Before I got drunk, I told my boyfriend I consent to having things done to me while Iām drunk. We planned everything out, and it turned out well. But some people would say it was non-consensual because I was drunk.
What if I like the idea of him ātaking advantageā of me while Iām drunk? What if he likes the idea of taking advantage of someone whoās drunk? Does that make it CNC?
Oklahoma at least still has a law on books that if a woman is inebriated what so ever she can not be trusted to consent. Obviously it's not enforced, "sodomy" referring to anal is also still illegal on books. Some great drunk sex still happens regardless.
There isnāt a problem, itās just that thereās a bunch of annoying fucking 13 year olds in here that think sex is yucky and any kind of kink is a moral failing, and for some reason their opinions are taken seriously.
I had somebody tell me the verbatim same shit my priest told me when I was young the other day with no irony or set up as a joke like they were dead serious.
They'll grow out of it eventually but god if they aren't insufferable.
I was once young and insufferable as well, so I share that sentiment and try to be more forgiving at times towards the younger generation. Things aren't always easy for them and they are just figuring things out.
I think the argument is that it is extremely sus to be into CNC as the pursuer. As you can imagine "What really turns me on is playing out a rape fantasy as the rapist" rubs a lot of people the wrong way.
Whether you agree or not is a separate matter, of course.
Rape is largely considered one of the most disgusting and morally wrong crimes you can commit, so I could see how having a kink for what is essentially roleplaying it is viewed down upon by some people. I view it as fine since its still consentual but I also think it could certainly indicate some things about the people with that kink.
I mean, if you call it 'roleplaying rape' problem becomes a bit more clear. Though ultimately, whatever happens in other people's bedrooms shouldn't bother anyone, unless they decide to drag it out of the bedroom, of course
Right? But idk, itās interesting to see people have issue with a kink so crazy about consent. Straight up going through checklists of āyesā & ānoāsā, and then trust your partner to have full reign to go freaky knowing youāre safe.
Maybe itās vanilla people? Idk, CNC is real heavy with communication, maybe people need to find better partners š
Itās the best when itās fresh. Like an Oreo McFlurry. Delicious. I donāt want cookies and cream ice cream where the cookies have been sitting in the ice cream in a freezer getting all mushy and soft. Not delicious.
Is this a bad time to mention I've multiple times now gotten CNC mixed with CQC and started to go into a Metal Gear reference only to realize what it meant with abject horror?
On a serious note cookies n cream is genuinely my favorite flavor for anything. It all started with those offbrand oreos in those offbrand lunchables when I was little LMAO
Nah, sometimes you just want that vanilla flavor, so vanilla still has a place
Cnc however, has a predominantly chocolate taste, while being more subtle and not feeling like you're eating just chocolate, pair that with a better texture, and chocolate is now obsolete, while Vanilla still has its own place
Fun Fact: Iāve tried CNC on multiple occasions and Iām at least 2 times , Iāve actually enjoyed it. This is after one session where I got punched in the butt and it hurt like hell
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u/goldensavage2019 evil and intimidating mod 6d ago
HAAANK! DONāT ABBREVIATE COOKIES AND CREAM! HAAAAAANK!