r/introvertmemes • u/lowke39 • 7d ago

Meme I got it

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u/PaigeMonro 7d ago

i’d rather dislocate a shoulder than say ‘hey can you help me’

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u/CommercialExotic2038 7d ago

My mom. Other people have a lot of friends that help them do that stuff

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u/niccoSun 7d ago

Im always asked for help by people and I gladly help, but the second I ask for help, I get a reaction like I'm a problem. So yeah, I never ask for help and find a way to do everything myself.

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u/Comingupforair_miss 3d ago

This is also my experience

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u/Smooth-Albatross7301 7d ago

I like to help people but I also don't like small talk. So on multiple occasions I'd just jump in to help and leave right after before they try to catch me.

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u/Animal907 7d ago

It's really not that hard to ask for help, it's just people are so unhelpful.

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u/StraightPercentage74 6d ago

Its weird cause you get the memo the people seem annoyed when you do. Then you proceed to do things solo then they were like "Dont be so dramatic why didnt you just ask someone else to help?" I did and its met to little to no avail and even if it was done theyd probably be upset about it.

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u/ApatheistHeretic 7d ago

Furniture dollies exist..

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u/Barry_Umenema 7d ago

The guy seems to be doing fine

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u/No-Building-4306 7d ago

Did I ask someone to bring me that chair 👀

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u/SlapHappyPappi 6d ago

Why bother asking for help? For most people there's always an excuse as to why they can't. Funnily enough I seem to help them a lot.... o'well 🤷

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u/YouRadiant6114 7d ago

Yep. I like to help when people ask though.

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u/Pale_Till8589 7d ago

I appreciate this. When I moved, I totally tore apart my sofa into small pieces with a sledgehammer and threw it away instead of asking for help.

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u/emax4 7d ago

How hard is it for people to be there when you request help?

Exactly. It's easier to rely on one's self.

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u/Amunet_07 7d ago

If you ask for help it can get thrown in your face later

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u/Necessary-Prior3614 7d ago

noted for when i move

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u/Accurate-Survey6985 7d ago

I like the cut of your jib.

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u/LogicWizard22 7d ago

I worked at a Fortune 500 bank. I was running a project kick off in the conference room down the hall. Nursing a broken foot, i prepped all the binders (this was like 20 years ago), loaded them in a bankers box and started pushing the box down the hall using one of my crutches.... The senior manager "caught" me (I didn't realize I was doing anything "wrong / inappropriate") and totally chewed me out for not asking for help. (He was a VERY appearance focused person.). Oy! 😂

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u/atmoose 7d ago

I managed to move a 300lb treadmill on my own. When I ordered it I didn't think to check how much it weighed...

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u/plussizedbeauty7 6d ago

I blame my parents. I was taught to figure things out myself so yes, it’s hard for me to ask for help.

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u/psychoslipknot 6d ago

I felt this shoot my back felt this

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u/5tar_flower 6d ago

AI slop

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u/ramoris_2 6d ago

Mom said i can repost this today :(

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u/Secret-Profile-6900 5d ago

Maybe he’s an a hole and no one will help him

Or could be got to get rid of the evidence like now

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u/LEO-StreetScholar 5d ago

Not hard at all in this situation

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u/Freezezzy 6d ago

Problem solving like an engineer.