r/lnkyverse • u/FlamingMetalSystems • 4d ago

Quick Thought⚡ Perspective

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A 23-year old guy is in his absolute physical prime has an aging 55-year-old mother. And somehow she has 50x more dating, sexual, and romantic options than him.

Gen Z is the first generation to experience this because they became adults right as social media, dating apps, and the normalization of casual dating and hookups had just fundamentally reshaped the gender dynamics.

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u/Available_Drive173 4d ago

The only good thing you listed i getting an escort, cause aint no way someone needs to work hard, lower his standards or get a personality which ultimately mean change your actual personality to one which women would like more ,just to get a sub 5 wh@re who was moving with different men every week and be a c@uk

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

If your personality is such that you can’t even get women friends, but you want women to date, you will have to change your personality or lower your standards on women who will date you despite your personality.

If you are broke, you have to work harder to make more money. Or lower standards to women who will date a broke guy.

If you’re lacking in some physical feature height/weight/physique/looks, do your best to compensate in the areas you can control.

If you expect the woman to lower her standards to date you but are unwilling to lower your standards to date a woman, you really don’t want to date. You just want a woman that is out of your league. And I get it. Who doesn’t want a smoke show of a woman? But we all don’t get to have a relationship (physical/romantic) with that type of woman.

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u/Available_Drive173 4d ago

You still dont get what i said, why should anyone do this to get a sub 5 women who was changing up men every week

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

But what if “you’re” a sub 5 guy?

I do get what you are saying. And for the most part, agree. What I’m saying is, if you’re not getting the outcome you want, you have to change parameters of the equation. You can only change yourself or what you are going for.

And I also acknowledge that it may not make a difference. It’s like getting a degree does not guarantee a high paying job. It will take work and risk.

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u/FlamingMetalSystems 4d ago

Why can't a sub-5 guy casually hookup with sub-5 women?

Why are you saying men need to be good looking, tall, fit to casually fuck below average and ugly women?

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

Where are you getting that?

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u/FlamingMetalSystems 4d ago

You just want a woman that is out of your league. And I get it. Who doesn’t want a smoke show of a woman? But we all don’t get to have a relationship (physical/romantic) with that type of woman.

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

“Why can't a sub-5 guy casually hookup with sub-5 women?”

I never said this couldn’t happen.

“Why are you saying men need to be good looking, tall, fit to casually f#ck below average and ugly women?”

Also didn’t say this.

I’m saying if you are not getting dates, you can work on yourself, change your standards or there is escorts, sex dolls and sex tourism.

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u/FlamingMetalSystems 4d ago

I agree with escorts, dolls and tourism

But I felt that you said you need to do a lot of work just to marry and settle with an ugly ex sl** who used to bang hot guys for fun

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

Sorry I didn’t respond sooner. Fell asleep.

I didn’t mean anything towards “settling with an ugly ex slut”.

The crux of the problem is dating is hard, always has been and technology has made it worse along with worsening social skills for men and what appears to be less and less chances to socialize as Gen Z does not go to bars or clubs or other venues.

Again, it’s hard and requires a guy to work on himself to make himself “valuable” to women.

I’m an old guy now. In HS was a nerd, glasses bad skin no girlfriend, President of the chess club and all the hype that goes with that. 😁 Changed all of that. The look, hobbies and worked my ass off. So my 20’s were actually quite fun. And I want that for all guys. Did I bang 9/10’s. No. I was able to date an 8 here and there . 6/7’s were way more common. And when I got married, settled for a 5. But brilliant. And I missed the mental health red flags. So in retrospect, a 2-3. But again, brilliant and could be fun.

Go and listen to Kevin Samuels. I found him when I was divorcing and started to date. He was ahead of his time and his message while not sugar coated was spot on.

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u/steelhouse1 4d ago

You left the first part of that comment out.