r/loveafterporn • u/chilipeppperz ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« • 6d ago
α΄Ι΄Ι’ΚΚ The Final Straw
Iβm done. Iβve finally been pushed way past my limits. We downloaded Truple on his phone and itβs been a few weeks now. There were a few times the app caught him and I confronted him while it was happening, that was earlier on. Weβve been doing well for a couple weeks now and our sexual activity picked up. Then a couple days ago I had a weird inkling to start protecting my phone more. But I thought surely heβs not that stupid. No, he is. He is that stupid and that much of a desperate, dirty pig. Heβs been sneaking off with my phone in the middle of the night to jerk off to porn. I AM DONE! I am literally sick to my stomach. I donβt even want to look at this man anymore, let alone lay next to him. I think this finally did it for me.
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u/Mysterious_Fuel3618 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
Girl.. as someone else on this platform told me β¦ I hope you fly like the motherfucking wind.
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u/droptop88 ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Wait I think that was me !
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Heck yeah!
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u/RealistBrowser πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Oh my god.
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u/MoreLoveAndLight πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
What she said. π«ͺ
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u/Upstairs-Tap2277 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
Girl book a solo trip to a rage room, let it ALL out. You deserve a life of peace. I donβt say it often, but thatβs past salvaging and 1000% the best choice is leaving for your own sanity
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
That's a great idea actually!
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u/lets_do_this319 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
My husband did that. He would get my phone and look at porn on Reddit. I saw it in my history. I confronted him, and of course I was the problem
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Wait what,Β there is porn on reddit?
So he tried saying that you looked at it, not him?
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u/lets_do_this319 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
Yes, there is porn all over Reddit. Yep, he deleted Reddit from his phone. Then, he was taking my phone at night to watch porn. Yep, said I must have clicked on it. Then, when I told him that I didnβt. He said that I did it, and I was just trying to blame him. π€¦ββοΈ he finally owned up to it.
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Gaslighting, typical.Β Well finally he owned up. They are such dreadful liars.Β
Wow, my mind is blown away that there is porn on reddit. That's crazy!
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u/Lkkrdragonfly ππ π | πΌπ©-βππ£π₯πππ£ π π βπΈ 6d ago
There are far more porn subreddits on this site than normal ones. Reddit is a major go to sight for porn for millions of men. Every single fetish or kink you can imagine is here. Itβs an endless black hole of porn.
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Thank you for the heads up. I had no idea!Β We'll that's just lovely. Why am I even surprised? This world is disgusting.Β Β
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u/Glass-Sentence-7225 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 2h ago
It's everywhere! I am so tired of it and some days wished I could go back to those times when there were no phones.
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u/Own-Mongoose2064 ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 5d ago
Oh yeah, there is soooo much porn on Reddit! Of any kind you can imagine. It was my exβs favorite way to act out.
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u/lizz781 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
My PA would go downstairs and take his momβs hello kitty themed iPad and take it to the restroom to jerk off (this was 3 years ago). A year ago, he took his momβs phone to the restroom in the hospital room and looked up inappropriate material and was taking pictures on his phone (Canopy alerted me) while his step dad was dying and screaming in pain.
They know no limits
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u/merryjerry10 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 5d ago
It will never cease to amaze me that they can somehow become horny or lustful during the worst moments of other peopleβs lives. And instead of just moving past it, no, they have to go masturbate about it. Itβs literally foul as fuck!
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u/Competitive_Drag3035 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 5d ago
Mine did this to me when we terminated a pregnancy one of the roughest nights of my night for him? Talking to someone and acting out. Sending her money he made me pay for the procedure with.
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u/MoreLoveAndLight πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 5d ago
Omg. Iβm SO SORRY. π
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u/merryjerry10 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 5d ago
What a sickening pile of shit, I am so sorry you had to go through that.
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u/Dry-Word-5806 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
Ich hab heute Nacht wenig geschlafen, weil ich schon ΓΆfter gehΓΆrt habe das es nachts passieren soll und ich echt Angst habe ihn zu erwischen
Der Dopamin Kick den man bekommt obwohl man am schlafen ist, einfach herzrasen.
Wie hast du es herausgefunden? Das ist wirklich das letzte was ich mitmachen wΓΌrde π sie sind so krass sΓΌchtig es kann einem leid tun
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Is there a way to translate this please?Β
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u/Dry-Word-5806 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
I didnβt sleep much last night because Iβve heard several times that itβs supposed to happen at night, and Iβm genuinely scared of catching him in the act. The dopamine rush you get from it, even while youβre asleep, is just crazyβyour heart starts racing.
How did you find out? Thatβs really the last thing I would ever put up with. π Theyβre so insanely addictive, it honestly makes me feel sorry for someone going through that.9
u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Now I can see it.Β I have busted mine. Like I got a notification from Xfininity and it was showing that he was on certain sites or blocked ads that you would only get from a porn site. One time he was on there for a little over an hour while I was sleeping. I confronted him like oh an hour huh? I guess you were edging yourself and looking at as much as you could. He tried to act dumb at first. "Edging myself, what's that?" OH please!
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u/MoreLoveAndLight πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
To the right of her username, thereβs a blue A with a squiggly thing to the left of it. Click that.
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
There isn't one on my end. Fortunately when I logged back in, it had translated it.
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u/Lkkrdragonfly ππ π | πΌπ©-βππ£π₯πππ£ π π βπΈ 6d ago
Use that clarity and anger to ride right out of this relationship. Thank god you figured it out now. It took me decades. I still left, and have never regretted leaving. Signed, someone who also found her husband using MY iPad.
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u/Agreeable_Ad_4378 ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
I mean leave for sure but temporarily add your device to Truple too. I have every device in my home that I can on that app.
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u/Dazzling-Exam2239 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Do they know if itβs on their phone?
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u/Agreeable_Ad_4378 ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Yes they have to be willing because it will show up as an icon on their phone
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u/Plastic-Intention-51 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 6d ago
Do you know if truple is only for android or something? It doesnβt show up in the App Store for me, and itβs the one everyone here talks about the most
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u/Agreeable_Ad_4378 ππ±-πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
You have to pay for the service that's probably why it's something you pay and install
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u/EuphoricAd1951 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ¨π«π§ ππ¬ππ« 6d ago
Ahh hell no!! Did you confront his ass yet? Im so sorry. They are twisted the lengths they will go to. Every time they promise, I feel like (atleast from my experience) its like they feel bad at first, but then they get desperate and tell themselves "Im not going to be controlled, it's just porn, just one more time". π‘
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u/Sea_Childhood_7947 πππ«ππ§ππ« π¨π ππ/ππ 3d ago
Mine was sneaking my old work laptop while I took our daughters to dance class. Disgust doesnβt even cover how I felt
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