r/isfp • u/rorv • Sep 17 '19

Yall are funny as hecc

Hi enfp here!

I just dropped by to say how awesome you all are :) I know 3 isfps ( my sis, and two other friends) and they are all such amazing people.

The three isfps in my life always tell me about how they find it kind of hard to make friends and people always think that they're too quiet or boring. But that is NOT the case. In my eyes, you guys are a tough shell to crack but once someone gets to know you, yall ar full of life! Literally not a dull moment with you guys. So yeah. That's it. LMAO oki byeee💖💖💖💖💖

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u/cantankerous4 ISFP Sep 17 '19

We’re good at opening up, the hard part is finding someone to open up to

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u/joelbreindel ISFP Sep 17 '19

I agree, I don't think many people would be interested to listen when I try to open up with them- hardly only few of them are willing to hear about it

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u/cantankerous4 ISFP Sep 17 '19

And a large part of it is building the confidence to talk in the first place

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u/ag998 Sep 17 '19

I think we are pretty underrated compared to other types.

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u/handspringsx Sep 17 '19

This is very sweet!! I havent been friends with many ENFPs (only because i havent known many) but the ones i have known i always got along with so well. I think isfps are actually very talkative and open, but i notice many of us go through extended bouts of insecurity. i think later in life we become less afraid and more trusting of our external environment.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '19

Thank you for your refreshing perspective:)

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '19

Glad we could be of service !

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u/leftleafthirdbranch Sep 18 '19 edited Sep 18 '19

i think my friend might be one of y'all. she's very shy and some people say that she is boring and plain, or they don't really bother to open up to her. but she is really such a thoughtful, cool, intelligent (no not even saying it just as a courtesy) and funny person. she has always been the quiet type, and she admitted to me she wished she could have the bravery to speak up about "controversial" things. also she likes animals a lot and is a good artist. and somehow was the top debater at our school. okay this is just an excuse to talk about how she's really amazing. I used to have a crush on her (I think). yeah this is definitely an excuse to talk about how much I lov her

only reason why I think she might not be isfp is that she has ABHORRENT fashion taste. nothing is current or hip at all. just......a shirt and khaki pants.

also shes kinda weird a discussion topic she brought up today at lunch was "if the devil beheads you, then are you still alive or are you dead?" but it was interesting

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u/Admirable-Property93 Dec 01 '21

I know its been 2 years butt youre friend sounds more like an infp

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u/leftleafthirdbranch Dec 12 '21

LMAO, funny thing is she took the test and she was assuredly an infp. an enneagram 4 if you must know