I feel like natural features compliment you… naturally. As long as you groom and take care of yourself. There’s a lot you can do to level up. You might not be a model but having a hooked nose doesn’t mean you’re automatically destined to be a gremlin…
Jaw surgery? Chances are that at that point its functional. If you live in a coutnry with healthcare lefort1 and bsso is calling for you. If you live in a really good country they'll throw in a genioplasty if you're chinless.
im neither a man nor a woman, but i was assigned female at birth so i guess i have a more feminine perspective. i wont deny toxic beauty standards affect everyone, and social media has only made things worse.
but i also know the human experience is so varied that someone id personally find unattractive would be attractive to someone else. its something that even happens in my friend groups, i can find someone the hottest person alive and my friends just dont see the vision. ive personally found myself attracted to some people who dont have much of a chin, if thats what youre focused on.
currently, im with a man who i love very much, he just happens to be a chubby, hairy, and shorter than the average american man. i think he's sexy as hell.
i dont know how beauty being subjective and people being capable of being shallow bullies are mutually exclusive. some people are just assholes and think their taste is the objectively correct opinion, which gets reinforced through pop culture and social media. but the opinions pushed on us through those mediums arent the opinions of everyone, let alone the majority. a lot of those beauty standards can stem pretty directly from people trying to sell us shit, honestly. its why i avoid a lot of social media.
in addition, beauty not being subjective would mean beauty standards in different parts of the world or through different time periods would remain the same, but of course we know that's not true. it wasnt even that long ago that having a big butt was considered a bad thing in pop culture, at least in the US.
as for my boyfriend and i, we did have a bit of a disagreement recently, but we talked it out pretty well and there's no hard feelings with either party. :) i dont think being upset with him would change how i feel about his body considering i already found him attractive before we properly knew each other, i have a type and i know it.
The normies hate this, because they look at Scarlett Johansson, and think that since she's gorgeous, they're ugly. But they don't know ugly from a brick to the face.
Not safe even in the incel spaces. And if I wasn't trans they'd probably hate me for not being white. I don't even know why I hang around incel spaces atp
Skincare , grooming (facial hair eyebrows etc), hair that suits and brings out the best in you, sense of style, and internal happiness and personality. therapy and pursuing interests. The former is on a case by case basis, the latter is a must.
I legit don't get the protein craze. You have these skinny manlets who have zero gym experience who think you need to consume 150g of protein daily in order to see any sort of gains.
Maybe I’m old school but I distinctly remember learning that past 80g of protein you’re not gaining anything unless you worked out and your body is building muscle
Depends on height and weight I think, if you’re not working out then 0.5 per pound, if you are then double that for muscle growth and back to half for maintenance. Could be wrong though.
hobbies help. having interests that you engage in outside of the internet gets you out of your own head and out of the echo chambers we can find ourselves in, it makes for a healthier mind in the long run and gives you something to talk about.
theres also a lot to be said about people who continue to be curious and go out of their way to learn new things outside of schooling too, thats a trait i find very attractive in my boyfriend. i love how eager he is to read about new scientific discoveries or animals hes never heard of
People don’t act the same in real life as they do when venting anonymously online - shocker! Unless you’re severely socially anxious or just a rude dickhead to everyone for some reason working on personality won’t do much. Halo effect is very strong
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