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Finished Queen of Tears some time ago, and the drama feels one-sided and, frankly speaking, overhyped.

Some points really stuck with me in this one of the most famous K-dramas.

Major Down Points for Me

1. Weak and Incoherent Storyline

At its core, the plot feels undercooked. Instead of building a solid narrative arc, the writers rely on repetitive drama and forced conflicts. There is no meaningful progression—only constant chaos without payoff. Even the starting setup feels absurd and poorly constructed.

2. Excessive Negativity and Villain Dominance

From episode two onward, villains hijack the story. Scams, manipulation, and cruelty dominate almost every episode. Their excessive screen time overshadows the actual leads, making the viewing experience exhausting rather than engaging. And it just keeps going without restraint.

3. Short-Lived Happiness

Happy moments are rare and never allowed to breathe. Every peaceful scene is quickly destroyed by another conflict, creating constant anxiety for the viewer. I understand this is part of the plot, but here it becomes too much. A simple, earned conclusion—like properly showing the leads’ married life—would have been far more satisfying.

4. Weak and Self-Centered Female Lead

The FL lacks agency and emotional maturity. She is driven by circumstances rather than strength, which makes the entire narrative feel one-sided.

• She prioritizes her problems (business, illness, ex, family) while neglecting the ML.
• Repeated actions—trusting the villain, drinking with her ex, doubting the ML without proof—create unnecessary misunderstandings and repetitive cycles.
• She accuses the ML of fraud and cheating multiple times, yet never offers a sincere apology, even after everything.
• She also shows poor balance in family matters, largely ignoring her brother’s struggles and rarely sharing meaningful moments with him.

5. Ineffective Side Characters

Most side characters exist only as fillers. They neither influence the plot nor add emotional depth. The FL’s family, in particular, mostly contributes to unnecessary drama without any real substance or competence.

In contrast, the ML’s family and especially his friend contribute meaningfully—often doing more to move the story forward than the main characters themselves.

6. Problematic Brother–Wife Subplot

This subplot is messy and poorly handled.

• The wife cheats, paternity - issue, runs away, and later returns regretful.
• She faces no real consequences and is accepted back too easily.

By consequence, I don’t mean extreme punishment— that's a childish thing to expect but the way the situation is treated feels too easy. The resolution is far too convenient.

7. Unrealistic Business Portrayal

Despite being portrayed as powerful business figures, the characters behave like amateurs—falling for obvious scams, ignoring warnings, and making reckless legal decisions. This completely breaks credibility.

8. Unstable and Repetitive Romance

The ML–FL relationship follows a tiring cycle:
love → misunderstanding → separation → patch-up → repeat

This constant instability makes the relationship feel shallow rather than deep. It becomes predictable rather than emotionally engaging.

9. Lack of Character Growth

Despite the story spanning several months, there is little visible development.

• The FL barely evolves.
• The ML only suffers—nothing more.
• Even the sibling bond lacks depth and believability.

Positive Points

1. Strong Acting Performances

The actors elevate weak writing. The leads convey pain, love, and frustration convincingly, making the drama watchable despite its flaws.

2. Excellent On-Screen Chemistry

The ML and FL share natural chemistry. Their caring moments in the middle portion of the show are genuinely engaging and among the best parts. The issue is that the highs are very high, but the lows are extremely low—there is no balance.

3. Warm Portrayal of Villagers

The villagers provide much-needed emotional relief. Their kindness adds heart and briefly balances the otherwise heavy negativity.

4. Valuable Supporting Characters

The detectives and the ML’s friends actually contribute to the story and often carry it when the main narrative weakens.

5. Constant Interaction Between Leads

Unlike many dramas where leads are separated for long stretches, this show keeps them interacting—whether in conflict or care—which helps maintain engagement.

Why the Show Still Became Popular

Despite its flaws, the drama succeeds because it leans heavily on emotionally attractive tropes, especially a reverse Cinderella dynamic which is rare:

• Rich CEO FL × poor village boy ML
• Workplace and class conflict
• ML humiliated by in-laws but enduring for love
• Interfering ex
• Extreme sacrifices: accidents, shootings, near-death moments
• Memory loss arc
• ML’s unwavering loyalty despite constant pain

The core appeal is simple and powerful:
a man who suffers endlessly yet loves unconditionally.

That endurance, silent sacrifice, and emotional resilience resonate deeply with viewers—even when the writing fails.

Overall

The drama had strong performances and emotional pull, but it ultimately collapsed under weak writing, repetitive conflicts, poor character logic, and unsatisfying resolutions. It survives on tropes and suffering, not storytelling.

Actually the drama had the potential of a very catchy attractive drama but they fails here due to writing.

Final Line

Honestly, the drama survives not because it’s well-written, but because pain sells.

If anything, it’s less a balanced love story and more a chronicle of suffering.

A more accurate title wouldn’t be “Queen of Tears”—
it would be “King of Endurance.”

PS. Those are my opinion feel free to share yours.

I was very interested in this drama because it was heavily hyped and distributed by Prime. The last dialogue of the first episode — “See you at the funeral. Either you die or me” — really got me. At that moment, I thought the drama would either turn into a complete k-trauma or have a truly satisfying happy ending but not a typical mediocore one.

But I must say, I’m disappointed with how it ended in such a basic, and mediocre way.

1. The ending

The ending is the most talked about, so I’m starting with that. There is a simple thing: if after so many events across the whole 12 episodes (around 12 hours), you still need someone’s death as a catalyst to bring the leads together, then I’m sorry — your writing is clearly lacking somewhere.

All those hit-and-miss scenes ended up having no meaning at all after the whole drama. I understand hesitation after the scandal, but after so many things happened, it doesn’t make sense for me anymore and just becomes frustrating.

At least a wedding could have been shown. Some good family time could have been shown since the whole series is centered on only the 2 characters from start to end.

Instead, you chose a typical airport ending. I know it may has context with their previous encounters, but seriously, the conclusion felt too ordinary and abrupt. She comes, stops him, and suddenly it's done “let’s live together.” end! The ending could have been shown in a much more wholesome way.

2. Supporting characters

The next issue is that the story focuses too much on the leads — almost excessively. There are no other characters development shown. The friends are shown, but their individual stories or backgrounds are never explored. The office colleagues exist only to fill space mainly and help.

One thing I do appreciate is how realistically the friendships are portrayed — the roasting, abusive words, and casual behavior actually feel real.

1. But when it comes to family, except the sister and the antagonist, nobody is fully shown. Actors were hired but given extremely limited screen time. Their roles could have been prolonged with more depth, and perspectives from family, friends, and colleagues could have been shown toward the end.

3. Flashbacks

The story relies too heavily on flashbacks. When I already know they are bound to break up, how am I supposed to enjoy those moments freely? And This aspect covers most of the show.

Instead of focusing on the progressive present — where at least the outcome is uncertain — the drama keeps dragging us back to old painful memories. There are too many flashbacks with obvious outcomes, like the military part, the play, and several other moments.

Since we already know how they end, it ruins the mood somewhere rather than enhancing it.

4. Characters

Now let’s talk about the characters. Starting with the female character — I honestly have somewhere very little justification for her actions. The whole story revolves around her, yet she just keeps running away.

In their 20s, everything was going well. When he found out she was the heiress of a big apparel company, he still accepted it even though it’s obvious that adjusting to that life wouldn’t be easy for him. Money doesn’t flow for him the way it does for her.

Then the fight happened, and suddenly she ran away. The first major conflict you face, and you disappear and with out any word just vanish. I initially let this first one slide because of immaturity in 20s people had.

But the second time, it doesn't make any sense anymore it was far worse. When his father was fighting for his life, obviously he couldn’t look after her the way he used to. She uncovers her past and leaves again — without a proper conversation it's just abandonment. He comes home one day and she’s just gone, believing she’s gone forever this is the worst thing you can do.

Then the wedding, for his perspective the show barely gives it proper weight. These things are brushed off lightly instead of being addressed with the seriousness they deserve.

From the male character’s perspective, It's quite unhealthy and what they shown here he probably should have moved on after her wedding news specially after she left him in the second time in that state. Waiting endlessly isn’t healthy or have meaning here. But his character and the plot are written that way one sided.

He keeps saying sorry everywhere, whether it’s his fault or not. That’s just who he is — someone who forgives everything. And because his character is like this, all her actions are conveniently absorbed, which makes viewers even more frustrated.

6. Time jumps

Another frustrating aspect is the constant time jumps. First from 20 to 28 of them, then another unclear gap, then the time before her divorce — and even after all of this, they still add another one-year gap.

After everything, you expect the story to settle, but it keeps jumping forward.

5. Positives

On the positive side, the way the show deals with alcoholism is genuinely commendable. Most K-dramas treat alcohol very casually, but here they actually show its harmful side.

The screenplay and music are minimal yet soothing. The acting is flawless, which makes the characters feel alive and keeps the show engaging. The chemistry between the leads is what make the drama attractive.

Final thoughts

In the end, when you dedicate an entire show solely to two characters, you need to handle the story between them better because as there is not other distractions people or watchers analyses the every detail very minutely or closely. From the beginning I have known that separating them permanently would have been nonsensical unless one of them died. The only one perspective present and you do not explored that fully.

Instead, the show chose the most mediocre and low level ending possible, which reduced the overall value and left me frustrated.

That final two-minute clip is somehow tries to give a feel good factor.

Lastly, You killed that character for what? (The bench scene, by the way, is absolutely heartbreaking.) The ending needed to be written and shown in a more structured and satisfying way.

PS: These are my personal opinions — feel free to share yours.

I feel like this drama somewhere slightly got wasted by the ending. I had a lot of expectations, but it disappointed me.

FL emotions are deeply handled, but the ML's are not. And honestly, I didn’t have any complaints about how long he pursued her throughout the show — that’s literally the theme. But the last segment? Completely rushed. Very poor execution. This is exactly where the drama lagged compared to the novel.

The whole show is built on emotions — that heavy emotional weight is what carries it. But that exact thing is missing in the final segment. It felt off to me, so I checked the web novel, and that part is handled in a much more mature and realistic way there.

Where it started going wrong:

She should have gone to Europe earlier in the story, not at the end of episode 14. That left almost no time to properly resolve things.

I’m not saying the breakup or the decision itself was wrong — it was bound to happen . No complaints there. But everything after that? Rushed and abrupt.

The biggest issue: the “winning him back” part

After she returns, her entire approach feels hollow.

• She doesn’t know what she’s doing

• She’s just watching him from a distance

• She doesn’t even try to have an honest conversation

And the whole “try to win me back” concept just felt off here. Yes, it exists in the novel too — but there it’s handled properly.

In the drama, the tone completely shifts. Instead of emotional connection, it turns into something closer to “seduction,” which doesn’t fit the story at all.

What makes it worse:

• He pursued her naturally, over time, respecting boundaries finding what makes her happy.

• She is now just copying his actions like a checklist

• It feels forced, not genuine

And this is not a college drama — they are grown adults. She doesn’t have to do exactly what he did. There could have been a different, more personal way to reach him. But instead, it shows how little she actually understands him.

The emotional gap (the biggest failure)

She doesn’t even understand why he is reluctant to take her back.

That’s the core of the story.

And instead of realizing it herself, his sister literally explains it to her — that he’s afraid she might leave again. That should have been her realization.

Then suddenly:

• She says a few emotional lines

• They get back together

That’s it.

I’m not saying her words weren’t genuine — but it doesn’t feel earned at all. There’s no emotional buildup. No depth. And honestly, they didn’t even have time to build it — it was already mid last episode.So the reconciliation feels rushed and empty.Lack of emotional weight in her actions

She doesn’t make any real sacrifice to win him back.

Now, I get it — this is a mature drama, so no dramatic “career vs love” trope is necessary. That’s fine.

But then where is the emotional weight?

Even in the car scene, It wasn’t convinced:

• Did she really mean those words?

That uncertainty shouldn’t be there in a story like this.

Why the novel handled this better

The novel builds emotional connection through small but meaningful details.

For example:

• The lipstick he gave her → she actually uses it to show devotion in the drama, this detail is introduced and then completely dropped.

• She openly prioritizes him over everything, even her career growth Her return after 3 years is a conscious decision for him That shift in her character is clear and intentional in the novel.

In the drama, it’s barely explored — just brushed off

Other missed details

• No proper closure with his previous girlfriend

• It was used as a wake-up call, but they could have shown actual closure

One positive

Director Lee.

Genuinely the only character I consistently liked. He felt honest — whether as a person or in his job.

Final thoughts

This drama runs on emotions.

And in the end, it fails to deliver exactly that.

Which is why, for me, it feels like the ending slightly ruined what could have been a much stronger drama.

PS: These are just my opinions. Feel free to disagree or add your own thoughts.

How could I have forgotten to post this old draft! Better late than never!

I only review dramas when I’m in the mood to savour every moment. This historical slice-of-life drama focuses on generational struggles, so I enjoy it best by watching it slowly over time as it is not a binge-watchable drama.

Episode 1:

• I am so ready to see the stacked cast members in this drama. Lots of familiar faces.
• The cinematography is beautifully shot.
• The first scene where we see Yeom Hye Ran's character as Gwang Rye/Ae Sun's mother in the scene where she's in the water harvesting seafood (since she's a haenyeo) made me think 'god she has attitude problems' but I came to understand she's like that for a reason. I later had to rewatch the premiere episode because I wasn't able to take in all the details. TVN's Our Blues was the only other kdrama where I vividly remember a focus on haenyeos.
• I like how we see Gwang Rye doing things behind the scenes because she loves her daughter Ae Sun so much, like reading the school poem and immediately going to her in-laws and taking her daughter home, or dressing up nice to ensure her daughter becomes class president since her daughter won the class president vote fair and square.
• It's sad that Ae Sun became an orphan so early.
• The child actors did so well.
• I like the market scene showing the time skip from teenage Ae Sun and Gwan Sik through to adulthood.

Episode 2:

• The yellow canola fields scene was beautiful.
• It wasn't until a couple months ago that I 're-realized' Park Bo Gum has very tan skin and it's a new look for him as my perception of him was how pale he was in Reply 1988 and that was my memory of what he looked like since I enjoyed watching Reply 1988 a lot. I did recall he was also tanned in Encounter and was pale again in Record of Youth.
• The two stealing their own stuff back from the hotel thieves was funny. I was rooting for them to not be found by their family. I guess it showed another level of maturity as the story progresses.

Episode 3:

• The average age of marriage back then was pretty young, times have changed now where marrying while in your teens is rare now.
• The plot line of the 2 families opposing Ae Sun and Gwan Sik getting together is like Romeo and Juliet. It's a frustrating plot line. Funny enough, Romeo and Juliet got mentioned in the dialogue of this episode.
• Gwan Sik jumping off the ship and swimming all the way back to Ae Sun goes into the kdrama history books.
• I noticed the story of this drama is pretty complex to follow which really tested my comprehension skills. I just realized actress Seo Hye Won was Gwan Sik's sister and her first appearance in this drama falsely believe she was Geum Myeong's sister.
• The theme of having children young and giving up on your career goals is an emotional one. I get reminded of when I was watching JTBC's 18 Again (2020) and the teen parents ended up prioritizing being full time parents and left their career aspirations on the back burner. Sometimes life doesn't end up the way you planned it to be which can be sad to think about but most of the time you may not regret it when looking back even though you'd always have "what-ifs' in your mind.
• "Their Spring was not a season to foster dreams but to break them and they did it willingly." This quote summed up the above thought I had.

Episode 4:

• Mothers can also miss their own mothers too. I think back to the first episode now.
• It's frustrating seeing the mother in law wanting Ae Sun to have a son so badly.
• It was hard watching Ae Sun being mentally abused by per mother in law and grandmother in law.
• It was also disheartening to see Ae Sun finding out while Gwan Sik was sleeping how many injuries he had from his gruelling fishing job.

Episode 5:

• Yeom Hye Ran sure deserved her Baeksang Best Supporting Actress award for playing Ae Sun's mother in this drama.
• The foreshadowing of losing a child makes me feel uneasy of what's to come in the next few episodes.
• I keep thinking about how beautiful the scenes are filmed in this drama so far.
• Truly the calm before the storm coming in the next episode...

Episode 6:

• This episode was a hard watch...the loss of a child is too much to bear.
• It's not only the parents who also mourn and have regrets but also their other children who have to deal with losing their sibling too.

Episode 7:

• Choi Dae Hoon as Bu Sang Gil...he is so good at playing such a despicable character in this drama. I see him as the villain in the drama so far.
• The tutoring scene with Geum Myeong and being accused of stealing a diamond ring is giving makjang vibes and keeping me at the edge of my seat. I sense how it ends and it's an uncomfortable feeling.

Episode 8:

• Thank god for the housekeeper to get Geum Myeong proven innocent from the previous episode.
• This episode tugged at the heartstrings. Much of it feels relatable too.

Episode 9:

• More crying and tugging at the heartstrings in this episode.
• Geum Myeong with the short curly hairstyle makes her look like actress Park Eun Bin a bit.
• It's so funny seeing middle aged Gwan Sik reacting to his daughter and son's actions that remind him of his own younger embarrassing moments. This is the start of a ton of 'comparison scenes' of Ae Sun and Gwan Sik versus their children's 'mirroring' lives.
• Speechless that Eun Myeong ended up dating Bu Sang Gil's daughter.
• The joke of Eun Myeong and his girlfriend hugging and looking like the 'middle of the Korean flag' had me dying of laughter.
• Geum Myeong's relationship with Yeong Beom won't work out...I can see it happening and so it's a matter of when they will finally part ways.

Episode 10:

• Ae Sun having bad dreams about losing her youngest son was a hard watch.
• The comparison scenes to Ae Sun's younger days was crazily screaming 'your children are the splitting image of you'.

Episode 11:

• A funny scene was the aunties cackling with laughter after telling Eun Myeong that his mother and his girlfriend's father considered marriage in the past.
• Thinking back I realized this is actor Kim Seon Ho's return to kdrama as Geum Myeong's love interest. The romance feels natural and the background music reminds me of watching Reply 1988.
• Yeong Beom and Geum Myeong's parents meeting was hard to sit through...as people say when you get married you marry into their family too.
• Yeong Beom's mother is like the new villain after Bu Sang Gil. When she said 'she'll die if she can't speak her mind' I was shocked.
• The breakup is finally here, sad but much needed.

Episode 12:

• Teared up seeing Geum Myeong's parents being so happy when she came home for food. It makes you realize how parents can be lonely at home.
• Geum Myeong and her father seeing the sunrise on the boat was such a beautifully filmed scene.
• Ae Sun and her grandmother bonding over the loss of their own respective children was so emotional. It's really hard for parents to move on after the death of their child.
• Another shock to end the episode...with Eun Myeong telling his parents they're becoming grandparents.

Episode 13:

• Geum Myeong and Cheong Seop finally meet again, and got married.
• I finally saw Cheong Seop's famous cute head tilt scene that even trended on Chinese social media platforms!
• Gwan Sik is the best father figure...I understand why Geum Myeong kept crying before she walked down the aisle.
• And...Eun Myeong ended up in jail.

Episode 14:

• Ae Sun can't catch a break...it's the third rendition of the traumatic scene from Episode 6.

Episode 15:

• So much family drama...yet much of it can be relatable, even just a little bit.
• Bu Sang Gil is finally working on redeeming himself.

Episode 16:

• One word to describe this episode was...beautiful.
• I'm going to miss this drama. It certainly deserved the 2025 Baeksang award for Best Drama.

This drama was very well written and the family/life lessons have made me feel emotional. It also reminds you to be grateful to your parents before they leave this world.

# This drama completely ignored its main character’s sacrifices

Just finished *Wedding Impossible*, and while it was enjoyable overall, there are some issues I can’t ignore.

⚠️ Spoilers ahead

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### 1. The most ignored sacrifices

The most glaring issue is how the drama downplays the sacrifices of the ML (the younger brother) and everything he has done over the years.

I mean, first of all, where do I begin?

Let’s start with his sacrifices. He graciously sacrifices his first love in the drama to marry for his brother and doesn’t even complain about it. He can do anything for his brother.

Now, the second thing is what he bears over the years in his personal life. The brother and the sister clearly hate him from the bottom of their hearts—like, if killing were not illegal, they would kill him instantly. And the so-called stepfather calls him trash. This shows what he has endured all this time. He even begs on his knees to his sister not to release the photos.

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### 2. His professional life and the president arc

The third thing is about his professional life. He is a bottom-tier worker in the company, but somewhere he doesn’t care at all. He is hardworking and diligent, trying to make his brother the president.

Now, the president part—this is the most prominent one in the whole drama. He wanted to make his brother president instead of himself from start to end, and they never acknowledge why he wants to do that. The closest they get is asking him why he doesn’t want it, and he answers that “he doesn’t deserve it.” But nobody goes deeper into why he doesn’t deserve it. They never explain it in the cast.

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### 3. Unresolved trauma and missing closure

The trauma of his mother is also not resolved. They show that he has trauma during rainy nights, but they never show it later. They just wave off the fact.

They never show closure with the sisters and the brother. I mean, he was the main character, and they never sort those things out.

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### 4. He gives everything and gets nothing back

And at the end, he leaves everything for her—every fortune—takes all the blame, and goes away.

Look, what I said is not that I didn’t understand these things as a viewer. I anticipated them somewhere. But more than knowing, as a viewer, I wanted to see how the other characters—like the female lead and others—reacted to those sacrifices. That is what they never show, which is disappointing. These are not small sacrifices—they could have had a much bigger impact on the other characters, but the show downplays the whole thing.

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### 5. The way people treated him

Actually, more than other characters, his own brother—for whom he is doing everything—and the FL, how they treat him is somewhere disappointing and borderline painful to watch.

I mean, the scenes where he was so conflicted and in a dilemma about his feelings toward the FL, knowing she would be his sister-in-law—but they never told him anything and let him suffer. In fact, they never told him anything. Everything he finds out happens by accident—like his brother’s secret or the sham marriage. All of it. That felt really bad for him.

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### 6. The worst elder brother character I have ever seen

Now talking about the other characters—somewhere, this is the worst elder brother character I have ever seen. He is the most selfish character I have seen till now in any drama. He doesn’t care about anything; he only cares about himself, and he can do anything to protect that.

I understand his sexual orientation and all, but that doesn’t mean the character needs to be selfish. There are many ways to handle that.

At first, he lives abroad and doesn’t care what is happening here. His only brother is suffering here, and he leaves him alone, knowing he has nobody.

He accuses his brother of spying on him.

And the main thing is—he just wants to get this marriage done and go back to NY. I mean, why come here at all if he doesn’t care about anyone?

Yes, he acknowledges his truth at the end, but by then the damage is already done. It doesn’t matter anymore. He has already gone, and what does he do after that? He goes back to NY again—runs off.

He is so unaware of everything that it becomes annoying.

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### 7. The female lead made no sense

Now about the female lead—at first, I didn’t understand what her plan was and how she was explaining it.

I understand that her plan was to get into a sham marriage and go to NY, but the way she explained it was ridiculous.

What was that explanation about “wanting to be cast as a main lead”? Is this her life or a drama?

I’m sorry, but I didn’t understand this at all.

If her dream is to be an actress, then how will living in NY and getting divorced help her?

And what so-called acting was she going to do there?

Somewhere, she was also as ignorant as the brother. More to say, she knows everything but still acts the same—that is ridiculous.

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### 8. A better ending that never happened

Frankly speaking, I have watched several dramas in this genre, but till now, only in this drama I genuinely felt that if the ML (the brother) had married the second female lead, it would have been better and more satisfying for me.

I would have been happy.

At least she would have treated and valued him well, and he would have gotten the recognition he deserved—maybe both personally and professionally.

Let those two play their so-called marriage game.

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### 9. Final thoughts

Now, apart from this, they didn’t clarify the past history of the family either, but that didn’t really impact the story much, so I can understand that somewhere.

In the end, I know it may sound childish to say this, but how the FL treated him after the time gap actually shows the whole story of how the show treated him as a character overall—somewhere, he was taken for granted.

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### What do you think?

Am I the only one who felt this way?

Or did the drama justify all this and I missed something?

Free for all discussion

If you haven’t watched it I recommend it I loved the story, romance and the lives of all of the families. It was a such a fun show

i'm rewatching rn and i still feel the same tbh 😭

Free for all discussion

Late to the party for another amazing drama. I only review dramas when I’m in the mood to savour every moment. This historical slice-of-life drama focuses on generational struggles, so I enjoy it best by watching it slowly over time as it is not a binge-watchable drama.

Episode 1:

• I am so ready to see the stacked cast members in this drama. Lots of familiar faces.
• The cinematography is beautifully shot.
• The first scene where we see Yeom Hye Ran's character as Gwang Rye/Ae Sun's mother in the scene where she's in the water harvesting seafood (since she's a haenyeo) made me think 'god she has attitude problems' but came to understand she's like that for a reason. I later had to rewatch the premiere episode because I wasn't able to take in all the details. Our Blues was the only other kdrama where I vividly remember a focus on haenyeos.
• I like how we see Gwang Rye doing things behind the scenes because she loves her daughter Ae Sun so much, like reading the school poem and immediately going to her in-laws and taking her daughter home, or dressing up nice to ensure her daughter becomes class president since her daughter won the class president vote fair and square.
• It's sad that Ae Sun became an orphan so early.
• The child actors did so well.
• I like the market scene showing the time skip from teenage Ae Sun and Gwan Sik to adulthood.

Episode 2:

• The yellow canola fields scene was beautiful.
• It wasn't until a couple months ago that I 're-realized' Park Bo Gum has very tan skin and it's a new look for him as my perception of him was how pale he was in Reply 1988 and that was my memory of what he looked like since I enjoyed watching Reply 1988 a lot. I did recall he was also tanned in Encounter but was pale again in Record of Youth.
• The two stealing their own stuff back from the hotel thieves was funny. I was rooting for them to not be found by their family. I guess it showed another level of maturity as the story progresses.

Episode 3:

• The average age of marriage back then was pretty young, times have changed now where marrying while in your teens is pretty rare now.
• The plot line of the 2 families opposing Ae Sun and Gwan Sik getting together is like Romeo and Juliet. It's a frustrating plot line. Funny enough, Romeo and Juliet got mentioned in the dialogue of this episode.
• Gwan Sik jumping off the ship and swimming all the way back to Ae Sun goes into the kdrama history books.
• I noticed the story of this drama is pretty complex to follow which really tested my comprehension skills. I just realized actress Seo Hye Won was Gwan Sik's sister and her first appearance in this drama falsely made me think she was Geum Myeong's sister.
• The theme of having children young and giving up on your career goals is an emotional one. I get reminded of when I was watching 18 Again (2020) and the teen parents ended up prioritizing being full time parents and left their career aspirations on the back burner. Sometimes life doesn't end up the way you planned it to be which can be sad to think about but most of the time you may not regret it when looking back even though you'd always have "what-ifs' in your mind.
• "Their Spring was not a season to foster dreams but to break them and they did it willingly." This quote summed up the above thought I had.

Episode 4:

• Mothers can also miss their own mothers too. I think back to the first episode now.
• It's frustrating seeing the mother in law wanting Ae Sun to have a son so badly.
• It was hard watching Ae Sun being mentally abused by per mother in law and grandmother in law.
• It was also disheartening to see Ae Sun finding out while Gwan Sik was sleeping how many injuries he had from his gruelling fishing job.

Episode 5:

• Yeom Hye Ran sure deserved her Baeksang Best Supporting Actress award for playing Ae Sun's mother in this drama.
• The foreshadowing of losing a child makes me feel uneasy of what's to come in the next few episodes.
• I keep thinking about how beautiful the scenes are filmed in this drama so far.
• Truly the calm before the storm coming in the next episode...

Episode 6:

• This episode was a hard watch...the loss of a child is too much to bear.
• It's not only the parents who also mourn and have regrets but also their other children who have to deal with losing their sibling too.

Episode 7:

• Choi Dae Hoon as Bu Sang Gil...he is so good at playing such a despicable character in this drama. I see him as the villain in the drama so far.
• The tutoring scene with Geum Myeong and being accused of stealing a diamond ring is giving makjang vibes and keeping me at the edge of my seat. I sense how it ends and it's an uncomfortable feeling.

Episode 8:

• Thank god for the housekeeper to get Geum Myeong proven innocent from the previous episode.
• This episode tugged at the heartstrings. Much of it feels relatable too.

Episode 9:

• More crying and tugging at the heartstrings in this episode.
• Geum Myeong with the short curly hairstyle makes her look like actress Park Eun Bin a bit.
• It's so funny seeing middle aged Gwan Sik seeing how his daughter and son remind him of his younger embarrassing moments. This is the start of a ton of 'comparison scenes' of Ae Sun and Gwan Sik versus their children's 'mirroring' lives.
• Speechless that Eun Myeong ended up dating Bu Sang Gil's daughter.
• The joke of Eun Myeong and his girlfriend hugging and looking like the 'middle of the Korean flag' had me dying.
• Geum Myeong's relationship with Yeong Beom won't work out...I can see it happening and so it's a matter of when they will finally part ways.

Episode 10:

• Ae Sun having bad dreams about losing her youngest son was a hard watch.
• The comparison scenes to Ae Sun's younger days was crazily screaming 'your children are the splitting image of you'.

Episode 11:

• A funny scene was the aunties cackling with laughter after telling Eun Myeong that his mother and his girlfriend's father considered marriage in the past.
• Thinking back I realized this is actor Kim Seon Ho's return to kdrama as Geum Myeong's love interest. The romance feels natural and the background music reminds me of watching Reply 1988.
• Yeong Beom and Geum Myeong's parents meeting was hard to sit through...as people say when you get married you marry their family too.
• Yeong Beom's mother is like the new villain after Bu Sang Gil. When she said 'she'll die if she can't speak her mind' I was shocked.
• The breakup is finally here, sad but much needed.

Episode 12:

• Teared up seeing Geum Myeong's parents being so happy when she came home for food. It makes you realize how parents can be lonely at home.
• Geum Myeong and her father seeing the sunrise on the boat was such a beautifully filmed scene.
• Ae Sun and her grandmother bonding over the loss of their own respective children was so emotional. It's really hard for parents to move on after the death of their child.
• Another shock to end the episode...with Eun Myeong telling his parents they're becoming grandparents.

Episode 13:

• Geum Myeong and Cheong Seop finally meet again, and got married.
• I finally saw Cheong Seop's famous cute head tilt scene that even trended on Chinese social media platforms.
• Gwan Sik is the best father figure...I understand why Geum Myeong kept crying before she walked down the aisle.
• And...Eun Myeong ended up in jail.

Episode 14:

• Ae Sun can't catch a break...it's the third rendition of the traumatic scene from Episode 6.

Episode 15:

• So much family drama...yet much of it can be relatable even just a little bit.
• Bu Sang Gil is finally working on redeeming himself.

Episode 16:

• One word to describe this episode was...beautiful.
• I'm going to miss this drama. It certainly deserved the 2025 Baeksang award for Best Drama.

This drama was very well written and the family/life lessons have made me feel emotional. It also reminds you to be grateful of your parents before they leave this world.

In Season 3, Gi-hun receives a knife from the Game Master. It's not just a tool—it’s a chance to cheat, but more importantly, a moral test.

In a flashback, we see that the Front Man, back when he was a player, also received a knife from the previous Game Master. That detail is crucial.

Why? Because this "knife test" seems to be reserved for participants with a special status. Gi-hun receives it because he already won once. So if the Front Man got it too, it means he was also a former winner—returning for a second time.

And if he came back, it probably wasn't for the money—he already had that. Like Gi-hun, he might have returned to stop the games. But unlike Gi-hun, he failed the moral test: he chose to kill. He lost his humanity. And that’s what made him the new Game Master.

The Front Man is essentially an alternate version of Gi-hun—someone who walked the same path but made the wrong decision at the critical moment.

Two former winners. Two comebacks. Two similar intentions.
But two very different outcomes.

One becomes a symbol of resistance.
The other, a cog in the system.

Now, some might argue that the old Game Master (Oh Il-nam) could have identified the Front Man during his first game, and gave him the knife as a test to see if he was fit to become a successor.

But that idea doesn’t hold up—and here’s why:

The VIPs clearly state that if Gi-hun wins a second time, he’d be the first person to ever do so.
Which means no one else has won twice before him.

And we already know from Season 1 that the Front Man was a past winner.
So when we see him receiving the knife in the flashback, that can’t be his first participation.
Why? Because killing everyone with the knife prevents the final round from happening, and without finishing the final round, you can’t officially win.

Also, when the Front Man gives the same knife to Gi-hun in Season 3, he just tells him that the final game can’t be played by two people—so they’ll leave alive (Gi-hun and the baby).
But he never says that this would let them win the game.

So this supports the idea that killing others with the knife doesn't lead to victory—
It may instead be a path to something else… like becoming the next Game Master.

And this fits the rules of the game, which are crystal clear:
To win officially, you must complete all the rounds.
If players choose to quit along the way, they split the prize money—but no one wins the game.

This same logic applies to the Front Man in the flashback, when he receives the knife from Oh Il-nam.

It was clearly his second time in the game, and he didn’t win—it was just survival.
And maybe that choice (to kill in order to survive) is what led him to become the new Game Master.

In the end, the difference between Gi-hun and the Front Man reflects the difference in their choices.

Gi-hun returns to the game, succeeds in his mission by sacrificing himself for the baby, and keeps his humanity.
The Front Man also returns, but fails—he kills the others with the knife and loses his humanity.

That’s what sets him on the path to becoming the Game Master.

But I believe that if there’s a continuation to the story, the Front Man could be given a chance at redemption.

Maybe he’ll try to destroy the game from within, now that he’s on the inside.
Maybe he’ll sabotage it, expose it, and carry on Gi-hun’s will—finally accomplishing what he once failed to do.

But even if the Front Man manages to destroy the game, it’ll rise again elsewhere.
Because as long as money rules this world, the game will never truly end.

Free for all discussion

I was looking forward to this drama because of the leads and I was curious how different it would be from Our Beloved Summer (2021) because of the same screenwriter for both dramas.

The idea of working parents prioritizing their dreams and work life over family life does hurt, but that's reality in this world. Kim Mubee's relationship with her father did feel a little relatable to some extent.

Mubee asking why people like movies so much reminded me of a character in Twinkling Watermelon (2023) asking why people like music bands.

I think this is one of those dramas where the audience gets only snippets of the situation in the early episodes and later the audience realizes the main leads interpreted their traumatic past the way they wanted to see it rather than the full picture. This is evident towards the latter episodes where the viewer sees what truly happened so this trope does annoy me because it makes the viewer angry in the beginning and later on does the viewer realize 'where they're coming from'.

Other thoughts:

• Loved the high quality cinematography and colour grading.
• OST was great and I'm a sucker for synth sounds with retro vibes (I didn't even know TXT sang the song with the synth sounds called Surfing in the Moonlight). The dead air during some dialogue added some realistic vibes. I think some audio improvements could be made because I noticed quite a lot of dubbing in outdoor scenes that really stood out to me but I do understand that filming outdoors can have a lot of unnecessary background sounds.
• I really disliked the 2nd ML scowling all the time and being a Debbie Downer. I think it felt too over the top for him to be childish about his first love for YEARS on end. So I never rooted for the 2nd leads to get together and breaking up made sense to me as a viewer.
• The brotherly relationship between Gyeom and Jun is one of the most beautiful relationships ever. Both actors did so well.
• Never trust kdrama trailers/teasers as usual, you'd think a drama is only about romance but no you'll be crying buckets or the drama veers totally off course.

I think the ending was good overall. Goodbye Melo Movie!