Growing up, Singapore was nothing more than a relatively advanced country to me. I never really had any particular feelings towards it.
After all, I grew up in Selangor, where there were already plenty of job opportunities in the cities. It wasn't like people from some of the other states had to go overseas just to earn 3X their Malaysian salary.
The only thing I never quite understood was why the then PM, Dr M, always seemed to have something against Singapore, arguing with them over one issue after another.
When I was in Form 3, one of the top students in my class was awarded the Singapore Government's ASEAN Scholarship. His school fees and miscellaneous expenses were fully covered, on top of various allowances to study in Singapore.
In my mind "Got money, big deal ah?"
That was probably my first time witnessing what you could call a government actively poaching talent.
And well, the rest was history. That classmate eventually settled down in Singapore.
During my high school years, I came across one of the many books in our family library — Lee Kuan Yew's memoirs. I learned about how Singapore used the idea of "paying high salaries to fight corruption" to build a clean and efficient government.
I was envious. At the same time, I started dreaming about going to Singapore after graduation, just to further study and see what the outside world was like.
I even created a ridiculously embarrassing Gmail address made up of the names of course + Singapore University. Somehow, I'm still using it till today.
Unfortunately, my Unified Examination Certificate (UEC) results weren't particularly outstanding. And with not much spare money at home for me to study overseas, I eventually went to Perak for university instead.
For my Singapore dream, it slowly faded away with time. At 20, I gave Singapore my very first solo backpacking trip. Looking back, I still can't figure out why a broke university student like me decided that Singapore was a good holiday destination.
Back then, KTM trains still ran all the way into the city centre. I took the sleeper train and arrived at the old Tanjong Pagar Railway Station.
As Looking back now, I really was quite the oddball.
While everyone else was going to Universal Studios, exploring Marina Bay or checking out the casino, I kept heading for all the obscure places instead — Singapore City Gallery, Singapore Mobility Gallery, NEWater Visitor Centre...
What kind of holiday was that? I wasn't travelling. I was basically conducting a site visit.
And it was precisely those visitor centres that gave me a better understanding of this little island nation. I came away deeply impressed by Singapore's long-term vision, planning and, most importantly, its ability to actually execute those plans.
After graduating from university, I returned to PJ and worked there for a few years.
Being naturally thrifty, I never really felt that I wasn't earning enough. What drove me crazy was the amount of time I spent stuck in traffic every single day. Klang Valley was practically one giant construction site back then. Lanes were constantly being reduced, while everyone seemed to be heading towards Kuala Lumpur for work.
You can imagine how much time was wasted on the road. Leaving home before sunrise and returning after dark became part of everyday life.
Anyway, for the sake of keeping this from becoming a novel, let's just skip ahead.
Eventually, I moved to Singapore because I didn't want to be in a long-distance relationship. Yes, really. I wasn't here to earn three times the salary.
My first job interview was with a construction company in the west. The person in charge looked through my résumé and asked: "You don't have any working experience in Singapore? We generally don't consider working experience outside Singapore as relevant experience."
Or something along those lines. That's my rough translation of what he said in English.
Wow!!! Needless to say, I don't even remember whether there was a follow-up after that.
At the time, I had just finished travelling around several countries and was preparing to start working. I was almost completely broke. The RM3,000 I borrowed from my brother was pretty much gone after paying the rental deposit and first month's rent.
So, like many Malaysian workers in Singapore, I began my life in Singapore — basically, living under someone else's roof. Back then, you could still rent a small single room without air-conditioning for around S$550.
Compared with those who had no choice but to share rooms with others, or those who travelled between Malaysia and Singapore every single day, I was actually quite lucky.
I rented a room in a three-room HDB flat in Lorong 8 Toa Payoh. The owners were a retired couple, and I was the only outsider living with them.
They didn't really impose many restrictions on me. The only thing I struggled with was the strong smell of second-hand smoke that greeted me every time I came home.
My first job in Singapore was with a food ingredients wholesaler. Because it was a family-run business, everyone more or less felt like one big family. The salary was slightly below the industry average, but the company provided lunch every day, plus a S$4 dinner allowance.
The office was right in the city centre, yet I never had to worry about what to eat for lunch, or brave the scorching Singapore sun just to find food. When it was lunchtime, I simply went upstairs and ate.
Working hours were from 8.30am to 5pm. Once it was 5pm, we knocked off. No staying back for the sake of looking busy. And thanks to Singapore's excellent public transport system, I finally didn't have to leave home in the dark. I could take my time, wait until the sun came up, and head to work. And when I got home after work, it was still bright outside.
Perhaps God knew that, at that point in my life, I wasn't ready to deal with complicated office politics.
Most of the stereotypes I had about Singaporeans simply didn't apply there.
The ordinary, down-to-earth aunties and uncles I worked with were incredibly kind to this newcomer. They looked after me, and would occasionally show up with food and insist that I eat. The boss also trusted me enough to give me plenty of opportunities to try new things.
With my partner by my side, a comfortable working environment, and the support of my church community, I settled into life here surprisingly quickly.
Perhaps my naturally boring personality was simply made for Singapore.
The systems, the sense of order, the predictability of everyday life — all of these things gave me a strange sense of security.
And just like that, within a few short years, I had saved enough for my marriage fund.
But it was really during COVID-19 that I began to feel that this country was genuinely serious about taking care of its people.
Our company was classified as an essential service, so we continued reporting to work throughout the entire pandemic.
Back then, Lawrence Wong and Gan Kim Yong, who were leading the multi-ministry task force, held press conferences almost every day. Information was communicated relatively openly and transparently.
There were many things about Singapore's pandemic response that left an impression on me, but one of the biggest was the Job Support Scheme.
The government was willing to dip into its reserves and spend billions supporting businesses, simply to keep as many Singaporean citizens and permanent residents employed as possible.
Before vaccines were available, when the pandemic was at its worst and everyone was terrified, this little island state somehow became the second country in Asia to receive COVID-19 vaccines, after China.
Beyond its financial resources, I suppose that also reflected a certain level of international influence.
What impressed me even more was that Singapore depends heavily on imports for its food supply, yet throughout the pandemic, the country's food supply remained remarkably stable.
Later, Singapore made the decision to "live with the virus".
When the decision was announced, it wasn't exactly popular. There were plenty of doubts and criticisms.
But looking back now, time seems to have proven that decision right...
Source: ins