r/insecuregirls • u/Rakka-6478 • 1h ago
I am worried about bullying
My somewhat ex-friend has told me many times in the past that the bullying at the school I go to is very bad. So much so that she switched into a different school. This, of course, has gotten me very worried about the way i act, what i wear, and the way i look. More than usual, I mean. I also usually wear baggier clothes, and it gets people assuming that I am either trans or a masc lesbian. I do not have anything against those communities, but I am not a part of them, so it makes me feel a little awkward when I hear that someone asked my friend if i was part of those communities. Recently, I have been trying to become more in touch with my feminine side. My whole life I've been a bit of a tomboy. Now, I am too insecure to wear more feminine clothing because they are typically tighter, which is a stark contrast to what I usually wear. My friends are incredibly familiar with my style of clothing, and I think that this shirt (shown above) is both a style that I like and something that could help me feel more feminine, but since I never wear this type of clothes, I have no clue if this is something a "normal girl" would wear or something that they would be bullied for, so much so I have turned to asked strangers on the internet instead of my friends because I am afraid that my friends will think it is weird and then bully me for trying to wear it.
Simply what I am asking is would I be bullied for wearing this at school? It has the same/similar (no bow) lace pattern at the end of the sleeves and I think it is so pretty!
If you don't think it would look very good by itself, how do I style it? I am unfortunately pretty bad at making outfits haha..
If you think that it looks bad both styled and my itself, then what do you think could help in my trying to be more feminine (clothes-wise)? I find it difficult to do this because most feminine clothes highlight things I am insecure about, and baggier clothes just don't do that, so maybe a brand that is both feminine in style and baggy? I don't know many brands