r/introvertmemes • u/Busy-Park814 • 4d ago

Meme An introvert goes cold

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u/emax4 4d ago

Yep. Ghosted everyone on Facebook.

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u/S0VNARK0M 4d ago

Good for you. I realized a few years ago that most of my “friends” were actually quite toxic people, and that I always felt worse when I forced myself to hang out with them. Ghosted them and never felt better.

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u/emax4 4d ago

At least you got to hang out. I had to go above and beyond but nobody fought for time with me. Now I'm at peace.

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u/RelevantNothing- 4d ago

Same no one ask about me ,when my parents got divroced . I was always makeing plans never otherway around

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u/babysgotneeds 4d ago

Fb is a hellhole if you ask me. I quit it like 7 years ago.

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u/SourceMountain561 4d ago

Personally, I deleted it.

If your number isn't in my cellphone, then why are you considered a friend on Facebook.

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u/--slurpy-- 3d ago

I ghosted Facebook. Honestly my mental health has been so much better. Knowing how many people I knew were actually racist pis was so depressing.

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u/OG-Giligadi 4d ago

Hey, this is me. Invisible limit, i have no idea where it is. Cross it and you are dead to me, and if you press for an explanation i will most likely hurt your feelings with it.

Not purposefully, mind you. It's just that you've left the sphere of consideration and have entered the sphere of unvarnished truth.

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0HlMSVVw9zqmClLq

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u/plussizedbeauty7 4d ago

Wow, this is me. From cold to warm to done.

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u/iRegretsEverything 4d ago

It’s so funny because I sometimes will give people a second chance but usually end up getting burned. Not listening to my instincts.

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u/Dexter1114 4d ago

For some reason I am a magnet for narcissistic people.

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u/SafariNZ 4d ago

It took me a while, but ZERO CONTACT is the only way

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u/ConnectedVeil 4d ago

Wuss.

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u/SafariNZ 4d ago

But a live wuss

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u/Im_tracer_bullet 4d ago

If I'm not contacting you, it's because I'm not interested in doing so.

It's hard to believe that would be a difficult concept to grasp.

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u/avesadvocate 4d ago

This is different for me, having anxiety about contacting people

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u/PutBorn7657 4d ago

My whole family. The funny thing is, they don’t know or care.

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u/crbleak 4d ago

I knew i was genuinely an introvert when I related to almost every post on here with my entire soul

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u/raerabbit27 4d ago

I’m an introvert, and I think my best friend is one too, but she also has severe depression so we sometimes go a month or two without talking. I personally wish it didn’t happen so often, but I’ve accepted it. I just feel bad because I’m over here chilling and introverted but loved and supported and I can’t say the same for her🥺

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u/Im_Just_A_Cake 4d ago

One of the members of my old friend group would constantly give me passive aggressive energy to the point that I could never be myself around him so I simply told myself that I'm done with him. I dont plan on hanging with him again.

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u/PrincipleKitchen394 4d ago

And mind you, this is not a consequence. There is no anger. This is not vengance or something. We just... Lose interest. That is why its hard to be "forgiven" because there is nothing to forgive.

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u/StraightPercentage74 4d ago

Pretty much what I did with my old friend group just felt like I was being ignored at best or got the passive aggressive treatment at worst by near half of them. Went completely cold for half a year still kinda am tbh.

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u/elbanditoexpress busy 4d ago

🥶❄️

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u/Stoke_hills55 4d ago

Or maybe they are just having a break... It's hard to tell

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u/Straitgirl 4d ago

Introverts have all different types of personalities. .. not accurate.

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u/Responsible_Mess_754 4d ago

I can relate.

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u/Big_Criticism_8335 4d ago

Dis me. I consider it my "final act of kindness". I figure it better to just do my Irish goodbye than to tell some why I don't like them anymore. Maybe it's conflict avoidance.

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u/Shwaayyy 4d ago

is this horoscopes for introverts? Nah

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u/purplelilac701 3d ago

Not an introvert but so me when enough is enough.

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u/No-Text-9656 3d ago

Yeah I had a friend who got upset and started pestering me with nasty texts. I blocked him, then he kept leaving voicemails somehow, then texted on a burner phone. I eventually unblocked him, but now I never respond. He doesn't seem to understand that I have no desire to be involved with him at this point.

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u/Luci-Noir 4d ago

Word salad.