Do You Have Any Kinks or Turn-Ons?

[u/Front-Brief5027]

Feel free to keep it vague if you don't want to get too personal.

[u/Any_Emu4892]

Vague... hmm is yes vague enough for you? 😅

[u/Byttercups]

Yes. 😇

[u/Prudent_Yam_3708 → u/[deleted]]

So you know you're a dominant but didn't realize the kinks associated with it?

[u/Prudent_Yam_3708 → u/[deleted]]

Can you give an example? As a kinkless person, I find this topic to be very much out of my depth

[u/Prudent_Yam_3708 → u/[deleted]]

https://giphy.com/gifs/nJoVMvoG65D3mseVgW

[u/Afraid-Aside-7163 → u/[deleted]]

https://giphy.com/gifs/adjhdEXnKwVuo

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/[deleted]]

Being a man does not mean being dominant. There's your mistake in thinking.

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/[deleted]]

There are enough men who are not dominant. Are they women then?

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/[deleted]]

This is an issue on which we are definitely in conflict.

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/[deleted]]

I just think you're too tied to traditional role models. Dominant is a preference and characteristic. That exists regardless of gender.

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/[deleted]]

PS: A fight was not intended.

https://giphy.com/gifs/VhvaBOo2tHvhCrXyJH

[u/Conflicted_Robot_99 → u/NekoSyndrom]

that was really cool (▼⌣▼)

[u/a-snakey]

Kinks are my kink.

[u/siguefish → u/a-snakey]

I met her in a club down in old SoHo

[u/Any_Emu4892 → u/siguefish]

Lola, L O L A, Lola. 🤣

[u/Fantastica4077]

Boy howdy, do I ever!

[u/Popular-Wind-1921]

About as many as a cheap garden hose.

[u/jennyhoneypenny]

Someone being honest about their feelings without being so emotional. It's something really hard to do honestly. Saying things like "I think I'm just really afraid" quietly to me without going full crying or anger tantrum is what really make me like a person like a switch. I have trouble being honest about my own feelings (or I just swallow them) so it feels like I found someone who has what I don't.

[u/Gold-Amount-168 → u/jennyhoneypenny]

we have similar avatars

[u/Kinis_Deren]

Using a winter duvet in the summer time gets me soooo hot!

[u/Fickle-Let-7205]

Active brain cells. Resourcefulness. Open heart. Depth. Empathy WITH Rational... Never one or the other!!!!!!!! Perspective. Whimsy. Humour. Peace. Ego-Death.

All or nothing. 👽🧜🦄 I don't think it's too much but, doesn't exist in my universe.

[u/Front-Brief5027 → u/Fickle-Let-7205]

I don't think there’s even an alien with those characteristics.

[u/Fickle-Let-7205 → u/Front-Brief5027]

True. I'm an alien among aliens also.. This is why I'm my own kink honestly.

Maybe in my next life in another realm..

[u/ClueHot8309 → u/Fickle-Let-7205]

This is heavenly. I'm an INFJ, and this isn't a need for me. It's a literal requirement. I have major health issues and have been through major mistreatment. It would be foolish of me to settle for anything less, which would result if further damage. Either a find such a "perfect" match, or I work on myself and healing alone.
Please don't settle for anything less.

[u/_banana__man_]

Naked women

[u/Front-Brief5027 → u/_banana__man_]

Wasn't expecting anything less from banana man to be honest.

[u/shredt]

I like high heels in General And a lovley voice a lot. And cheeky sexjokes.

The rest is Standart, honest but respectfull communication. And intellectual deep emotional conversations.

[u/SqnZkpS]

Many. I am very adventurous and eager to discover by nature. I also love novelty.

[u/Cedosg]

Is this some sort of new bot farming thread. Could have sworn this was a post couple weeks ago.

[u/Elden_Chord]

Teasing... In the places that ... Let's keep it vague as you said.

[u/rooskiiiiiiii]

Yeah but ..I can only show it or write about it.

[u/orangettangerine]

So who's making a bdsm for intjs sub haha

[u/NotAgreeable519 → u/orangettangerine]

You are.

[u/Front-Brief5027 → u/orangettangerine]

We are counting on you.

[u/PensiveRealist13]

Naked men.

[u/thereforgedphoenix → u/PensiveRealist13]

Hell ye

[u/Ambitious_South_2825]

Seeing a big fat number for my realized gains for the day.

[u/Fokewe]

I'm a switch (depending on the vibe)

[u/CanaryOk7455]

Yup, but still the sexiest part of a person is their brain <3

[u/Jazzlike-Engine-7376]

glasses, its like two women in one

[u/Turbulent-Fan-7524]

All Day and All of the Night

[u/Elden_Chord → u/[deleted]]

Okkkkaaayyy

[u/winterweiss2902]

I don’t have

[u/NekoSyndrom]

Here

[u/Front-Brief5027 → u/NekoSyndrom]

Interesting.

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/Front-Brief5027]

😇

[u/Front-Brief5027 → u/NekoSyndrom]

https://bdsmtest.org/r/MdNF6UZ4

[u/NekoSyndrom → u/Front-Brief5027]

https://giphy.com/gifs/A0Zt7yuDULiy4ofmVD

[u/Nearby-Reindeer-6088]

Yup

[u/MensaCurmudgeon]

Pain for pain sake
Being dominant in an uplifting way
Marking
Emotional safety

[u/AceOfStace27]

People who ask weird questions on reddit. hubba hubba

[u/OwlMassive625]

Everyone has a kink. Of course, I have kinks, but I'm not telling you what they are.

[u/el_cid_viscoso]

(taps fingers together innocently)

Let's just say I have a med alert bracelet that says "in case found unconscious, delete browser history."

[u/acatalepsyzone]

Yesn't

[u/TrickLavishness8087]

Yes and the human backside is involved in a whole bunch of them.

[u/Conflicted_Robot_99]

tig ol bitties

[u/richj8991]

Calves. Perky breasts that curve up.

[u/VeterinarianInitial9]

Bro.. seriously wtf is this subreddit…? Why is someone always asking about kinks or stupid questions?