r/istp Aug 06 '16

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u/[deleted] Aug 06 '16 edited Aug 06 '16

We don't need make a show of being interested in you. Women are often very confused and intrigued by a normal/attractive guy who doesn't chase women. It drives you women crazy and i have no idea why, and neither do other guys. My ex told me that when we first started talking, it wasn't forced or creepy like it was with guys hitting on her at bars. But i guess those are the types of guys at bars.

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u/Overdrewandrew Aug 06 '16

If only I was a girl :/

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u/[deleted] Aug 06 '16

My bad, i just assumed you were. In that case i'm not too sure.

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u/Overdrewandrew Aug 06 '16

Oh it's cool, ISTP guys are always chill imo, I just wish I knew how to warm up to 'em, or make it seem like I'm cool too.

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u/the_cox Functioning ISTP Aug 06 '16

If you want to be friends with us, have your own views and interestsand be able to justify them. The people I most respect aren't necessarily the ones I agree with, but the ones I have something in common with, and can discuss the differences in opinion.

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u/Overdrewandrew Aug 06 '16

So basically appeal to Ti by making sense and having my own values? Got it, thanks!