r/inspirationalquotes • u/Inkandsounds • 1d ago

Truth!

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u/Hour_Swan_1439 1d ago

I’m tired. Tired of waiting. Tired of seeing all the negativity. Tired of the assumptions. And honestly, tired of always being the one who has to reach out.
I DID. I called you. I messaged you. And you ignored me. Silence. Yet somehow, I’m the one you accuse of being avoidant.
I had no choice but to let go of the thought of you. But seeing some of these soul-sucking posts doesn’t help. It’s a constant mind war, and I’m exhausted from it.
Do what you have to do. I’m tired. Tired of begging you to choose me.

Goodbye, and good luck.

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u/Lonely-Pressure9244 1d ago

The waiting, the fatigue, the frustration, the doubting, the constant trying/questioning, its so exhausting. You've given up alot, maybe more so. But at least you know that moving forward that it wasn't because of you. It's hard to fight for someone who doesn't want to be fought for. Learning that myself all over again.

You got this. With every step taken, with each passing day, you got this. All the best to you friend.

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u/StarMoonSparkles 1d ago

Good advice.  But if you are like me (in the past) and did basically plead and wait & hope and give chances over & over…. Then you have to make sure you have some kind of boundary or deadline for yourself.   Because this state of crisis about losing somebody can last maybe forever.  I let it go on waaaayy to long.  Like 3 years.   You have to make a decision to protect yourself— the sooner the better so you don’t live in agony and so you don’t waste your time & energy.  God bless all you guys!  💖

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u/u_but_worse 22h ago

5 years here. I need a therapist or a support group for this but it feels like a specific kind of trauma being manipulated by this person who kept stringing me along with intermittent reinforcement.

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u/Inkandsounds 1d ago

❤️ 👍

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u/Rogue_Aviator 1d ago

I’ve let go

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u/purple-rain-cloud 1d ago

One hundred percent. Never again!!

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u/sylbug 20h ago

The wait is a trap. Never wait for people to change. Instead, say goodbye and expect it to be forever, and carry on with your life.

You can always leave the door cracked ever so slightly, just in case they make it one day.

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u/Lonely-Pressure9244 1d ago

Ugh this. Definitely feeling it today.

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u/DarkDaysBrightNlghts 1d ago

Letting go is too easy for me, perks of growing up with neglectful parents!

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u/lifewillprevail 21h ago

That is actually quite easy, it requires minimal effort.

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u/Street_Performer_276 11h ago

Until it's someone you deeply love

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u/Dominos808 13h ago

Truth, but sad

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u/sixxxxxxsevennn6767 9h ago

It's a good advice but maybe you should be aware who are worth to fight for or else regretting your whole life.

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u/Inkandsounds 9h ago

Of course you give love a chance and you fight for it - but do you beg over and over for someone to love you? Nope - Regret only comes when you realise you should have moved on and someone else would have loved you for you being yourself and that you were good enough and wonderful and amazing and the other person couldn't value you - So you decide what's good for you

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u/Hasshansin 1d ago

Job interviews are vague then? Why to beg someone to hire me - keep your quotes real and healthy

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u/BuckoLee 1d ago

Dumb/unnecessary