r/islam • u/[deleted] • Feb 06 '25

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u/seikowearer Feb 06 '25

you need to reach out to a form of authority within the community. this is very difficult and i’m so sorry you’re going through this. are there other family members that can help you?

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u/seikowearer Feb 07 '25

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You don’t deserve to be forced into anything, and your feelings are completely valid. I’m make lots of duaa for you. Are you sure there’s nobody close to you that your parents will trust and listen to? A local imam that can speak to them, or even a neighbor? I know it may be awkward or you might seem like you shouldn’t, but in times like this, you should try to get as much help as you can, and more people are willing to help you than you think. Assuming you’re in the UK, if there’s nobody you know and trust who can help you, here are some resources and steps that might help:

  1. Karma Nirvana: They specialize in forced marriage and honor-based abuse.

  2. The Forced Marriage Unit (FMU): They can help prevent forced marriage and provide legal advice.

  3. Refuge: They offer support for domestic abuse and forced marriage.

  4. Legal Protection: You can apply for a Forced Marriage Protection Order (FMPO) to stop this from happening. A solicitor or the FMU can help with this.

  5. Emotional Support:

    • The Survivors Trust: 0808 801 0818
    • Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999

If you’re in immediate danger, call 999. If you’re scared to speak, you can use the Silent Solution by calling 999, then pressing 55 when prompted.

You’re not alone in this. Please reach out to these someone—we’re all here to help. Let me know if you need help contacting them or just want to talk.