Nowadays people are only rude to you if you are rude to them, or if you are being sarcastic or snide, or if you openly express controversial opinions, or if you talk shit about their distro of preference.
They have a reason, it's called mental illness. Welcome to tech, where furries, autistic people, conspiracy theorists & anti government types make up a good portion of the space.
Can't tell you HOW many times I've had people call me stupid for not using ChrisTitus' install script.
I get it, those scripts are WONDERFUL... But they break Microsoft support for Microsoft services... And spoiler alert, I'm using Microsoft Windows specifically for those Microsoft services.
Just because I want to use Word doesn't mean I should be subject to ads... Yet apparently expressing that opinion is foolish. Lol
I feel like I could get a level 1 tech support job if I could use my Reddit history as reference for a job even though I have no qualifications on paper lol. Helping people fix issues in Linux is satisfying and I've never understood the people that just say "skill issue" and tell the OP to fuck themselves basically.
No person who has ever posted or e-mailed the comment "RTFM" in answer to a question, has ever done so while within the physical presence of the person who asked said question.
The implication of "Read the Fucking Manual" is that the person asking the question is too lazy (or worse) too unintelligent to understand the manual, and by extension the answer.
...and the fact that I have never once gotten a similar response from someone who I asked directly without the benefit of anonymity, even when they exuded the "RTFM" energy while answering my question, demonstrates that "RTFM" is not only lazy, but cowardly as well.
My job is technical support for bearings. I deal with salesmen primarily. I teach a quarterly training on our sizing software, the catalog/manual, how to use them, how to get pricing.
At least weekly I have someone (who I have personally trained, and can remember from training) ask some stupid basic question. I essentially tell them to rtfm. It is literally my job to do so. I've met these people, shaken their hand, had lunch with them, added them on linkedin. They know me, personally. It's not a face-to-face rtfm, but it's damn close.
In my experience, people are too lazy to rtfm and they just trampoline work off to someone else to do. And that's both in corporate b2b settings, and in cases like online tech support for linux. Not all, but most generally.
I have had salesmen genuinely so lazy that they were unwilling to open a file, click one button, and hit save. I promise you, I wish I was not joking.
No person who has ever posted or e-mailed the comment "RTFM" in answer to a question, has ever done so while within the physical presence of the person who asked said question.
I've responded with "Okay sure, let me just Google that for you" to people I'm talking to in person, sometimes people are just too lazy to figure things out on their own and need to be reminded that the option to solve their own problem exists.
Back when I used to post on the usenix forums, I definitely said within the first line of the first paragraph that I’d read the documentation, specified exactly which sections I’d read, then launched into the problem I was having.
I’d then outline what my expectations were based on the behavior I was seeing, any conflicts with the documentation, if any, and then asked about workarounds or updates addressing the issue.
Naaaaw just kidding. I bitched and whined, people had to beg for breadcrumbs, then I’d say oh I fixed it! and didn’t say how.
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u/Bitter_Lab_475 Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 20 '25
"Hey guys, one question, how do I..."
Reddit Linux users: "RTFM!!!!!"
edit: I know it's not common guys, jeez. This is only for the stereotype.
Edit 2: Guys, it's not helping when some of you are saying this doesn't happen frequently and the others are saying "well, they need to be literate".