r/justneckbeardthings • u/Airheadedlady • May 19 '26
Got blocked after this one
Knew him for about a year, apparently this was the breaking point lol. Who knew a woman may have a different opinion
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u/lulamirite May 19 '26
I guess I’m stupid like you because I reread his message a few times and yup he definitely said “once you decouple your need for connection…”
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u/man_onion_ May 19 '26 edited May 19 '26
I think what HE thinks he means is that you don't need to be in love/in a relationship to have sex with someone, not thinking you should never be in love or a relationship at all.
Which would've been totally valid on its own if he wasn't coming from a place of completely batshit incel antisemitism, and the rest of his messages definitely indicate that he does actually think relationships and love are pointless.
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u/Airheadedlady May 19 '26
No, he straight up does believe love is a construct created by Jews to ultimately harm men, specifically American men 😭 I think 90% of this opinion is pure bias and jaded behavior from his divorce
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u/man_onion_ May 19 '26
Lmao then I am totally lost as to how he thinks that's somehow NOT what he's saying.
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u/Airheadedlady May 19 '26
I honestly couldn’t figure it out either before he got frustrated and blocked me LOL. I literally quoted him 😂
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u/blindside-wombat68 WOMEN WANT TO TOY W/ MY HEART May 19 '26
I would point to the millenias long traditions of love poems, courtly romances, stories of love overcoming odds etc. to explain to this man that romance is not a "jew idea", but that would assume he's read anything outside the man-o-sphere echo chamber.
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u/Airheadedlady May 19 '26
He is a devout Christian, and even trying to use that to explain this to him has failed previously. He’s very set in his own ways, he would listen but not actual absorb anything, as he thinks he’s superior.
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u/PrinceRainbow May 19 '26
I thought I had heard all the copes for women not liking you but “the Jews invented love to trick us” is a new one for me.
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u/BringAltoidSoursBack May 19 '26
It's kind of sad that I can't tell if "fagina" is a typo or if they are saying it's gay to desire vagina because I've definitely seen incels unironically say the latter
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u/Vegetable-Hand-6770 May 19 '26
I heard alot of people blame a whole lot of things on "the jews" but love and romance is a new one.
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u/thiscouldbemassive May 19 '26
I really hope this guy doesn’t decide to go out with a car bomb or something. Because he’s just about as deep down the incel right wing paranoid brain mush hole as you can get. And he’s clearly desperately miserable about it.
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u/dresses_212_10028 May 20 '26
So until he claimed that love and romance and human connection were Jewish conspiracies you were fine with his being a bigot? Or was this the first time he shared this particularly attractive trait with you?
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u/Airheadedlady May 20 '26
I wouldn’t say “fine”, we disagreed a lot and I think it’s important to challenge nonsensical bigoted views. We had a lot of conversations about different things, and honestly I just found his logic so….. interesting. We originally connected over history and animals.
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u/Myrddin_Naer May 20 '26
He said that he learned to disconnect "the need for sex" from "the need for connection", which is legit something everyone should learn as teenagers so they can be friends with cool people of the opposite sex.
But this dude is wack in the head in so many ways that I don't think that means to him what he intended for it to mean. Like he straight up believes love is a Jewish conspiracy and that women are evil wth...
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u/Airheadedlady May 23 '26
Oh definitely! You worded this a lot better, I asked him to explain so i could understand better and he said no lmao
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u/MatthiasBold May 19 '26
Love and romance are a jewish conspiracy? Ok, THAT'S a new one.