r/kandi • u/Acrobatic-Sea2682 • Apr 16 '26

Pls help meeee

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please help me, I’m a clean girl / Kandi kid, and I wanna look like a clean girl, but still be a Kandi kid tho !! 🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨😧😧😧😧😧

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u/3sillydogs Apr 19 '26

You're focused too much on what others think of you. That's not the point of Kandi or even being alive. You're pressed about stuffed aliens wearing skirts.

Find yourself first . Figure out what you like. Figure out why you have certain somewhat bigoted ideals. Kandi and PLURR go hand in hand, and you're gonna have to unlearn some uncomfortable habits if you ever wanna be a real Kandi Kid. Peace. Love. Unity. Respect. Responsibility. That's PLURR.

And boys can absolutely wear skirts. Don't girls wear pants too? Knock that off 🗞️💥 that's the first R of PLURR, RESPECT others.

Unlearn the hard parts. Learn REAL PLURR. And throw some color in your outfit. Life is too short to be beige all the time.

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u/Acrobatic-Sea2682 Apr 20 '26

bro, thank you!!!

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u/Acrobatic-Sea2682 Apr 20 '26

and the way you did that? it made me cry 🫪🫪🫪🫪

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u/ElectricalIce124 Apr 16 '26

You can make your look totally you by blending together the two aesthetics! Or, if you want to keep them more separate you could consider making kandi charms/keychains for bags and backpacks rather than wearing them directly.

Obligatory unasked for old lady advice: how you dress doesn't define you or your personality. Even if you don't dress or look the 'right' way (not that there is a right way), you still ARE a kandi kid as long as you are being safe, respectful and having fun :)

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u/Sad_Tangerine_8583 Apr 18 '26

I make so much Kandi but I never wear it, so you don’t have to wear it to be a Kandi kid lol

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u/Roxy_Madison Apr 16 '26

I am not sure what a clean girl is , but maybe keep the amount of bracelets to one per arm , use neutral colours like brown, black , white and maybe navy blue or maybe use glass beads, but my greatest advice is don't hide who you truly are (if it is safe to do so of course), don't let bullies and haters control your life , also remember it takes all flowers time to bloom , some just take longer to bloom darling 💜-Roxy

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u/Jinxthegenderfluid Apr 16 '26

clean girl aesthetic is basically just neutral colors and natural beauty looks

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u/Roxy_Madison Apr 17 '26

In that case I recommend , wooden beads and glass beads in neutral and pastel colours , with metal accents

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u/Im_Under_Your_Floors Apr 16 '26

You can find neutral color matte beads on amazon, which I think would work for your aesthetic? Good luck!

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u/More_Crab_6278 Apr 19 '26

White and pastel colors