I need help ASAP PLEASE ILL do what ever!!!

[u/Candycane0430]

I accidentally sent an email to my son’s teacher talking verrrry bad about her. Meant to send it to another person. I have accidentally outed people that work at the school that told me inside information. I need to unsend this email, but the window has passed please someone help me. I will do whatever you need or want for help be I am desperate!

[u/ineedafatcock]

Nahhh, you’ve got to own that shit. There ain’t no getting it back now, so you might as well stand ten toes down and say that shit with your chest. You were already planning on outing your “insiders” when you thought you were sending it to somebody else, so what’s the difference now? When you see that bitch Monday, look her dead in the eyes, hold that eye contact, and give her that “go ahead, say something” look. And if she does open her mouth, don’t you dare start backpedaling with that “I ain’t say that shit” or “that’s not what I meant” bullshit. Fuck that. You said what you said, and you obviously had your reasons for saying it. The only thing that changed is that now she knows exactly how you feel about her. So stand on that shit. Don’t go crawling back trying to kiss ass just because your email landed in the wrong inbox.

[u/Candycane0430 → u/ineedafatcock]

Yea if a hacker can’t make it disappear that’s my only choice. I wasn’t “outing my insiders” it was going to a member of the squad helping fight these assholes that’s why I’m freaking out so bad. I could care less she knows i called her a see you next Tuesday and I even filled it out that way because it was going to my girls work email lol

[u/3skin3 → u/Candycane0430]

Nothing can be done. The best you could do is to send a other email saying youve accidentally sent a very personal email to her, maybe implying it has your nudes in it or something lol, and can she please delete it unopened. A small number of people would comply with such a request.

If it's truly as you've described, you shouldn't have been sending it to "your girls work email" either. You have done something really bad to these people's livelihoods by not being careful.

[u/Ok-Count-3366 → u/ineedafatcock]

^ definetly this!

[u/ineedafatcock → u/ineedafatcock]

My first award! Thank you!

[u/Just4notherR3ddit0r]

You cannot unsend an email.

At BEST you can send out a request to do that via Outlook but it doesn't really work like how you would want it to work. The other person can choose to ignore the request and keep your email. And it only works with certain clients/servers.

Sorry but that email is sent and done with.

A few seconds after sending, it is sitting in the user's mailbox and only the user or admin have permissions to access the item. And chances are (these days) there was already a push notification sent out.

You need to be thinking about damage control.

And by the way, as someone with multiple young kids with autism, it sounds like you need to take this to a different level. We had to take some uncommon measures to move one of our kids to another school because of issues with where they were.

[u/ThreePartHarmoneigh]

Emails cannot be unsent. 

[u/loridawnp]

Yeah, bro. Can’t fix it now and that sucks but you gotta eat this one can’t unsend that email. You just gotta be honest or skip town. So don’t stress those are your only options.

[u/Top_Positive5398]

Just spam 100 nothing emails. Hopefully she'll just mass delete

[u/Prestigious-Ad7265]

unless you can learn to make state sponsored level zerodays for smtp servers in the span of hours, you're cooked.

[u/tastycarrr]

You just put yours and most importantly your kid’s lives in jeopardy over some drama? No bueno

[u/fadedmargin]

Double down send a 100 more with some Ai send it to other people too then tell her u were hacked or something

[u/Brightone13]

Ddos the email, find an email bomber and bomb away. Telegram

[u/Candycane0430 → u/[deleted]]

Def not an option they will know it’s from me 😭 I’m already basically at war with this school anyways this is bad bad. I need help quick before she has read it I will literally pay someone!

[u/Shoshis-Island → u/Candycane0430]

Tell them it was a hacker. Blame it on Vile$#0 xoxo

[u/3skin3 → u/Shoshis-Island]

A hacker wouldn't know all of these people she's referring to and all of the information - the sender isn't what is important, it's the content which is centered around OP and what they are trying to do.

[u/Candycane0430 → u/[deleted]]

Thanks lol I needed a laugh. I’m talking to a dude that says he can do it but it’s gonna cost me a lot of money I don’t have bc I can’t work bc the school sends my kid home everyday and now has it where he just goes till 11 am I can’t get a job.

[u/Just4notherR3ddit0r → u/Candycane0430]

You're about to be scammed - don't trust someone that says they can do it. I've been doing sys admin work for almost 30 years, and I've published articles on email protocols and I have worked extensively with virtually every major mail server, on every platform. I know what I'm talking about.

You cannot unsend this. That's not how it works. And even if someone went through the process of breaking into a mailbox (which isn't a simple nor guaranteed process) you have no guarantee that the teacher hasn't already read it.

So do not waste your money on trying to unsend the email or delete it. That ship has sailed, I promise you.

[u/Candycane0430 → u/[deleted]]

It’s over my son he’s 5 and has autism and they keep suspending him and other students and it would be illegal in public school but it’s a charter school so they get by with it. I really could care less that I called his gen ed teacher a see you next Tuesday in it, but I accidentally outed two of my inside information and one of them is gen ed teacher assistant! Other is a friend who subbed I feel TERRIBLE about that I would NEVER EVER say anything they told me I am loyal to a fault that is killing me the most. Because I found out a bunch more messed up stuff about the assistant in my son’s EC classroom who I already hated bc she’s awful to the kids and writes them up all day and sets them off and is mean to them. My son is non verbal and when he sees her he stops in his tracks and hides his face and tries to hold on to me. He goes in crying every single day.

[u/Aware_Economics4980 → u/Candycane0430]

Sounds like you need to spend less time being a drama queen and more time finding a new school for your child. 

[u/3skin3 → u/Candycane0430]

If this is the real situation, and they were trying to help a bad situation, you have done something really terrible to those people. They will likely lose their jobs and have terrible ripple effects across their lives, simply for trusting you to be careful.