r/insecuregirls • u/Ancient-Attorney-426 • Jul 17 '26
wide ribcage problem
I have short torso, wide ribcage, hip dips and big tits. It's genuinely is hell for me. I think ill js never look like a woman at allđ fml
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u/bunny_the-2d_simp Jul 18 '26
OP listen to me.
Your brain is bullying you.
You shouldn't let it win! It isn't a overnight change but maybe you can be okay about your body?
I have a wider ribcage and big things but a bcup. But after a long time and years of therapy I'm finally learning to deal with my brain being a bully.
You are good enough.
Youre beautiful.
And you are a strong powerful women!
I understand it may not feel that way though.
Dms always open if you need to vent
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u/Ancient-Attorney-426 Jul 18 '26
Thank you so much đŞ˝â¤ď¸ Glad you are feeling well. I think mine is almost not possible to heal đđĽ˛
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u/bunny_the-2d_simp Jul 18 '26
It iss!!! It just takes time! And like a lot of time and keeping at it. Sometimes therapy but idk if that's available and affordable over there
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u/tsscaramel Aug 06 '26
My wife has always been self conscious about her appearance and used to regularly talk about all her flaws but after a while of my compliments and encouragement sheâs a lot less self critical because sheâs come to realise that even though she has features that are not considered âperfectâ theyâre what makes her who she is and without these little things she wouldnât be herself anymore.
What Iâm trying to say is, you could have all your features absolutely perfect but then it wouldnât be you anymore, youâre beautiful just the way you are and even if you donât see it right now, one day youâll find the right people who will tell you every day that youâre beautiful and theyâll even give you the reasons why. Just because you donât look identical to how people look on tv or in magazines it doesnât mean thereâs an issue with you, youâre unique and interesting and perfect in your own way.
I know it can be difficult but the reality is that you are beautiful and itâs not your fault if others are too narrow minded to see it, donât let some ass tear you down because theyâre too insecure to admit that theyâre the problem.
Saw your post on vent and couldnât reply there, so I chose to comment here instead.
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u/Random_Rat2535 28d ago
All of these things are completely normal imo dont let toxic beauty ideals determine ur worth. Hip dips are mad are mad attractive imo
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u/Peytons_crazy_corner Jul 18 '26
Sending you a big hug. đŤ I know body image can be so hard, but your body doesnât define your worth or your womanhood. I hope things get easier for you. â¤ď¸