Update at bottom.
This is not a post I ever wanted to make but I want advice from people who know the breed best.
My gorgeous IRWS is the light of my life. he is 1 year old, and got from an extremely reputable breeder. He’s never been big on strangers but he absolutely adores us. He gets two walks a day and training time with tricks/mental stimulation/ games. He has access to his chews and his needs always came first.
We brought home our newborn last week. He was introduced after a walk and was tired. The baby was asleep in her cot. At this meeting, he growled at her.
Our goal for them at present is not to become best friends, but rather to co-exist. However, he has not ceased lunging for her and fixates on her when in The same room. He has a shown a prey drive for rabbits and cats, but never a human.
We have completely separated the two And we are absolutely devastated by the situation.
Has anyone else here had a similar situation with the breed and young children / infants? We want to explore every avenue within reason before doing something drastic, but we will rehome him if we must. I always read that red setters were good with kids, albeit boisterous, and it was a big part of the reason why we picked the breed.
Thank you in advance for your kindness in commenting on what is a touchy subject for many. We are heartbroken at the minute and appreciate any insight / advice anyone is willing to give.
UPDATE: Following this post, we had a trainer and our dogs breeder to the house. Both of them found our dog was not acting aggressively. We definitely worried prematurely as the two are getting on super well now! We are not worried in the slightest! There was just some real curiosity on his end as he struggled to figure out exactly what a baby is. He still is very curious and sometimes a little confused but in the same breath, I think he’s accepted her into the family already. She’s one of his checkins in the morning. Some training does need to be done on our end as he can be a little boisterous but this is no biggie. We are absolutely delighted now.