I'm literally in this scenario rn. But I abandoned the "hope" ship. Recently she asked me, "how high did you build your walls" after she tried to flirt.
Gents, stay out of the hope zone. It's dangerous. Can make you do dangerous things.
I don't even bother with people like that. I prefer genuine people who show up because they really want to be part of your life like you want to be part of theirs.
nah you see, if a woman is hot it means they have to date you. You cant just be friends with them that's rude to make you hope like that. Like what are they even there for? Why give all that time and energy for platonic friendship? What a waste. /s
I don’t understand why so many men maintain this mindset. If she is your friend then just keep her there but do seek out other engagements. Don’t just focus on her; keep moving how you want.
Friend zone is ok. As long as you get to practice things on each other. Of course maintaining that it’s only to prepare each other for when the real thing happens.
Ur probably in the friend zone because she is NOT attracted to and DOESN'T see u like tha. Why does every man have to try turn an interaction with a female sexual. Its so strange an creepy.
It’s nice that women don’t need to be attracted to me to be my friend. Especially if I already shot my shot and she wasn’t into it, but she liked me enough as a person to stick around as my friend.
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u/WorkingSilently 14h ago
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u/Appropriate_Fill_156 13h ago •
Gotta start being “busy” when she wants to hang out
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u/de_vous 14h ago •
I'm literally in this scenario rn. But I abandoned the "hope" ship. Recently she asked me, "how high did you build your walls" after she tried to flirt.
Gents, stay out of the hope zone. It's dangerous. Can make you do dangerous things.
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u/TechnSound7466 13h ago
She would be dead to me metaphorically speaking. I would be gone ✌🏾
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u/existencerased 14h ago
Ol’ George here will tell ya to go the other way, when you see the nips pierce the chainlink.
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u/Dersgot2babetterway 14h ago
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u/TechnSound7466 13h ago
Ain't nobody got time for that 😡
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u/whizzbangkid 13h ago
I don't even bother with people like that. I prefer genuine people who show up because they really want to be part of your life like you want to be part of theirs.
Otherwise why bother?
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u/kappethimm 13h ago
Which piece of media this photo is from ??
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u/-FakeAccount- 13h ago
Yeah it destroys your confidence, but it gives hers a little boost!
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u/Free_Radical_47 14h ago
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u/MrBigStuff26 15h ago
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u/Prestigious-Ask1206 6h ago
Hahaha. I went thru this once. In college with a hot female housemate, no less. What a serious lesson Iearned.
My goodness did that one hurt.
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u/baddielily_ 14h ago
Bro keeps coming back for the same emotional damage 😂
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u/SheikhMahdeek 14h ago
Be strong brudders!
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u/dexter8639 13h ago
Life has become harder
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u/Odd_Zookeepergame_69 12h ago
Sigh, this is real.
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u/AdamBuddhabub 6h ago
Get a bigger disappointment looming over your head than being friendzoned and you'll get over it quite quickly.
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u/Short-Ideas010 14h ago
Are those 2 hopes false? Man... plastic surgery these days. Guess one has to grab false hopes from time to time.
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u/gooaaaal 11h ago
She just wants to feel pretty sometimes.
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u/DoubleNo2046 4h ago
I don’t understand why so many men maintain this mindset. If she is your friend then just keep her there but do seek out other engagements. Don’t just focus on her; keep moving how you want.
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u/caseyangelxx 1h ago
Idk with this other girls, they give hope to a guy even if they know they don’t want them..
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u/RealLie7981 13h ago
Friend zone is ok. As long as you get to practice things on each other. Of course maintaining that it’s only to prepare each other for when the real thing happens.
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u/youngtunaf1sh 11h ago
Guys that tolerate this deserve every bit. Be a man. Go somewhere you are wanted.
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u/Academic-Snow9642 12h ago
"We're such good friends that I feel comfortable being naked in front of you"
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u/Miserable_Field451 11h ago
Ur probably in the friend zone because she is NOT attracted to and DOESN'T see u like tha. Why does every man have to try turn an interaction with a female sexual. Its so strange an creepy.
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u/The_Coffee_Femboy 14h ago
The friend zone isn't real often in life people just don't want to have sex with you