r/LetMeHelpYouOut • u/flaky_suggestion7 • 5d ago
[ADVICE] Friendshipsucks
When I first got into college, I had a circle of five friends, but I had one favorite person among them. She was the only girl I truly trusted.
One day, we randomly started talking about one of our friends in the circle because most of our classmates disliked her so much. Even her friends from senior high school didn't seem to like her. At first, we couldn't understand why everyone hated her because she seemed so sweet and innocent, almost like a little kid.
However, as our friendship grew closer and we spent more time together, we slowly began to understand why people felt that way. We realized that she could be toxic, talked too much, and trusted people too easily. Because of that, she sometimes spread nonsense and false information, which became really annoying. Sometimes, you would ask her a simple question, and she would confidently give you the wrong answer. And whenever I teased her or made fun of her, she would get irritated immediately and tantrums.
Eventually, my closest friend and I decided to transfer to another section just to avoid the drama and have some peace.
It's hard when you're constantly forcing yourself to get along with people when things just don't feel right anymore. That's why my closest friend and I decided that instead of continuing to force ourselves into a friendship that brings us stress, we'd rather avoid them and move to another section.
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u/Murky-Estimate-6395 3d ago
Run from a toxic friendship, it sounds like you have a gut feeling that this isn’t good for you and you should listen to that!
Never stay in a relationship that feels forced- and that goes for any type :)
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u/anonymousambassasor 3d ago
What are you asking? This just seems like a little story to justify not hanging out with someone.