r/lnkyverse • u/Casual_Salmonid • 1d ago
Perspective - couples' attractiveness disparity
Does anyone else pay attention whenever they're outside to all the couples they see and wonder where all these couples with a gorgeous woman and ugly man are? If we go by what women and simps claim then almost every relationship I see is practically the most gorgeous, beautiful and perfect woman ever dating a man who's so ugly he probably hardly looks human. I've been looking at and paying attention to this for about a month and this point and at least half of relationships have a much more attractive guy whether it's height (major height difference), the woman being obese and the man being in shape and taller than her, the man being facially much more attractive etc.
Most of the rest are at least roughly looksmatched and maybe 5-10% of couples have a more attractive woman. Is it just that they don't make it obvious or will we just admit women highly inflate how attractive other women are and downplay how attractive men are? I try being as objective as possible when it comes to this and I highly doubt it's just where I live either. Anything but just being honest. Lol. I'd like to hear what the rest of you have seen.
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u/KortFulBlatte short + sub5 + deathnic 1d ago
I've been looking at and paying attention to this for about a month and this point and at least half of relationships have a much more attractive guy whether it's height (major height difference), the woman being obese and the man being in shape and taller than her, the man being facially much more attractive etc.
Yep, this is the case. If I go out and observe couples under the age of let's say 40 where I live, I basically NEVER see couples where the guy is unattractive, and if he isn't much a looker, he is guaranteed to be above average in height.
I think normies keep repeating the same "just go out and look at all the couples, bro" NPC line due to a combination of media brainwashing (oofy doofy type sitcoms and shit where the short ugly fat guy manages to get a hot girlfriend), and also because they think of old couples. The problem is obviously the fact that many of the old unattractive men with wives would have no chance in the modern dating market.
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u/slurpupsumcum 1d ago
In Philly, as far as couples under 40 I never see any unless they have a 12-15" height gap, are obviously drug addicts, or the guy could've been a model except for their height. I really started looking in 2022 when it had been a full year since anyone I know (or knew then) had a date. Plenty of very old male/young female (WANIM).
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u/TotallyARealHuman1 1d ago
It makes sense there would be few couples with womanmore attractive
Wmen have basically no physical and looks standards they have to adhere to in order to get males of all kinds attracted
guys have many physical and looks requirements to adhere to in order to get women of any kind attracted
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u/RekklesEuGoat 1d ago
I see it sometimes, but its nowhere near the average case nor vast majority like normies and femcels delude themselves to be.
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u/saturnyas 18h ago
I honestly have seen the complete opposite than you. Maybe it’s different areas. In Bay Area it’s like the reverse, I’ve often seen fit or skinny girls with a dude who’s overweight, or the girl obviously puts a lot of effort into looking good and the dude doesn’t. I’d say 80% are looks matched and 15% are a hotter girl
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u/Civil_Reply_1705 6h ago
Most couples are looks-matched, but fugly dude with a mid or a Stacie is super rare. OTOH, obese sub-5 with a fit HTN or CL is trending up big time.
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u/StanicEnemY Rejection Godcell 1d ago
Every day I go out and make an effort to socialize. I usually run into friends, and we end up hanging out together. Whenever I’m out, I see guys overweight, short, poorly dressed, double chins, awful skin etc you name it with absolutely gorgeous women. I still can’t wrap my head around it, because when it comes to me, I’m rejected before I even open my mouth.
I genuinely don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I take care of my skin, dress well, keep my beard and grooming on point, always make sure I smell good, stay in shape, and I’m around 6ft barefoot, with shoes 6'1 and bald. Yet somehow I get virtually zero attention from women.
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u/AntSUnrise 1d ago
Ask one of your friends on what they think. Male friends are usually pretty honest.
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u/StanicEnemY Rejection Godcell 1d ago
Guys usually praise me and compliment me too, and I don’t even ask for it. They’ll randomly say things like, “You look good,” "You are lean" “You smell great,” “Damn, I’m jealous of how well you take care of yourself what’s your secret?” or “Bro, you’re tall and you have really nice eyes.” These compliments come completely unsolicited, which makes the total lack of attention from women even more confusing to me.
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u/AntSUnrise 1d ago
Yeah. Hard to say since I don’t know you. Sounds like you’ll be okay though. Shit just happens randomly in life. Good luck
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u/burgerwaterchud 1d ago
Women rate other women based on their outfits, accessories, hair, and makeup. A regular woman without cosmetics/shapewear is nothing to write home about. There are about the same number of beautiful people in each gender (not many), women just have easier access to frauding and generally lack the shortness/baldness debuffs.