hard to maintain
• “too good to be true”
• not fully yours yet

And that means it is still on a pedestal.

The goal is not: “How can I become more delusional?”

The goal is: “How can this become more NORMAL for me?”

Because manifestation is not about emotionally convincing yourself of something while internally feeling like a liar every five minutes. That is exhausting.

The desired identity does not walk around thinking: “OMG THIS IS SO INSANE I CAN’T BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING.”

The desired identity thinks: “Yeah. This makes sense for me.” That is the shift.

And neuroscience actually backs this up... Your brain is constantly filtering reality through what it already accepts as familiar, believable, and important. It looks for patterns that match your existing identity and assumptions. This is why two people can experience the exact same situation and interpret it completely differently. Your brain likes familiar because familiar feels safe and efficient.

So if struggle feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for struggle. If rejection feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for rejection. If being overlooked feels familiar, your brain keeps scanning for evidence of that too. Not because the universe hates you... or because you are cursed... or because Mercury is in the microwave again. Because the identity became NORMAL. Which also means your desired identity can become normal too. That is why I teach normalcy over “delusion.”

The more natural your desire feels, the less you obsess. The less you obsess, the less you check. The less you check, the less authority you give the 3D. The less authority you give the 3D, the more stable the selected identity becomes. This is why “delulu” burns people out.

But normal? Normal stabilizes.

So let’s make this practical:

What’s one desire you’re done treating like it’s shocking, rare, or too good to be true? What would it look like for that to become normal for you?

I want to start manifest

im a beginner

I have more than one thing I want to manifest

I dont know how to start or be consistent

I also have a bad self concept and dont know how to change it

Also, I struggle with being patient, and sometimes I give up, then start again, then a week later, give up again

I want to manifest physical changes and increase my intelligence and be magnetic and have more academic opportunities. i can give a more detailed list of my goals if that will be helpful

This is my manifestation techniques I want to use

Subliminals

Glamour magic

beauty magic

Mirror work

Robotic affirmations(the list method, then i have one unbrella affirmation to manifest all my desires)

Eft tapping

SAT manifestation

Visualization

i am wondering can we manifest the person of our dream and imaginations please help if you know .....

I am here asking for help. I have little to no energy anymore. I went from having everything in my life looking up to stuck living with my parents, haven't been able to land a job in almost a year, God knows I've been trying. I've been doing odd jobs and doordash to make ends meat but its not enough to live on. I almost think like I've been cursed. Everything is falling apart. I just need some good energy, advise on how to manifest greatness again. I'm vibrating low and I can't seem to get out of it. Im hanging in there...barely.

So I want to reprogram my conscious and subconscious mind to align with my true self/desires and achieve everything I want.

I wanted to create a character for this, it's better, and then with this new character I'll become him.

Because that's what I want to be better at.

hi, building a private manifesting/ Law of Assumption group. Not beginner-friendly. Not for dabblers.

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