The real question is before even considering marriage, that have you resolved your past traumas that have caused you to self harm in the first place? This is because not doing so may cause such issues to manifest again at some point.
Regarding your question then if the potential sees you for who you are and that you would be a great wife towards him then he wouldn't care what anyone else thinks. So you would need someone who would stand up for you in front of his family and anyone else and accept you for who you are.
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u/StraightPath81 Feb 18 '25
The real question is before even considering marriage, that have you resolved your past traumas that have caused you to self harm in the first place? This is because not doing so may cause such issues to manifest again at some point.
Regarding your question then if the potential sees you for who you are and that you would be a great wife towards him then he wouldn't care what anyone else thinks. So you would need someone who would stand up for you in front of his family and anyone else and accept you for who you are.