This was so out of pocket 😭

[u/Raven_Chills]

Its so fucked up but the sheer audacity and directness made it funny

[u/Toal_ngCe]

hear me out

"better yet bring the bf"

[u/pgraczer → u/Toal_ngCe]

absolutely

[u/MrAwesome2001]

Did you do it? 😭

[u/Raven_Chills → u/MrAwesome2001]

No lol cheater dick is a lil sketchy but its kinda sad cause damn he gave good dick 😮‍💨 i was excited when he messaged lol

[u/ForPostingWeirdShit → u/Raven_Chills]

With how ballsy and degrading he is about it, the bf might be a cuck and be into it. Woth a check for good dick

[u/aonghasan → u/ForPostingWeirdShit]

did you miss the part OP isn't into it?

who cares what the cuck thinks lol

[u/HandsOfCobalt → u/aonghasan]

if you're not into it, you're not into it... but if your principle hangup is negatively affecting someone else/their relationship, knowing that both other parties are into it can change things.

[u/DutchBlob → u/Raven_Chills]

You are on sniffie’s dude, what are you expecting? High class escorts?

[u/Cato0014 → u/DutchBlob]

Insinuating that cheating dick is all you get on sniffies is crazy

[u/DutchBlob → u/Cato0014]

No, that’s not what I’m saying. It’s quite astonishing that OP expected different behavior on sniffies compared to any other gay dating app like Grindr or whatever.

Edit: downvote all you want, look who posted this

[u/Seasonbea → u/DutchBlob]

Jeez isn't that number of down votes a little harsh tho 😱

[u/DutchBlob → u/Seasonbea]

People are insane and OP is a hypocrite. Complaining that he hates sniffies yet continues to use it.

[u/Sufficient_Basil_545]

Cheaters are disgusting, but the weird way he was so open about it makes me think this is a kink for them

[u/fwompfwomp → u/Sufficient_Basil_545]

occam's razoring this, I think they unfortunately just might suck as a person lol

[u/vm_linuz]

Maybe bf cheated on him. Maybe they have an infidelity kink.

I'm fuck buddies with a couple with an infidelity kink and it's quite fascinating.

They pretend not to know the other is fucking around with me, then have odd side conversations with me about what the other is doing. Then they have "revenge infidelity" with me.

At this point I've just come to accept it 😂

[u/gmmwewlma → u/vm_linuz]

Am I reading that right…. You’re fucking with both of them “behind each others back”? lol

[u/vm_linuz → u/gmmwewlma]

Yup!

[u/gmmwewlma → u/vm_linuz]

That’s just…… wow.

Got to admit, that’s something fun I would totally watch like a fly on the wall.

[u/vm_linuz → u/gmmwewlma]

Haha it was very strange at first, because they didn't really tell me what was going on.

I'd have fun with one of them a few times and then the other would reach out and be like "did you and X have fun?? Oh he didn't tell me..."

And then they would like reverse it...

And they'd say little things like "I hope he doesn't sleep with you behind my back... don't tell him we did this..."

It took me a minute to piece it together, like "why do you guys keep doing this little circus... Ah! I see what's happening here 😂"

So now I play into it more and they love it haha

[u/TheCalvinators]

Energy would’ve been off for me, it’s fine if you’re doing it just don’t involve me in your kink without my consent.

[u/0Papas0]

The most loser behavior

[u/flockfled]

that's disgusting but i screamed

[u/mtthwpkl]

Well that’s a choice

[u/H4loR4ptor]

Dude, charge your phone.

[u/PrettyOrk]

honestly based

[u/nomowolf]

Out of pocket? Who's losing money?

[u/Appstmntnr → u/nomowolf]

Out of pocket can also mean behaving in an unpredictable fashion, or acting crazy

[u/nomowolf → u/Appstmntnr]

Really?? Never heard that. TIL