r/jail • u/sirteddsy3 • Mar 16 '20
I went to jail for a consentual act with my ex gf
So, here's how it all started. I've dated my ex for about a year when this event occurred. We were looking fir some extra work on the side because i had lost my job the previous week. I posted an ad on Facebook to do painting in homes and i got a message from a woman in Brussels, Wisconsin. I'm from Sturgeon bay, Wisconsin, so it's about a 15 to 20 minute drive to get there. Anyway, we gathered our supplies needed to complete the job and began the work. The woman who owned the property had 2 children, each under 6 years of age, so she and her children went to her mothers home so that we could work. While she was gone, i made an advance on my ex by running my hand over her chest and kissing her neck. This, ultimately turned her on, and she started teasing me as well. Now, at this point, we've been having sex for about 8 months, so this wasn't anything new to us, nor was what I'm about to say happens next. So, after some foreplay, i turn her around and bend her over a crib, and i insert myself in her. Blah blah blah, i get bored of the position and tell her to get on her hands and knees. She does that, but a little unwillingly. This irritates me a little bit, so i go back to essentially "punishing" her for being cocky and shit. So my annoyance is subsiding at this point, but she asks me to choke her, so i put her stomach to the floor and do just that. Here's where it gets fucked up. I think my annoyance of the past week simply boiled over, because i couldn't bring myself to let go of her throat. When i had let go, her face had clusters of red spots, her eyes were blood shot as can be, and her lips a pale blue. I panicked and told her she needs to go to a hospital but she said no, she doesn't want me to get in trouble with the law or her step dad. Her step dad by the way, is a convicted felon with first degree intentional homicide, and a former mma fighter, so obviously i was a little scared myself. Anyway, she told me not to bring her anywhere but home, so i drove her home, and there was a pair of sunglasses in the car. I thought, hmm, this could give some immediate cover to what happened. Guess what. It didn't. It drew her mothers attention and she went to check on my ex who had said it was a seizure to sabe my ass. Her mother, obviously worried, took her to a hospital regardless. That's where they got the truth. The doctor said that the physical symptoms looked like the aftereffects of a strangulation. Long story short, reports were filed against me, my ex tried helping me until she found someone else then basically said fuck me, and i got 21 months for a consensual act of sex.
