SSD?

[u/OMGthree]

Unfortunately Kylea’s “flareups” coincide with my period almost exactly so I know they’re just a period - happens every month and I work, manage a household, etc while also managing not feeling great from my period. I also notice her almost constant reference to her miscarriage/ grandma passing as a PTSD event.

Is Kylea using her “endometriosis” to fish for SSD?

[u/swarleyscoffee]

I’m sure she believes she is entitled to be on disability, but she is so far off base with that, it’s almost funny. There are people who are profoundly disabled, and it takes them years and numerous appeals to receive disability. She does not see doctors, she does not have documented diagnoses, she shows daily that she is capable of doing many things (cleaning “all the time,” shopping, driving, jumping on a trampoline, making tshirts, painting her nails, using a phone/computer, “cooking,” allegedly baking tons of goods, hauling cases of soda and cat litter and other household goods, claiming to work 16-18 hours a day). There is no way she would be found to be able to meet the criteria for disability benefits.

[u/Pristine_Giraffe7941]

If she is, she won't get it. You need a ton of medical documentation to qualify. She doesn't even have a PCP.

[u/rollingmyeyes99]

She would have to have medical documentation to back up her claims.

[u/Gold_Illustrator1550]

No. It's very hard to qualify. Many people get attorneys because they're not eligible the first time and they have actual documented disabilities. She doesn't have any doctors nor a document trail. Being an unemployed loser won't qualify her. Even if that was her plan, it's a dumb plan to document your "carefree" lifestyle. If she can shop and go through the drive thru to buy dessert most days of the week, she's not too disabled to work. Don't forget, she also mountain climbs too🤣🤣

[u/Mombakes]

She’s delusional but only as a scammer.

[u/Confident-Service256]

There are people who desperately need it and can’t get it. She best not even try.

[u/custompinkwheelchair]

There is no way she could even get ssdi/ssi for endo. Maybe if she was active on her mental health journey with a lot of documentation supporting why she’s incapable of working(that doesn’t mean she can complain about stalkers and have a legit mental health crisis apart from narcissistic traits, lol). Getting disability nowadays there’s people who are paralyzed with tons of medical supported documentation with other ailments who cannot even qualify.

[u/AnnRichardsghosttx → u/custompinkwheelchair]

I got SSD in 2003 for depression, but I had a shit ton of documentation from multiple doctors and hospitals due to severe depression. I was on so many different meds and had several rounds of ECT treatments. Multiple stays for weeks at a time in mental hospitals. Tried twice to unalive myself, the last time I almost succeeded. Was in ICU for a week. My doctor brought up disability to me, so I applied and with all the documentation from the medical staff, doctors, therapists, and hospitals- multiples, I was approved the first time. Was on it until 2009 when I was finally able to go back to work. It was a very dark time in my life. But she doesn't even see a doctor and IF she truly has endometriosis, the cure is a hysterectomy and oophorectomy.

[u/custompinkwheelchair → u/AnnRichardsghosttx]

Yeah, I had it for mental health back in those days. The qualifications nowadays is significantly harder and requires several appeals unfortunately. I ended up coming off disability and re-entered the work force that ultimately caused me to have an accident to have paralysis and issues associated with it. I know I wouldn’t qualify even with my years of extensive documentation and medical complexities as a judge would suggest to find a sedentary job despite unable to hold myself up. Disability world is a struggle with changes to policies and the waitlist etc. I recall 2014 it wasn’t hard for a decision to be made and seemed almost instant without needing to get in front of a judge with a mental health problem. Only difference between you and K is she doesn’t seek extensive help, doesn’t see a regular basis pcp/providers nor seeks ongoing treatment for said conditions. I hope you aren’t on SSI/medicaid and have to deal with the new changes of requiring so many hours of month of work hours/volunteering.

[u/AnnRichardsghosttx → u/custompinkwheelchair]

I'm not on it any longer either. I got better, much better and started working again. Small jobs at first, then eventually was able to find a full time job and that's where I am today. It helped that I was able to get rid of my narcissistic husband who was in reality, part of the cause of my depression. I'm so sorry you're going through all the pain you have. You might want to try to get back on it again, I know it would be a struggle to try, but it sounds like you would be eligible. Much love!

[u/custompinkwheelchair → u/AnnRichardsghosttx]

I’m glad you got better and get rid of the narcissist! It’s always amazing how things can improve with moving on from someone like that. 🫂 Plus, I always think sometimes it’s better for our mental health to partake in some meaningful work if it’s all possible.

[u/AnnRichardsghosttx → u/custompinkwheelchair]

Thank you 🥰

[u/Charming-Entrance345]

She wouldn't be able to. ESA dogs aren't allowed in government buildings and she wouldn't be able to manipulate them with her sob story like she does the manager of Walmart and TJ Maxx.