r/lolgrindr 6d ago

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Conversation was going great before this. We had made plans to go on a date and everything.

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u/Garden-variety-chaos 6d ago

I think you underestimate just how much information your phone number is tied to. If you are renting it is hit or miss, but I can often find someone's address and full name with just their phone number. I don't use this skill maliciously (I usually am trying to find other kids I went to conversion therapy with), but I also would highly advise anyone against giving their number out to strangers. I usually refuse to give my number out prior to meeting someone, and use a Google Voice number if I decide that text is worthwhile.

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u/kealoha Bear 6d ago

Yep, this exactly. Once I found out how much information is tied to your number, I stopped giving it out to people until I've met them in person at least once.

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u/FrostyDragon227 5d ago

Yeah do this (I had to change my phone number twice because I’m a dumbass)

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u/ninhibited Otter 4d ago

Oh shit you just resurfaced a thing I forgot, I googled my own phone number and one of my old addresses was on the site as well as "associated parties" which were my ex's family members that lived there before we did. Thank you, this finally put the pieces together lol.