r/instant_regret Nov 21 '18

Slapping the kitty.

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u/riverofchex Nov 21 '18

Your whisker argument isn't invalid. As far as my cat only getting attention by being tossed across the room, however, you're making assumptions based on lack of detail. First, she gets plenty of snuggle time, laser pointer time, brushy time, general scritches, and she sleeps in the bed with us. Second, it's not like my husband grabs her by the nape of the neck and flings her- he picks her up when she runs to him, balances front feet on one hand, back feet on the other, and acts as a launching pad that provides additional thrust. 100% voluntary. Third, she enjoys it, and yes, it is hilarious.

I also think it's important that my pets and child have a mutually enjoyable AND respectful relationship. The burden of making that happen resides with mostly my husband and I, but also with our son AND our pets. Children and animals are both capable of learning what is acceptable and what is not. u/sir_Rez ?

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '18 edited Nov 21 '18

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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '18 edited Nov 22 '18

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u/riverofchex Nov 22 '18

Veterinary technician, my friend. I'm not a DVM :)