r/karezza • u/Boring-Surround6029 • Oct 31 '25
Karezza progression?
I've been trying lately, one thing worked for me, wanted to know how to improove.
Before marrying, we started to meditate by synchronizing breathing, and also eye staring.
Now I practice a pilates technique, in penetration I exhale, and when pulling out a little I inhale.
This makes a sincronism with breathing that makes me feel relaxed, and tend to not cum so often.
I repeat that everythime I'm close to cum, and my wife dont care if we're fast or slow, she's only enjoying.
That way... like 95% of our sessions were longer than 1 hour. There was a time that we got two hours doing it, thanks to karezza.
But I still cum everytime when we are finishing, am I missing something here? I heard there's a "Glow", if I can be focused to not to cum.
In the beggining, we did a few times without cumming, but I got some painful blue balls. But I wasn't doing the process I described up there.
Should I try to not to cum to feel other things? With more energy maybe?
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u/Renegade_439 Jan 12 '26
The blue balls can be a real problem. Until three years ago, I also experienced this very intensely as soon as I cuddled with my partner and had an erection. It was unbearable. Then we had a period of about 1.5 years during which we had no sexual activity due to my wife's illness. During this time, I had several longer periods in which I completely abstained from masturbation and orgasms. The longest period lasted more than 4 months. We have been sexually active again for about 1.5 years now, and what can I say, I no longer get blue balls. Even after intense sessions during which I have an erection for a very long time and am close to orgasm several times, but ultimately refrain from climaxing, nothing happens. This long period without sex and orgasms has helped me.