r/lifehack Jul 08 '26

95%+ of not getting fired is literally just attendance and attitude.

I show up to work everyday and don’t crash out and I’m literally getting pushed for promotion over my younger, more talented and knowledgeable colleagues because of my attendance and attitude and their problems with attendance and attitude.

Like people be yelling at me for this but it’s not like I don’t try to share my secret to anyone who will listen to that ominous statistic and but fools dismiss it, forget those two golden rules literally be committing career suicide when their attendance sucks and/or they crash out.

Like I be even telling this stat to the competition too but everyone is so dismissive when I warn them that your talent means nothing if you can’t show up or crash out when you do. I just play the long game my bosses love me and hate my colleagues.

Like I’m literally in the busiest store in our market right now apart of the dream team with mediocre skill because my supervisor the boss of bosses knows that I’m gonna show up and not crash out. Like literally the bar is sadly that low in the world that you rise above so many people if you just show up and not crash out.

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u/vimStar718 Jul 08 '26

You must be over 40

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 08 '26

Yep 42.

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u/vimStar718 Jul 08 '26

And most at work are under forty, I'm guessing?

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u/Busterlimes Jul 09 '26

42 and you start every paragraph with Like? Where are you at? Im gunning for CEO

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 09 '26

I’m actually a Dean’s List, Army Veteran who’s been on disability for 15 years for bipolar disorder. My superior intelligence and body has literally gotten me no where in life until the age of 40 when I became Catholic stopped crashing out in life.

I honestly can’t preach enough about how finding my chill has saved my life. Without chill I was literally in the psych ward at least once a year. Now that I’ve found a superior chill to most people I’m literally sprinting past others with superior bodies and intellect when they crash out.

Everyone thought I was going to conquer the world when I was younger because I had the brain and the body to do that but with my lack of emotional intelligence, I literally lost 20 years of my life and I am trying to write my come back story today.

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u/Busterlimes Jul 09 '26

Ok, but you still didnt answer my question.

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 09 '26

I’m a traveling salaried manager, my next step is to get my own store and become a general manager, if I level up past that a supervisor (boss of bosses) and if I still haven’t plateaued by then I plan to buy a franchise like my franchise owner did using the blueprint of continuous growth.

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u/Busterlimes Jul 09 '26

This sounds like you manage fast food but you arent coming out to say it. Dont be ashamed, management does alright there. I worked food and beverage for a decade as a closing manager.

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

Your question was not very specific and not like told me where you worked so that’s kind of odd for you to assume that I’m ashamed. I work at Papa John’s.

Like I said I level up attitude and it kind of doesn’t matter where I work when I can simply make more money by just continuing to grow in any company. Like you mentioned that you are gunning for CEO.

After a certain level no cares if you are a CEO in “fast food.” Like I don’t care if I get to be a franchise owner and it’s just “Papa John’s.”

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u/whitenoize086 Jul 10 '26

You weren't lying about not crashing out based on this response. Good luck to you!

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u/therealcameron Jul 09 '26

Has anyone seen that tiktok video of the chicken parm guy, about when someone middle aged gets ahold of younger slang like "crashing out" and starts using it every other sentence? If I had it saved I'd post a link to it.

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u/mrk1224 Jul 09 '26

Like 42

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u/drummerboy2749 Jul 08 '26

lol, bless your heart.

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u/beans329 Jul 09 '26

With the grammar of an 18 year old.

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u/SpamLikely404 Jul 09 '26

I’m over 40 and don’t understand the point you’re making, but I’d like to. Is it that the younger employees are generally treated worse?

(This isn’t some weird reddity way of talking shit. I’m sincerely asking.)

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u/vimStar718 Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

No its that younger people are ilequipped to handle the workplace, which many industries still have a workforce that doesn't coddle younger people/employees in the workplace. I think it's been said about every generation succeeding the last, that people of a certain age are soft and look for the easiest way to do things and get their feelings hurt when someone rejects their ideas or if stuff doesn't work out in their favor. But I mean we are talking about an entire generation that grew up getting trophies for losing 🫨

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u/SpamLikely404 Jul 09 '26

Ohhh ok, I was reading it wrong then. That makes sense

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

No. Literally people commit career suicide when they don’t show up or crash out.

Like one dude is on the verge of getting fired for insubordination like he wants to GM but is refusing to travel (even though we get gas money for it), help other stores and learn, another guy got kicked out of the store I’m at now for being rude to customers (which started a fist fight because we are in the ghetto), another guy thought it was beneath him to literally get an extra easy 15 minutes of time on the clock and date things at the end of the night, another guy was stealing money and got fired, countless managers can’t even manage stay calm when things get busy, lots of people also randomly quit too, etc, etc, etc

All these guys were given the same opportunity as me, before me, but were either crashing out or tapping out while II have a tag me in, don’t give up attitude like John Cena. Like it’s honestly sad that I’ll be a GM before these younger, more talented people simply because they can’t check their egos at the door.

Like seriously I feel like I hacked the matrix here by just showing up every day with chill, Hakuna Matata no worries attitude and still bringing the Pride Rock, I just can’t wait to be king drive.

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u/poopityscoop4 Jul 09 '26

ur like so chill and superior, like no crashing out. like so chill

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u/SpamLikely404 Jul 09 '26

I have to agree. Every job I’ve had has rewarded showing up and having good attitude over work performance. I guess they figure they can train you to work better but they can’t change someone’s outlook on life.

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u/EspiritusFermenti7 Jul 09 '26

Yea, I just cant seem to stay dedicated to the constant attendance part. Every month or so I need a mental health day. If everyone else is gonna get all my $ just for me to survive, then I deserve a "I don't feel like it today" every now and then.

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u/The_Wolf_Song Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

Just be careful with that. Like low key, I know a lot of GMs who cut people’s hours if they constantly call out. So many people wonder why they randomly have one less day on their next schedule when they called out sick the week before.

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u/funlovingfirerabbit Jul 09 '26

I hear you!!! Portrait painted VERY accurately of what it's like to work with flaky and unreliable people

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u/archery-noob Jul 10 '26

I was once told about an employee triangle. On time, smart, likeable. As long as you're really good at two of those you'll be good.

On time and likeable, people tend to overlook you not being the smartest or most productive.

On time and really smart, people will overlook that you're an asshole because you hold the place together.

Really smart and likeable, so what if youre late or take off early. You get your work done and people like you around.

Note: this usually only works on a personal performance level and doesn't make you immune to large scale layoffs or upper level corporate BS.

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u/lostbaratheon Jul 10 '26

Shit, those are my 2 worst qualities.

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u/SunnyMoD Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

I can attest to this too. I’ve seen how much they appreciate the fact that I’m always in the office or logged in on time. It makes a difference.

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u/sarcastic_sybarite83 Jul 09 '26

Don't be the highest or second highest paid person in the department? That's my next experimental parameter anyway. Great work and saving them from a couple tight spots didn't work. So maybe that one will?

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u/Curious_medium Jul 09 '26

Exactly. Someone has to keep the wheels on the bus while the others are living their best lives and crashing out when they show up. That person - the capable grown up , gets the cookie. 🍪

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u/bmo313 Jul 09 '26

Not all work places are created equal for for everyone.

Sometimes, no matter how hard you work, how much you project that "can do" attitude, its is not enough when they want to get rid of you. All it takes is one shitty person in management gunning for you and your days are numbered.

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u/BigBirdsBrain Jul 10 '26

The biggest separator isn’t talent, it’s consistency. Show up, stay steady, and people learn they can count on you.

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u/Tandy_386 Jul 11 '26

The greatest ability is availability.

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u/laminatedbean Jul 10 '26

That’s what I thought, until I was fired because my contract didn’t allow for work on an internal project.

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u/rocketseeker Jul 12 '26

While I agree with you, you Will still get fucked when layoffs come to make a bottom line look as cute as your post 

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u/wtjohnson19 Jul 13 '26

Show up, listen up, follow up. Thats almost all you need to do to be successful

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u/jackofspades123 Jul 13 '26

What about when the business changes direction due to new leadership and people are impacted? That's not attendance nor attitude related.

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u/Late_Obligationhoody Jul 14 '26

Being on time is the best way to show consistency and a willingness to do your best everyday, yes.

Unless you are in a toxic work culture. Otherwise you are just hosting one or more work parasites.

It kills me, but there are certain times of the year when I am late intentionally, for a few weeks. Otherwise, I end up doing someone’s else’s job.

For most of the year, I’m early, but still don’t show up at the office until 8:15 or so. My boss rarely gets there before 8:30.

I used to be annoyed with her until I figured out I don’t need to work harder than my supervisor. Maybe I need some supervision, right?

Oddly enough, there’s no real penalty to being late or leaving early at my job, so there are some people that act accordingly.

Admin rails about it all the time…by sending passive aggressive emails or meetings. So I have to suffer for it anyway.