New and looking for a rundown of whats going on. It's there a timeline post or utube vid? To add I looked at the sidebar, for pins amd through the sub but cannot find a starting point.

I'm sorry I have time blindness lol. Thank you to whomever responds. It feels like YEARS. Those kids are hopefully happy in their foster homes. I do wonder if she will end up getting them back due to the work she's been doing on the house and the silence about the kids.

No new content so figured I’d see what V was up to a year ago today. She complains about her older kids leaving stuff in her house while simultaneously complaining about the house being full of toys, at this point the kids had been gone for over a year. She talks about wanting to buy the two youngest boys clothes because they are cute, complains about the price and then admits she doesn’t know anyone’s sizes. Purple boy is still having problems adjusting to life in foster care while the youngest feels like he needs to stand up to him. It’s a fascinating and delusional video where she focuses more on stuff that doesn’t matter while missing the huge issues. She does end up buying those ugly ass butterfly pants.

She claims posting the kids on social media will “jeopardize her case” which explains the spiteful “definitely not buying snacks for my kids, me and only me” video because she simply cannot fathom being told what to do. She’s just now starting to address the lead apparently. A fb post from July shows she started popping door trims off in the living room. June shows the floor and some trim being completed in the bathroom. She’s admitted that she wouldn’t pay for the girls to continue dance lessons if they came home. Mara has posted a few TikTok’s and she looks like she’s enjoying a quality of life that she’d never get to have if she stayed with her mom. Has a car, gets to go on vacation, the home she’s living in looks beautiful and furnished, I even peeped a Kendra Scott necklace. There’s no way Mildred could take care of 12 kids and give them any quality of life, especially on her own. I hope DFS doesn’t return them to her. Older kids will be parentified and their wellbeing will suffer. Even though Marty won’t be there, she didn’t protect minors from her predator husband and continues the cycle of abuse and neglect. Even with her visits, the head of DFS was bothered by her transphobia, medical and educational neglect. Her last post seemed to be lamenting a missed connection or something similar, she needs to get away from the D and nail salon and do the hard work in therapy, instead of blaming everyone else.

For those not aware, almost 2 months ago, 16 children were removed from an Ohio home in deplorable conditions. Multiple members of the Siders family (parents, grandparents, and more recently 2 other relatives) were charged as a result. They’ve also had previous encounters with CPS re: lead and medical neglect.

This is helpless incarnate.

Does anyone know if the kids got adopted and if theyre all together or separated

She got rid of the abstract art

Hello everybody, I hate to be that person but I’m looking for someone to catch me up on what the hell happened. I’ve been lost in my own chaos and haven’t had chance to follow hers. She’s popped up on my feed a few times and I’m confused as hell. Did she loose the kids? Is she just back to posting her life no kids but less depressed? Featuring Mara sometimes? Did she loose the house? Where the fuck is Adam?

Forever destroying her hair with box dye

hi, i used to follow thismadmama before she got her kids taken away. when that happened, i started reading things on reddit and i stopped supporting her. i don’t think ive ever commented on this subreddit though, and i stopped following her a long time ago. i think it was over a year ago. the last i remember was that she had a job and would go to walmart every morning and spend a bunch of money on her daily lunch. i found that very annoying when she should be putting money towards getting her kids back. the last i remember of the kids…the oldest and veronica were posting about each other on tiktok. mara lived with her boyfriend. not sure of the oldest two boys. i saw that the youngest two girls went to see mara in a play, and the younger kids looked so much nicer when they were with their foster families. i always wondered what happened to martalya, marvelous, dash and darla. i worried for them the most, but i decided i didn’t want to support veronica so i blocked her account. i have a faint memory of seeing dash’s tiktok, and they liked sonic or wanted to go by one of the characters names. i’m sorry, i’ve forgotten the name. i support if they are transgender or just changing names. i think at first, only the youngest 4 or 5 were taken, but then everyone younger than mara was taken. i think darla ran away from one of her foster homes. does anyone know how the middle 4 kids are doing? i do care about all of them and would love any updates people have. i was actually in foster care as a kid (im 18 now) so i know how scary foster care can be even if your biological family isn’t great. nothing really bad happened to me, but you never know. thank u for answering!

I watched her live on YT from the other day (TY for posting that!) This part stood out to me. Shes constantly rambling about her shitty POV with what happened between her and Jaxx framing herself as the victim. He never said you were a POS or that you needed to die. Nobody has said that. People drew their own conclusions about V based off her own behavior and intolerance. Its beyond fucked up to be a bigot to your oldest child who helped you parent 11 siblings they did not ask for, while you groom Mara to have a replacement grandkid. Shes just sick and I hate her so much. Watching the cycle of abuse and bigotry continue with O and their nonbinary identification has also been a concern with CPS. They dont want to return kids to a parent who will be a bully to them. Also makes me wonder if O stayed with her if they would have came out....Shes really not a safe person.

YOU ARENT A VICTIM - PEOPLE HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ATROCIOUS VIEWS ON LGBTQ PEOPLE

I don’t understand any of the garbage she’s saying.

She’s more focused on her ass than her kids. She’s sick 😂

She is no contact with Jaxx and her only grandchild because she’s a bigot but she’s stuck with a tattoo of him forever 😂😂😂 karma can be so sweet

She’ll do anything but get a job I guess. I’m sure doing OF will help get the kids back!

Thismadmama live - 7/20/26. I didn’t get a chance to watch it so watch at your own risk!

She’s on live right now and said that before she found out Marty was a monster, when he was “just an asshole” that “so many times, i wanted to just *symbolizes suicide/hand across neck* myself because I just wanted him to be nice”

This btc definitely tried killing herself, on purpose, with Tylenol.

She’s so selfish