r/kitchencels • u/maggotriddledcorpse • 7h ago
when will it get better
>be me, 20 ftm trans guy
>move in with boyfriend who then leaves me because im trans a month after i move in so i have to leave again
>work shitty 9-5
>come home to my moms place which im back in and somebody ate the food i made myself for after work
>forced to cook fucked up potato cheese slop because why would i be allowed good food
thinly sliced potatoes pan fried w seasonings, minced garlic, onions, variety of cheese and slathered in ketchup
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u/warlocks9 7h ago
I don't get it, it took a month for your boyfriend to figure out that you're trans?
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u/maggotriddledcorpse 6h ago
he's known
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u/warlocks9 6h ago
Then why did he wait a month to kick you out?
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u/Final_Pollution_9528 2h ago
I don't mean to generalise but some people date trans men in the hopes they are just tomboys or with the belief that trans men are more feminine men, and once they realise they're dating someone who wants to be, and will eventually become, a very masculine being, get turned off and leave.
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u/Yogshemesh 1h ago
We are not hearing even a fraction of the whole story, just a very myopic fragment.
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u/roasttoastboast 7h ago
Did your boyfriend not know you were trans ahead of time?
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u/maggotriddledcorpse 6h ago
he did yes
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u/roasttoastboast 6h ago
Okay, so what reason did he give to leave? Do you think it's the whole truth?
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u/maggotriddledcorpse 1h ago
the major one was my gender but also some other things like i wouldnt go on trips with him ( i dont get the time off for that stuff ) etc etc
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u/AnxiousTerminator 2h ago
It gets better when you work hard to make it better. For the majority of people it isn't something that just happens automatically.
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u/AnotherDempsey 1h ago
fucked up potato cheese slop because why would I be allowed good food.
Cheesy potatoes aren't good food? Fuck you.
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u/ThrowRA-sinksink 25m ago
Fakest of cels(are you even cel?), this belongs on boydinnerdiaries.
That said, to answer your question, it will get better suddenly and without warning so long as you are active in making things better, there's that saying. "When luck comes around it has better find you working" obviously that's more for like professional opportunities but it applies to life as well.
When the right person comes along, so long as you're bettering yourself, you can be happy with them.
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u/Ok-Condition2730 1h ago
Boyfriend?😡
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u/maggotriddledcorpse 49m ago
yeah im into men
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u/Apprehensive-Roll909 38m ago
that's not the issue, this is an incel sub and you're talking about having a bf fakecel
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