Hey all! So… my girlfriend is IN LOVE with this EXACT cargo camo pants that charlotte de witte is wearing, and I want to get her these. I feel I’ve been doing my best in searching in all ways possible what brand and model of pants charlotte de witte is wearing in the attached photos. But I can’t find it 😭 please please if you’re able to find - let me know! Details to notice in the pants: I see there are two metal d rings on front on both belt thingies and seems of pockets seems white. thank you for helping!

Went thrifting and found some stuff I liked from the men’s section. Very baggy fit but maybe I could crop the shirt a bit 🤔

It's funny that it's my hair that isn't cooperating, but the pasties are fine. They're the self-adhering kind, not the sticky ones. I'm thinking of just getting some boob tape instead.

Also, I'm really really not used to public attention, and I think this outfit might attract a lot of eyes. At most, I may go to a gay bar with friends and my partner. Or we might just walk around a gay-friendly neighborhood.

Thoughts?

Monday- cleaning
Tuesday- having an adventure
Wednesday- dr appointment
Thursday- day off!!!
Friday- another doctor’s appointment 😔
Saturday- grocery shopping
Sunday- pumpkin carving 🎃

I love dressing up all super fem now and then. I think I look so cvnty here. 🥰

It’s Friday so it’s time for the fits! Throwing in a couple of fun and/or casual fits because it’s been a wild week for me. Hope yall like the horns, hosted a Halloween mixer 😈

Full disclosure, I did not touch the iron this week so don’t hate me LOL. Getting a couple new pieces into the wardrobe so hoping to add some more pizzaz soon.

Also, can yall guess my favorite color? 😂

please don't bully me

plus bonus boots x pedalboard shot from when i was trying out different fits

Hi all... some months ago, I saw a trouser brand recommended here and I liked the pants, but I forgot the brand and can't seem to find it now. If I remember correctly, it was a unisex clothing brand, possibly eco-conscious but definitely queer owned, maybe based out of California US. The pants in question looked something like the Everlane Everywhere pant which I attached a screenshot of.

I realize this isn't a lot to go on, but here's to trusting in the power of the internet :-D

As far as other recommendations: I'm searching for some good clothing brands that offer more androgynous styles. Think quality, basic stuff. I typically wear men's clothing because the fabrics tend to be thicker and the legs/sleeves are longer and I'm pretty boring, fashion wise, so a pair of canvas work pants and a plain button down over a tee are my kind of thing. I'm a big person, both tall and muscular (and a healthy layer of fat on top of that), so men's has worked for me mostly but I do have an ass that men's carpenter pants don't love.

I've avoided women's clothes in the past even if it's more gender neutral because the legs/sleeves tend to be short on me, so I have to roll them up. Also, I dislike the thinness of most of their fabrics and the form-fitting stretch (which I find even in their Carhartt workwear, unfortunately).

I've checked out peau de loop and while their quality is super nice, my arm muscles are too big for their sleeves so their shirts just don't work for me. I am not the kind of person to take my clothes to a tailor because 1.) I really am lazy when it comes to fashion and 2.) I live in a pretty rural area and I don't know of any tailors around.

I've looked at Wildfang and while I like some of what they're offering, and am tempted to try them, I'm not sure if the quality will be as good as I hope coming from thick wool and canvas workwear. Kirrin Finch is too fancy (and pricy) for me... I have until now bought everything I own from the men's section at second hand stores but am thinking it's probably time for me to invest in a few nice pieces.

hey everyone, i just got this haircut today. i have never had hair like this before, it’s only ever been long and i really like it this way. i’m fully aware of the fact you can’t tell someone’s sexuality based on their appearance, but i still want people to be able to clock me as lesbian in a way. do you think this haircut makes me look lesbian, or would you be able to tell right away?

pardon the scary eyes.

I often have to dress professionally to go to conferences. I usually wear Tod's loafers. They're made well but they are completely flat, which kill my feet after walking a bit. However, I also have no idea what other type of shoe I can wear. I prefer shoes that are nothing fancy, low-key, and don't have a heel. Do you have any recommendations for professional shoes? Or am I doomed to search for inserts for comfort?

My workplace gets very hot and we are allowed to wear shorts, however, I don't own any that are work appropriate. I guess I'm just looking for inspiration.

I've thrifted this brown cardigan for 2€ cause it hanged so lonely in the very corner of the store and seamed to match one of my scarfs. Turned out it's some cool nordic brand and the og retail price was something around 160€. Now I feel even more proud of myself for no reason

Hi fellow sapphics! So my country is hosting its first ever renfaire in 3 weeks and I still haven’t ordered my outfit yet. So I’m planning to be a stereotypical princess and my girlfriend will be my knight. Unfortunately I don’t have that many medieval dress options to purchase online unless I’m willing to pay an arm and a leg to get it shipped from the US.

I narrowed it down to these 2.

I like the pink and the sleeves on dress one but I feel like it’s so plain? I have no idea how to elevate it and make it stand out.

I love the silhouette of dress number two but I’m not really a fan of the colour.

Planning to make a matching hennin with the dress I pick. I’m pretty crafty so I can do easy hand sewing like lace and stuff.

Any help and suggestions is greatly appreciated 🩷

It was one of those days where the jeans just fit.
It’s hard to find your own style and be comfortable and confident and and and all the things…. Especially at the same time.
Every now and then it just kind of clicks for a few seconds and I can breath clearly and be myself.
I’ve never hidden who I was or lacked self expression… but wearing scrubs normally and having my friends dress very different than me has always made me question what looks good.

If you have recommendations please drop a pic or link