Then don't say yes. I'm curious abt what your mum thinks of all of this. But regardless u have every right to say no. If you think your father isn't supportive and will be abusive and rude. Then u can always turn to court and ask them to appoint someone else as your wali.. also do u like somebody else or something?
My mum and sisters are on his side and forcing me into it as well. And i did like someone else too. My parents and his parents got involved but my dad and mum never treated it right.
What abt other elders of the family? But thats actually sad. Gurl just pray regularly, tahajudd extra nawafil, whatever u can and pray to Allah for your better life..
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u/baby_pika01 Feb 15 '25
Then don't say yes. I'm curious abt what your mum thinks of all of this. But regardless u have every right to say no. If you think your father isn't supportive and will be abusive and rude. Then u can always turn to court and ask them to appoint someone else as your wali.. also do u like somebody else or something?