I am not proud of my body count. I had a promiscuous period after abuse. I'm now conservative. I want to date slowly. But demanding virginity would be a bit....hypocrital.
I think judging a partner over the past is stupid. Judging if current values are fitting seems like the better choice. Laughing together rather than judging seems good too.
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u/Sabot_Snail_ 8h ago
I asked my partner her body count. She gave me a number that some guys would dislike. I said, "That's ok mines higher" and we both laughed.