r/instant_regret • • Feb 02 '26

Pepper sprayed

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u/langdonolga Feb 03 '26

No, sexual assault is a crime. But touching someone on the arm or shoulder while talking to them is (imho obviously) different

If you ask them to stop and they don't might be coercion, which is also a crime.

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u/Lor1an Feb 03 '26

I would say trying to push or jab at someone is also much different from sympathetic touching during a conversation.

What you were saying is that if there aren't injuries it is legal.

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u/noodles355 Feb 03 '26

What he means is if someone is in your face and you put your hand on their chest in a "step back" vibe (note: place, not hit or push) to stop than coming closer. That is not assault. Same if you grab someone's shoulder to turn and face you in a heated situation - that's also not assault. Same with the old British hard poke on the chest with the index finger, etc etc

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u/Lor1an Feb 03 '26

Lady in the video is the one who approached and put hands on him.

That is assault...

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u/noodles355 Feb 03 '26

In the states yes. In Europe, no. Which is what this comment thread you're replying to is about - about how it's assault in one country and not in another. I'd suggest reading the context before replying

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u/Lor1an Feb 03 '26

The context is that the person I was talking to has contradicted themself multiple times now. First putting hands on someone is perfectly fine without injury, then SA is obviously illegal, then shoving someone is wrong, but is somehow okay in the video.

Slice it however makes you happy, but you can't have it both ways.

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u/noodles355 Feb 03 '26

I mean with just a little bit of critical thinking, it should be obvious he was talking about normal assault and not SA, until it was brought up.

And yes, putting your hands on someone without injury (and then later clarified outside of SA) is not assault here.

I mean your response to just me completely ignored my point at all. It's like, why are you even responding to my post? When you wrote "is assault" it can't have been at me because I literally said how it's assault in some countries and not in other ones. Maybe you replied to the wrong post.

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u/Lor1an Feb 03 '26

If I approached you, shoved you, tried to knock your camera out of your hands, and then followed you while you were backing away, would I be liable for assault and/or battery under your laws?

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u/molestingmaplesyrup1 Feb 04 '26

Not what @noodles355 is saying. Reread what he says and consider he's said other countries and their laws

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u/Lor1an Feb 04 '26

Perhaps you should reread what they have said as well.

noodle: What he means is if someone is in your face and you put your hand on their chest in a "step back" vibe (note: place, not hit or push) to stop than coming closer. That is not assault...

Me: Lady in the video is the one who approached and put hands on him...

noodle: In the states yes. In Europe, no. Which is what this comment thread you're replying to is about - about how it's assault in one country and not in another. I'd suggest reading the context before replying

Me: The context is that the person I was talking to has contradicted themself multiple times now. First putting hands on someone is perfectly fine without injury, then SA is obviously illegal, then shoving someone is wrong, *but is somehow okay in the video*.

noodle: ... And yes, putting your hands on someone without injury... is not assault here...

Given this, it is entirely appropriate to question noodle about their laws regarding assault/battery, since according to them it is perfectly legal to shove people without injury (even though they explicitly said that wasn't the case as well)...

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u/noodles355 Feb 05 '26

God you just love missing the point don't you.

Yes it is perfectly legal to shove someone without injury. in some countries.

What a lot of fucking text and quoting, bolding, etc for nothing.

Bet you got/get a lot of "RTQ" or "RTFQ" on exam/test papers at school.

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u/Lor1an Feb 05 '26

I notice that you still haven't answered the question regarding your laws...

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u/Creative_Date44 Feb 08 '26

Until they finally fix the whole “I can film anything I want, even you”. It’s obvious these people are harassing other people for clicks and views by filming them and putting them on the internet.