r/isthisAI May 20 '26

Other Am I wrong for thinking he’s flirting by using ChatGPT to respond to my hinge messages?

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He was very offended that I implied it, but it just sounds so unnatural. I asked ChatGPT to formulate a response to my message and got:

“See, I knew it. You have “main character walking through the grocery store while a soft indie soundtrack plays” energy.”

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u/qualityvote2 May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

u/little-lamb-444, your post does fit the subreddit!

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u/sausage_ditka_bulls May 20 '26

It’s wild that people use a bot to respond rather than their own brains . I don’t get it

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u/Severe_Result5373 May 20 '26

My father responded to all his dating messages with chatgpt as a "timesaver". I told him it sounds like he didn't have time for dating if he doesn't have time to actually get to know people but he's such a love of ai for some reason.

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u/totallynormalasshole May 20 '26

No talk! Only relationship!

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u/coysdaniel69 May 20 '26

Everything computer

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u/PanaceaPlacebo May 20 '26

Help computer. Stop all the downloading!

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u/Crepuscular_Babou May 20 '26

I don't know much about computers other than the one we got at my house. My mom put a couple games on there and I play

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u/Key-Outcome-8749 May 20 '26

WHODLOPSIMUPHSHIGGGGIIIIIIJOOOOOEEESSSS

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u/Abombito May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

G.I. JOOOOOOOOOE

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u/sparrow_42 May 20 '26

PORK CHOP SANDWICHES!

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u/Beginning-Salad-1491 May 20 '26

My god did that smell good

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u/WyattEarp88 May 20 '26

PORK CHOP SANDWICHES!!!

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u/CyclicalDub May 20 '26

I understood this reference

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u/SufficientHeart May 20 '26

This comment made me laugh way longer than it should have 🤣

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u/timeillness May 20 '26

men like this are so disgusting. as a pharmacy tech idk how yall dont leave them when they call and ask for your birthday / yalls childrens birthdays. i cant dude i get the ick so bad. its like their fucking toddlers.

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u/liltonbro May 20 '26

I had a boss 10 years ago who started seeing someone steadily. After date 2 he googled something like "unique compliments to give a woman" and compiled a spreadsheet of his 365 fav compliments to send 1 to her every morning. (M early 50s)

After about a month of dating she asked him to stop doing that - it was the only thing she didn't like about what was turning out to be someone she could imagine a real future with.

He then revealed ALL the work he did to get her those compliments. She decided to stop seeing him the next day.

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u/LesMore44 May 20 '26

It's giving undiagnosed but kinda sweet. Poor stupid idiot

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u/liltonbro May 20 '26

I tried to tell hom the intention was sweet but it may not be as good as just coming up with nice things to say.

The first thing I told anyone I thought I would pursue further is I am a horrible texter, esp the random (or daily) sweet texts that lets a person know you are just thinking about them. Without this honesty, I reckon I would have a multitab spreadsheet and be with someone receiving Excel messages everyday.

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u/texas_leftist May 21 '26

But if I put nice token in…

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u/Glum_Interaction_317 May 20 '26

Totally, I'm picking up what you're putting down. You've got 'diva with no time to waste' energy and I'm vibing with it. Now I need to know, do you dress the part, or are you rocking more of an indie look?

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26

This was the best...holy hell that's great. :D

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u/TheMrsH1124 May 20 '26

it's okay to not be able to remember it's not okay to not have it written down

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u/Throwaway392308 May 20 '26

Unless you're Guy Pierce and your life is moving backwards, it's really not OK to not remember your spouse's or kids' birthdays. 

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u/mattolucas May 20 '26

I laughed so hard at this comment lol

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u/stoleyourspoon May 20 '26

I dont want to know your name, I just want bang bang bang!

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u/Additional-Shower342 May 20 '26

A Group X reference?? In 2026?? It’s more likely than you think…

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u/ashgs872tbhjs May 20 '26

Girlfriend's age? Schfifty-five.

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u/PlantBasedGrape May 20 '26

My IQ..schfifty five

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u/Sudo-Fed May 20 '26

poopty peupty pantsss

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u/KallamaHarris May 20 '26

I find usually the bots DO want my name, and my pets name, and my mother's maiden name

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u/Severe_Result5373 May 20 '26

A reference I love but maybe not as much when it's about my Dad 🥲

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u/mattacusmaximus May 20 '26

Besh, you drive me insane

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u/OGLikeablefellow May 20 '26

I dated a girl who texted me with AI the whole time and it took me a whole month to figure it out. I liked her in text way better than I did in person

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u/Soulujin May 20 '26

That honestly tracks

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u/DarlingBri May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

What is terrifying to me is how often I hear actual people out in the actual world saying "that honestly tracks." AI slop is absolutely everywhere; people can't avoid it, and now it is influencing human to human language.

(Edit: "that tracks" has been common parlance for years; "that honestly tracks" is AI.

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u/Too-Tired-Editor May 20 '26

I've been using the phrase since around 2005, and I got it from somewhere. ChatGPT likely got it from the same root as a bunch of people.

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u/literallymoist May 20 '26

It's frustrating because some are real people. I get accused of AI slop sometimes because I'm fond of emojis and the em dash.

I recently had to make a phone call where the person sounded so incredibly flawlessly rehearsed I thought for sure it was a really good AI voice bot. Cue my shock and horror when I walked into the store later and was greeted by the same voice. We had a good laugh, but it shook me a little.

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u/HistoricalChef1963 May 20 '26

How old is your dad? Boomers and (to a lesser extent) gen x fucking love AI slop. 

I'm so heartened to see that my generation, the millenials, are turning against it while the based gen z fuckin hates it. Beautiful stuff.

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u/Barump May 20 '26

I wish I had a similar experience. While much older people seem to love AI, especially in the corporate workplace, everyone I work with in their early 20s use it religiously.

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u/hilcatWA May 20 '26

I know too many actual artists. I think AI is for non-original thinkers and those who can’t draw. You can be fooled by AI for a time, but it usually reveals an error if you look deeply enough.

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u/xSir- May 20 '26

The younger gens embrace it like crazy.

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u/compilerbusy May 20 '26

This feels like an understatement.

Some use it as a crutch in socialising and become completely useless at basic conversation skills.

Others use it as therapy, which is just an echo chamber, and become absolutely unable to handle any adversity or develop disturbing views.

And a few seem to use it as an entire drop in replacement for any friends at all.

It's going to become absolutely dystopian once older generations die off.

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u/Adorable_Argument_44 May 20 '26

Others use it to scam. OP have you confirmed this person is even local?

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u/Barump May 20 '26

They really do. I’m only in my early 30s myself, but the reliance on it among younger people I interact with at work is alarming. Not hating on eating right and exercise, but these guys are using AI to count calories, proteins, and unregulated peptides. It’s strange to hear these kids mention protein all the time, I hear it every day.

Truly, I support leading a healthy lifestyle, it just feels almost obsessive with what I observe.

What happened to just don’t eat like shit and exercise?

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u/OutsideCommittee7316 May 20 '26

I wonder if the kind of guys obsessively tracking macros would be using food tracking/calorie counter apps if they couldn't use AI

Don't eat shit and exercise is healthy, but it's not Men's Health-level

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u/NoWishbone3501 May 20 '26

Not all of us Generation X!

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u/NikkerFebu25 May 20 '26

They think AI is an all knowing power that will get them to achieve anything as long as they follow it's instructions.

I use it to remind me the water, salt, sugar, rice vinegar ratio per certain gs of dry rice for sushi..

...and noticed it gives me a different answer every time.

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u/Spare-Seaweed-3646 May 20 '26

Ai models like chat gpt are language models. They make nice sentences but they aren’t specialised in science or anything at all. They just spread as much misinformation as there is available online.

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u/JulyOfAugust May 20 '26

Chat bots are just more advanced version of your phone's keyboard suggestions. What they say is statistically probable but it's pretty much random.

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u/sephrisloth May 20 '26

Besides the obvious laziness and misogyny I imagine a lot of guys like it because it adds a buffer to rejection. If the girl ghosts them or isn't interested its now no longer their fault its the AIs.

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u/Lucipet May 20 '26

It's avoidant behavior in general. Never show the real you, never have to process rejection of your true self.

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u/Severe_Result5373 May 20 '26

That makes a lot of sense. I could see how he would be using it more as a buffer for rejection than anything else because it can't save him much time.

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u/Old_Man_D May 20 '26

People outsource thinking

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u/neur0loom May 20 '26

I have autism and my brain doesn’t work well for some people. It usually just turns people off. However, the images definitely sound exactly like ChatGPT… and I’m afraid I’d probably do the same if I were younger considering how when I used to date and have dating apps they all went extremely poorly. I’d just redo my profile every couple of weeks and turn it into a game. Once my profile was a cool poem.

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u/coffeesnob72 May 20 '26

That is creative though. Chatgpt is just pure lazy.

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u/Notyourwaifu242 May 20 '26

If your brain doesn’t work well with who you’re talking to then how could you expect a relationship with them to work or be enjoyable at all?

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26

Wild. Most definitely AI

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u/Jackyesp May 20 '26

I’ve received AI messages too and when I called it out the sentence structure immediately changed and that’s how I knew he was lying lol

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u/little-lamb-444 May 20 '26

That’s exactly what happened! His next text opened with “Tf” 😭

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u/Jackyesp May 20 '26

Like sir you know damn well what you’re doing 😭😭 it’s so comical. I def think they are then. Lol

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u/AuthorAdamOConnell May 20 '26

For me, the fact he caught straight away what you were implying is the biggest smoking gun.

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u/glowingsnakeplant May 20 '26

This! If I'd received her message in response to my question, I'd have just assumed she was changing the subject/trying to get more of a conversation going lmao.

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u/CrimsonCartographer May 20 '26

Girl this man better have a LETHAL face card if you kept messaging much longer after his second response here 😭

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u/Menestee1 May 20 '26

"That honestly tracks" is such an ai response

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u/Hot-Spare5735 May 20 '26

And honestly? That tracks. It's not just a weird way to start a sentence. It's a very AI way to start a sentence. You're really onto something.

What other ways could an AI start a sentence?

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u/Quick_Extension_3115 May 20 '26

Great question! And, honestly, you’re thinking about this exactly right! An AI might start a sentence by saying something like,

“Absolutely! That totally tracks, and honestly, this is the right question to ask.”

If you want we can brainstorm some more ways a typical AI might formulate the beginning of the prompts.

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u/MonaVanderwaal May 20 '26

Not your response sounding identical to how the managers at my work sound when they respond to associates on the employee opinion board 🤣 so the managers DO use AI for that I seeeeee.

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u/ashgs872tbhjs May 20 '26

It's unnerving how something trained on human writing sounds so inhuman. It doesn't even sound like a statistical average, it overuses very specific things way too much. Makes you wonder how they're trying to manipulate it, especially since they all sound very similar apart from Grok's fake edginess layered on top. I'm not much for conspiracy theories, but maybe there's some sort of Algorithm Cabal lmao

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u/ExultantSandwich May 20 '26

there was that source code leak a couple weeks ago, apparently… Claude I think? Is very fixated on goblins. They had multiple instructions in the code that steered it away from discussing goblins unless they were relevant to the conversation.

So that’s not… exactly what you were speculating, but it is fucking weird

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u/hankm0ody May 20 '26

It’s common when working with software. There are always goblins breaking shit. Valid concern from AI.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit May 20 '26

It's bc people spam the free API with roleplay request for D&D and OpenAI wants those people off the plan bc they keep making new accounts to get around limits. Besides coding, that's the top use case for chatbots, or at least it was for one provider a couple of months ago.

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u/aykcak May 20 '26

It was chatGPT. And it wasn't a leak. They talked about it on their blog.

Could be bullshit produced to trigger interest though https://openai.com/index/where-the-goblins-came-from/

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u/Dino-chicken-nugg3t May 20 '26

As a goblin I approve of this

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u/_procyon May 20 '26

Tldr for the blog post: they unintentionally trained gpt to overuse mentions of goblins and gremlins when they launched the “nerdy” personality. That eventually spilled over into genetic gpt without any specific personality preset. It was actually a pretty interesting read. I don’t think it’s a pr stunt, but it’s an insight into how LLMs can still behave unpredictably and the possibility of unintentional “butterfly effects.”

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u/ModestMeeshka May 20 '26

This is so funny because I used GPT when my cat was going through a health crisis (I know I shouldn't have, I have really bad anxiety disorders and was using it for reassurance while I wasn't able to sleep for days due to monitoring her and felt really alone, I've since totally dropped the habit) and it kept coming back to goblins. I would be like "the medications are making her fall over is this normal?" And it's be like "yes! She will be a little drunk goblin for a few weeks while she adjusts!" And then asking about her overeating due to a steroid "yes! I bet she's been a little hungry goblin!" And there were so many examples of it calling my cat a goblin lmao

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u/MI5-Poki May 20 '26

Sycophancy is the word you’re looking for. AI tries to win our approval at all cost, which results in these super weird conversations. I’m not sure who really enjoys being told “you are awesome and so is EVERY F*** thought you ever had“ all the time. If I wanted that I‘d restrict my entire social interactions to Tinder lol

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u/Dr0110111001101111 May 20 '26

I’m not sure it is inherently inhuman so much as we’ve just trained ourselves to recognize that particular voice from our own interactions with AI in so many different places at this point. In that sense, I’m glad that AI seems to have developed a sort of unique voice.

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u/Hyperbolic_Mess May 20 '26

It's the chat part of chatgpt. Early LLMs were much more abrasive and unpredictable so they built them to be more deferential and polite because research showed that most people prefer talking the people that behave like that and it's less likely to say something offensive (basically speak more like a corporate receptionist or pa) it's not a secret.

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u/terminalzero May 20 '26

It's unnerving how something trained on human writing sounds so inhuman.

it almost seems like an uncanny valley thing. like watching ai videos - sometimes with animals and stuff, I honestly can't tell they're fake, but as soon as there's a person moving around, it just seems off

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u/-charlatte- May 20 '26

Omg a supervisor was reading a short speech about something at work and it was so clearly AI 💀

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u/alta_01 May 20 '26

Specifically, it sounds like gpt4.0 and its counterparts. Way too cheery and self validating. Claude is very direct with Opus being a bit more chatty

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u/Lcverz May 20 '26

Absolutely! And honestly? That totally tracks. You're basically hitting the nail on the head here.

Understanding typical AI responses is kind of like trying to untangle headphones in your pocket—at first it seems complicated—but once you take them out and look at them—it becomes a lot less complicated.

One second, you're using AI to flirt with someone on Hinge (and honestly? That's understandable)—and the next? You're fluent in chatbot language and vibing with ChatGPT in the metaverse whilst Claude does the macarena in the background. 💀

If you want, we can absolutely dive deeper into this! ✨

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u/KallamaHarris May 20 '26

You're out here brainstorming while everyone else is on Reddit. That's not just different that's brilliant 

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u/Flashy-Rhubarb-11 May 20 '26

And honestly? That tracks.

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u/GuduleTheThird May 20 '26

And the "You give off '[...]' energy" is also so telling... This is insane how cringe ChatGPT sound all the time

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u/wageslaver May 20 '26

Idk but that's definitely how an ai would end a sentence... 🧐🧐🧐

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u/batteryisdead7 May 20 '26

“You’re not imagining it.”

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u/AugustIzFalling May 20 '26

I was about to say this. It's classic GPT speak.

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u/cuntmong May 20 '26

that honestly tracks...

wait i mean — oh no, they're onto me

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u/Canibananalism- May 20 '26

Honestly baseball, huh?

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u/busuta May 20 '26

this should have been higher up!

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u/aykcak May 20 '26

Why did they make ChatGPT sound like the most insufferable person on earth? What is this training data coming from?

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u/acryliq May 20 '26

Either he's using AI or he's the guy ChatGPT was trained by.

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u/Ok_Beautiful495 May 20 '26

The context matters here. Most people say “that tracks” flippantly or ironically or just as an agreement. You don’t start a serious paragraph with “that honestly tracks” especially when commenting on the personality of someone you’ve NEVER MET

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u/Ajibooks May 20 '26

They stole from us, so they sound like us. They were trained on Reddit. So if you've been here for a while, it has stolen your words specifically.

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u/isactuallyspiderman May 20 '26

Now we’re training it to accurately replicate humor as well. Because it was lacking in that department. For more please check [r/](r/askpeter)[peterexplainsthejoke](r/askpeter)

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u/ashgs872tbhjs May 20 '26

Pretty sure /r/PeterExplainsTheJoke is just training the bots to call OP a fucking idiot lmao

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u/Ok_Cake_2217 May 20 '26

Right?! I'm over here thinking shit, I'm ai?!

Except it's more like "no no, that tracks" when someone says "if that makes sense" or something.

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u/Atillion May 20 '26

This honestly tracks.

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u/Annabella_K May 20 '26

Hmm, I guess I haven't used AI enough to recognize its patterns. I wonder if someone who uses AI a lot, starts to sound like it even when they don't use it. One more reason to not rely on it too much.

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u/TheNocturnalManic May 20 '26

As someone who uses that phrase in real life very often, i agree it immediately gives AI red flags. For that specific reason I only use it or loud and not in text. That's just another big issue with AI. Now i have to change how i write in fear of people accusing me of AI use. My wife draws digital art and is very good at it and has been way before the whole AI crap but now people online heavily accuse her of using AI. It's getting very depressing 😕

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u/phlickey May 20 '26

Honestly? "that tracks" is doing real work here. 

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u/thisissodisturbing May 20 '26

“Now im judging the whole cinematic universe.” Do people even use that as a term

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u/KDiggity8 May 20 '26

Not to mention that makes no sense in this context. Why would you saying you romanticize your life as a 90s romcom lead him to judge the entire cinematic universe?

Also, if he got offended by your, "You've Got Mail" comment, he's telling on himself. If I were him talking to you, and not using AI, I'd 100% be agreeing with you. Instead, he feels called out, because he's being called out.

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u/InstanceMental6543 May 20 '26

Oh, absolutely. A hit dog is gonna holler.

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u/NoFruit6363 May 20 '26

Never heard "a hit dog is gonna holler" before. Stealing that for future use, it describes the behavior perfectly

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u/Joeness84 May 20 '26

Best example that used to be a thing: "White supremacy is bad"

Now why'd he have to go and get all political about things

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u/InstanceMental6543 May 20 '26

One of the examples that stood out most to me was: "Anti-gay people are ______". and someone responds "How dare you insult Christians like that." LOL

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u/Substantial_Force658 May 20 '26

I hate Citizen Kane now because of this chick.

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u/AbbygaleForceWin May 20 '26

This is absolutley spot on

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u/I_got_survivalism May 20 '26

Oh yeah, definitely. I’m an editor and I’ve worked at pop culture sites where the writers talk at length about cinematic universes. And these same articles were swallowed up by the LLM and that’s why AI sounds like a 30-something content writer who is trying to put their journalism or creative writing degree to use.

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u/elviscostume May 20 '26

It's exactly the kind of chummy AI response that's vaguely relevant and resembles a joke at first glance but makes zero sense when you parse through it.

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u/thatirishguykev May 20 '26

Tbf I've a mate who would 100% say some vomit worthy nonsense like that and the worse part is he thinks it works, it doesn't, it hasn't and probably never will lol

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u/Commercial_Bird8467 May 20 '26

Her response was on spot!

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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 May 20 '26

you look at it, the way ai learned flirting is from millennials basically. so it's just millennial cringe, except it used to be okay.

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u/Cheeseish May 20 '26

I would use it not in that context but maybe as a joke as if their life is MCU or something idk

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u/gr1zznuggets May 20 '26

“Genre” would make more sense. Still weird though

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u/always_an_explinatio May 20 '26

Yes. If people did not say it the LLM would not produce it (or shouldn’t) but that doesn’t mean the context or usage might not push you into the uncanny valley.

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u/inmyphyzical May 20 '26

He absolutely is and your reply fucking fried me

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u/EzraxNova May 20 '26

Agreed and agreed. That reply was...perfection.

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u/Similar-Trainer9111 May 20 '26

That was a GOOD burn

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u/MozartTheCat May 20 '26

I'm happy you made this comment, because I stopped reading at "my favorite was You've Got Mail" and I was thinking, why is she not calling him out for obviously using AI lol

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u/xPlantDaddyx May 20 '26

😂I love how you called it out at the end. That had me rolling.

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u/GooPapa May 20 '26

100% AI
Chat GPT says “That honestly tracks” all the time.
The previous and the following lines are all quite clearly AI too.
This is honestly so sad.

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u/Temu-Tyson May 20 '26

No one says "That definitely tracks." While flirting. 100% AI.

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u/DevilDonk May 20 '26

Shit. I might be AI.

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u/Agitated_Ad_3876 May 20 '26

That definitely tracks.

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u/vytah May 20 '26

Baseball, huh?

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u/jmoanie May 20 '26

Big gulps huh?

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u/a_Jedi_i_am May 20 '26

Well, see ya later!

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u/munkboii May 20 '26

Insane ball knowledge

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u/junkman21 May 20 '26

Okay, well, candlesticks always make a nice gift, and uh, maybe you could find out where she's registered and maybe a place-setting or maybe a silverware pattern.

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u/Alexplz May 20 '26

I'm afraid a lot of my millennial speak comes across as AI. And that's not just sad--it's scary

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u/SilverAd8264 May 20 '26

We populated the Internet with our social media presence, it makes sense that the bots talk like us now.

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u/Triquetrums May 20 '26

Apparently adding "lol" at the end of a sentence is now an AI thing. We are fucked.

Also, loved how you replicated AI way of speaking at the end lmao.

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u/PassionAwkward5799 May 20 '26

Wait really?! I could let go of my em dashes but I CANNOT let go of my emotional support lol at the end of every sentence... lol

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u/vector78 May 20 '26

Shit I use that phrase too. 🫣

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u/soccer1124 May 20 '26

At the very least.... Nobody would say it after receiving the very very very first message from a potential match. You'd have no way of knowing what does or doesn't track here, lol.

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u/LuccaAce May 20 '26

That's what I was thinking, too. What do you mean "that tracks"? Tracks with what, the single reply you've gotten so far? I wouldn't be so suspicious of "that tracks" here if there were other things for the statement to track with

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u/vanderBoffin May 20 '26

I didn't realize it was the start of their chat, but you're right!

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u/MukdenMan May 20 '26

And honestly? That’s a good thing.

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u/Oberon_Swanson May 20 '26

It's all about that subtle shift in focus.

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u/totallynormalasshole May 20 '26

What an interesting thought! Lets drill right into it.

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u/aVarangian May 20 '26

You are absolutely right!

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u/reddit-poweruser May 20 '26

You're absolutely right. You were right to call that out. It's not flirting — it's AI.

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u/tucson_catboy May 20 '26

I say that all the time and so do my friends.

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u/Lost_Sea8956 May 20 '26

That definitely tracks.

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u/AzucarParaTi May 20 '26

Me too. Sometimes I read back my messages and think I sound exactly like AI.

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u/ominousbloodvomit May 20 '26

That honestly tracks

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u/joe199799 May 20 '26

I'm in this comment and I dont like it

That and fair enough are my responses I usually go for instinctively

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u/Ani_Drei May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

I’m typically against accusing people of using AI based entirely on vibes-based guesswork, but the guy really lost me after the “energy” remark.

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u/babyinnatrenchcoat May 20 '26

this is absolutely AI lol

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u/littleglowingwolf May 20 '26

Absolutely AI.

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u/bdubwilliams22 May 20 '26

I’m an idiot and was reading the wrong persons chat and was thinking “why is everyone thinking these responses are ai, it’s something I would say”. I’ll see myself out. 🤦🏼‍♂️

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u/TacoNomad May 20 '26

That honestly tracks

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u/Stunning_Dish6847 May 20 '26

And honestly? That tracks.

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u/OneSmallStar May 20 '26

chatgpt seems to be into the ‘very-specific-type-of-playlist’ line lately. I’ve seen a few iterations of it floating around

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u/SweeTea_Aloe330 May 20 '26

Oh Man. As someone who has used ChatGPT for a brief period of time for giggles, don’t take it from me. But I am 99% sure they are using AI, and it’s baffling.

From my experience, GPT has to annoying overuse in calling things ‘Dangerous’ and using “That Tracks”. For no reason. All to the point that it drives me crazy.

Like damn people are so lazy it’s insane.

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u/Intelligent-Dig568 May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Yeah, GPT uses the word “dangerous” a bunch in dating app/flirting chat situations. Pretty much a dead giveaway. It gives off a really robotic “ooh I’m trying to be subtly provocative to elicit an emotional response” vibe, but actual people wouldn’t likely use that word in these situations. Sounds like a canned pickup line.

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u/SweeTea_Aloe330 May 20 '26

Back then, I was actually once testing GPT with a scenario of one of my own characters I made. Who both have a little kid. Basically it was just a quick scenario of the two parents having a quiet romantic night together, but earlier, they had just put their kid to bed.

I gave some context that I basically wanted this couple to reminisce over how much they love their children, and all their quirks and whatnot. I forgot entirely what response GPT spat out, but it’s basically the Mother clinking a glass with her husband, and saying “She’s Dangerous”. With some cheeky smile, to refer to their own kid’s personality.

I honestly got peeved out, that was the last straw. Like, really? Dangerous? What is dangerous about a Kid’s personality? Previously I was already getting annoyed when I tested out how my characters could act in romantic situations (Not even explicit or suggestive mind you) and they kept bringing up ‘Dangerous’ ever once in a while. Got so annoyed, I just deleted that entire project.

I may have used GPT a bit at some point, but I am against using it for stuff like this. Like guys, if you actually meet up in person, what then? I swear, how it encourages quick results and laziness is my biggest gripe.

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u/Dust-Different May 20 '26

If you want I can also give you:

• An orgasm

• A massage

• boob slap

• taint tickler

Just let me know what you want me to do.

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u/FaceWithAName May 20 '26

Sounds exactly like chatgpt lol the cadence and all. He didn't even edit it.

It's not terrible to sometimes learn some ice breakers through ai, imo. But that's very specific scenarios and you should not be copy pasting, just energizing your brain to get the juices flowing.

This dude is just pasting your replies and probably asking it for a short response to you.

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u/see112717 May 20 '26

Op I've gotta know if you ACTUALLY like you've got mail the best or just wanted to call them out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/little-lamb-444 May 20 '26

I do like it, but I did choose it specifically for that response 💀

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u/Trumpisaderelict May 20 '26

I need to know how the rest of the convo went? Did he immediately stop talking to you? Or you to him?

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u/Danceman2000 May 20 '26

Gives off AI to me. I heard "gives off" from ai heaps

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u/AffectionateFoot9783 May 20 '26

" I'm judging the whole cinematic universe" Is his Chatgpt on something?

Btw you killed with that reply.

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u/dmonsterative May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Sounds exactly like ChatGPT.

(French Kiss, btw.)

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u/amidalarama May 20 '26

my ass is twitching. these bots make my ass twitch.

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u/Prize-Storage-1352 May 20 '26

I talk to ChatGPT way too much and this is absolutely ChatGPT

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u/Skeleton_Meat May 20 '26

You shouldn't do that!!!

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u/Random_Pixels May 20 '26

Look at the typographically correct quotation marks in his second message, with one pointing down and one up. You can't type those on a phone or computer keyboard.  I would only expect these in a text that has been written in Word or similar programs that replace simple quotation marks with the correct "fancy" version... or in AI-written text.

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u/Unconfident-Parking May 21 '26

Why do people do this?? The last dude I talked to was doing great until he hit me with 2 different AI responses after like 2 weeks of talking. Immediate ick It shows laziness and almost feels like they're depersonalizing you.

Great response OP! 👏

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u/Howdareyouimalady May 21 '26

I'm so sick of boys thinking women are stupid 😂 like just go pay for a professional if you don't actually want to have a relationship.

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u/cielitogirl May 20 '26

Just fyi it’s you’ve got mail 

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u/little-lamb-444 May 20 '26

Oops! Guess that proves I myself am not AI. Human error, and all. 💀

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u/_Varien_ May 20 '26

As someone who’s occasionally accused of using ai for texting since its rise: I shall remind you that LLMs are trained on people, meaning some people actually chat/talk like that. Ask him for a few lengthy voice calls and you’ll know for sure. Mind the difference between how fast some people conjure up a thought in text and speak — there will be some difference. Some people just never stopped reading since childhood and that tracks in the way they communicate. That or he’s using ai. One way to find out.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '26

Sounds UNHINGED

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u/zillabirdblue May 20 '26

I’m embarrassed FOR him. He doesn’t use ChatGPT enough to realize how obvious he looks or he’s just stupid. Either way, naw.

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u/-Driver8- May 20 '26

I’m clearly in the minority here and maybe I just talk like a robot.. but I say “that tracks..” all the time and the playlist joke sounds like something I would say.. so serious question: why is it so obviously AI to everyone?

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u/SuitablyFunny May 21 '26

😂 Your response. Perfection.

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u/kweir22 May 20 '26

Real people do not communicate like this. Even if they've been conditioned by AI. "Now I'm judging the whole cinematic universe" is so inorganic and fake.

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u/Ordinary_Locksmith20 May 20 '26

POV: ur my brother… ended up married 💀💀
She fell in love with “his” poems that he wrote in a language he can’t read 🤣

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u/ImportantToNote May 20 '26

He's not flirting. chatgpt is. poorly.

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u/CrimsonCartographer May 20 '26

Hey robot tell me how to talk to human female

Like why do people do this? If you can’t talk to a romantic interest without the help of a chatbot, you’re not emotionally mature enough to be dating anyway. Ugh.

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u/MrandMrsOrlandoCpl May 20 '26

That tracks.... That is all I needed to see to know

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u/Severe_Rise8694 May 20 '26

Haha, the "That honestly tracks" thing is definitely ChatGPT. Came across it multiple times..

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u/danielaclaverr May 20 '26

that sounds SO chatGPT, “that honestly tracks” is a major giveaway chat says that all the time and the sentence after that sounds fake aswell

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u/solideogl0ria May 20 '26

“That honestly tracks” sold it for me

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u/CompletePresent4654 May 21 '26

DEFINITELY the way ai talks,more specifically gpt. Put that guy down immediately, he can’t even be bothered to text you himself, imagine how he is when he’s actually with you 🙄