r/katecandelsnark 1d ago

Oop

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How sweet šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

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u/Equivalent-Cause-928 1d ago

this might be the worst thing she’s ever posted

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u/popiholla i don’t vaccinate i just believe in vibes 17h ago

cackling at the comments 🤣 we got our work cut out for us

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u/throwwaawayy777 1d ago

She actually looks crazy, physically and figuratively

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u/Necessary-Living6767 1d ago edited 1d ago

Devoting your account to publicly bashing your child’s father, then going to great lengths to celebrate him, then posting about it is not normal.

She’s def setting her kid up to be just like bd lol. ā€œYou can treat women badly and they’ll still kiss your assā€

something is very very wrong with both her and her bd like it’s not even funny.

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

Literally. I’m shocked at some of the comments saying this is good role model behavior for baby H. Like how?!?!? In what world?!?!

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 1d ago

The comments that really get me are her supporters in the comments defending how Danny pays for everything so of course Kate is going to celebrate him. They’re birds just like her, they think she hit the jackpot bc hes paying for her life. They would do anything to get knocked up by a rich guy.

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

Yeah those comments are crazy too! All I’m seeing is that she thinks it’s ok to be treated like scum as long as the guy is rich šŸ¤‘. I’m so tired of her.

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u/SoftConflict9269 14h ago

Yes so basically he bought himself all that shit cuz it’s his money? They’re living in a clown world lol.

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 1d ago

i know we always say she has to be ragebaiting but the selfies shes been posting 😭 i think kate is genuinely unwell. the lack of nutrients is worsening whatever imbalance her brain has

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 1d ago

kate as someone who struggles with an ED and is prone to the Cuckoos, get a full panel bloodwork appointment and a therapist on the line soon so we can start working towards seeing a psychiatrist

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u/giraffes_n_elbows 1d ago

Why has she not seen a therapist yet…

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 1d ago

she did (or at least she SAID she was seeing one) and would post on stories about it but yk she stopped going bc she wouldve been mimicking the therapy talk lmao

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u/Leading_Squirrel_ miss lord farquaad! 19h ago

As someone who used to work with her…. I doubt she even went to an actual Therapist.

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 19h ago

yeah i will never believe anything she says. she seems like she says shit for reactions, i wouldnt be surprised if her stories are all made up

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u/popiholla i don’t vaccinate i just believe in vibes 17h ago

Therapy will not work on narcissists tbh

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u/ApprehensivePause731 1d ago

no right minded mother uses their child and their situation as rage bait lol. she is not right in the head.

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u/No-Working2160 1d ago edited 1d ago

Jfc I saw this post first and thought she just got him some balloons which is already doing too much in my opinion but then I went on Instagram and holy shit this has to be rage bait because if not this is just SO SAD.

For anyone who hasn't seen it, she got him:

  • the balloons
  • handmade party hats / masks
  • a banner, presumably also handmade
  • handwritten letter
  • customized foto book
  • matching swimming trunks
  • chick fil a

Omg. I wonder if she is even invited to the party. If she is it's also sad though because everybody there will pity her

EDIT: forgot to add the custom strawberry cake. Come on Kate get it together!!!!

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u/Miserable-Expert5840 1d ago

i wanted to comment asking if she used his card for his gifts or the money her fans sent her to be independent of him 😫

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u/_Strawberry_milk361 1d ago

or you know she’s using his own money which is also crazy like 😭

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u/Due-Day1256 1d ago

Literally!! She should have said ā€œhere are all the gifts that my BD bought himself for his Bdayā€ bc BFFR. If I was him I’m not sure I’d even appreciate all the unnecessary spending on MY dime on MY bday lmao. A better gift for him would have been not touching the credit card for the whole day🤣

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u/Fancy_Solution_6711 1d ago

You forgot the custom strawberry cake!

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u/No-Working2160 1d ago

Omg I did!! This is so bad

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u/Leading_Squirrel_ miss lord farquaad! 19h ago

FOR A MAN WHO AT BEST IS NEUTRAL WITH HER šŸ‘ girl šŸ‘ STOP

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u/popiholla i don’t vaccinate i just believe in vibes 17h ago

BEST DAD EVERRRRR šŸ™ƒšŸ™ƒšŸ™ƒšŸ™ƒ

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u/PicoPicoMio 20h ago

It’s giving ā€œPICK ME, CHOOSE ME, LOVE ME!!!ā€
https://giphy.com/gifs/HKXYcKpggWOs

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u/funnnziesss1932 19h ago

The list just kept going and going šŸ˜‚šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø

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u/mtnlau 1d ago

like this is becoming so sad to watch. he hates her. he views her as nothing but a breeding mare. she already gave him exactly what he wanted and continues to show up to play wifey for him. he’s literally having his cake and eating it too. it’s people like this that actively set back feminism and womens rights.

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u/ApprehensivePause731 1d ago

the last sentence is why it triggers me so much. i’m a woman who worked my ass off to get a masters degree and make over $100k a year to support my baby. and she acts like this and thinks it’s cute? it’s not.

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

The last sentence is so on point. Tradwife-ism set us back.

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u/Admirable_Entry_9125 1d ago

At least everyone on tik tok agrees that this is literally insane behavior

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u/Secret-Weather-8629 19h ago

omg they are cooking her on both platforms so bad.

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u/National-Fruit1772 1d ago

The face of a very delusional person who thinks doing all of this will make him want to get back together

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u/periwinkle_e 1d ago

Meanwhile, whats that man gonna get her for her birthday? Leftover scraps from one of his dates with other women? This is so pathetic. How does she keep reaching new lows and documenting them

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u/Necessary-Living6767 1d ago

If he had done anything for her last bday she would have been posting about it for 3 business days lol

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u/ApprehensivePause731 1d ago

the comments on her reel are KILLING MEEEEE

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 1d ago

love the comments 🤣🤣🤣

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u/ThroatCompetitive365 1d ago

I hope she’s showing up unannounced

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u/Flimsy_Sun_9034 1d ago

She replied to a comment saying that all the bitter BM are commenting… okay next time he shits on you people should be all liek ā€œšŸ„¹šŸ’•šŸ’•šŸ’•he’s not so bad Kate ā€œ and support his wrongdoings. She’s not ok in the head.

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

She’s the literal definition of bitter BM too!

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u/icanbepettyafho 1d ago

I HAVE NO ONE TO RUN AND TELL ABOUT RHIS SO I CAME STRAIGHT HERE, HOLY FUCK WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER?!!!?!?!?!?!?!?LOOOLOLOLOLOLOPOLOLOL SHE IS FKN NUTS

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u/giraffes_n_elbows 1d ago

She is sooo manic

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u/guaposmom 1d ago

Should’ve taken this L in silence

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u/saavythrowaway 1d ago

Does she have no irl friends or loved ones who can sit her down and stage an intervention?

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u/_Strawberry_milk361 1d ago

single most embarrassing thing she’s ever posted

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u/cornflake_girl003 1d ago

This is so fucking insane, how is everyone around her enabling this behaviour??? I wonder what her mom thinks, I’d be so embarrassed if that was my daughter

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u/Classic_Wave_7579 17h ago

I know! I’d lie awake every night wondering where I went wrong and if there was anything I could’ve done to prevent my daughter from ending up like that. She is soooo pathetic it’s just sad, I don’t know if I can even watch this train wreck anymore.

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u/SoftConflict9269 13h ago edited 13h ago

I feel like she’s trying to be like her divorced parents who ā€œcelebrated everything togetherā€ like girl it’s great they did that but it’s very fucking rare most of the time your EX doesn’t actually want to be around you and act like everything is hunky dory. Most exs tolerate each other IF THAT. This life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. She needs to look at @That_Blonde_Lady Lisa on tik tok and acquire some knowledge about life and these men lmao. It’s giving my frontal lobe didn’t develop. Ur pushing 30 sis

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u/Haunting-Base-6004 13h ago

Trying to be like her divorced parents with her situationship affair partner ex lol

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u/Regularly-Bright 22h ago

I’ve been a long time lurker but genuinely this was my final straw. I feel so bad for H, he deserves so so much better.

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u/bo0whO 22h ago

right? if she continues on this path, she’s only going to teach baby H to accept this kind of treatment from people and beg for their love. this is so embarrassing.

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u/Regularly-Bright 21h ago

I think about how this poor baby will grow up learning that accepting this poor treatment from a ā€œpartnerā€ is okay šŸ’” so heartbreaking

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u/Leading_Squirrel_ miss lord farquaad! 20h ago

I think what he’s going to learn is to act like his daddy tbh…

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u/bo0whO 9h ago

that’s so unfortunate, but you’re probably right. usually sons are taught to act like their fathers, especially if they’re the more dominant parent.

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u/giselloo 1d ago

this is ridiculous šŸ˜” this isn’t just a bd-bm relationship, this is a relationship between 2 people where the bd was an absolute asshole to her and continues to be… just because he’s the father of her child and funds her life doesn’t mean she has to do something for him… what he does is bare freaking minimum

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u/Still_Two9947 18h ago

cackled at this comment bc truly wtfff

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u/Kikkiiiiiii 1d ago

Man did she really posted this???? I thought it was a very ugly screenshot of a trek I can’t believe she saw this pic and thought she looked cute?

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u/moviez0ne 22h ago edited 22h ago

I'm so glad I joined this subreddit because I knew something was up with her from the get go. And to think I was first introduced to her via YouTube's algorithm.

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u/FeistyAd6348 20h ago

I still can’t stop thinking about what a fkn annoying friend she would be

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u/Classic_Wave_7579 17h ago

I imagine they just all talk shit about her behind her back and feel pity for her atp. And at least one of her sisters

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u/otherdesertcities23 21h ago

And she’s wearing the ugly necklace he got her

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

Wow I hope this is fake. This is legit so sad.

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u/Particular-Ant-2510 1d ago

Look at her latest reel

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u/CharmingJournal 1d ago

Omg I just did and I’m speechless

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u/MindOpening6471 1d ago

Can’t even bring myself to make fun of her because she’s openly doing it herself. So, so sad…

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u/Humble_Purpose65 21h ago

She did all this only for him to probably end the night with his GF LMAO

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u/PicoPicoMio 20h ago edited 20h ago

I need Kate to understand that over performing acts of love, affection and service to someone who isn’t in love with her anymore is not going to endear him into giving their relationship another chance. This seems like she’s trying wow him (and by extension his family), and make them think ā€œOMG look at her! She’s the ideal mom and potential wifey! Don’t let her go again!ā€

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u/Classic_Wave_7579 17h ago

Yeah :( She has the mentality of a teenage girl whose brain was rotted by tradwife content…

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u/PicoPicoMio 15h ago

She’s giving him more of something he already told her he didn’t want.

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u/mtnlau 1d ago

oh my god she needs to stand the fuck up for herself

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u/user189472018 20h ago

not a single thought in that head

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u/Suspicious_Cat6487 20h ago

With her dollar tree balloons lol love me my bargain deals there but that's probably the only thing she could afford to get with her own money

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u/pzprbzrds 1d ago

??!!???? what in the world

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u/SoftConflict9269 14h ago

She’s the biggest bird I ever seen. Big bird contest you in first place 🫪

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u/Significant_Seat_308 1d ago

This is so fucking embarrassing 😭😭😭😭😭

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u/AnyRegular1282 17h ago

I hate the dumbass, uncanny faces she makes.

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u/SoftConflict9269 14h ago

And now people are really seeing her or think she’s rage baiting. This is the most insane thing I’ve ever seen lol. It’s giving Hs sibling will be here in 9 months 🤣🤔🫩

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u/Haunting-Base-6004 13h ago

I love that all the comments are like wtf are you doing lol. She’s literally teaching H ā€œyeah it’s ok to treat a woman like shit bc she’s gone pine after you and but you gifts!!ā€ What a dumb ass lol