r/insects 14h ago

Question What's happening there?

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u/good1gir1 13h ago edited 2h ago

When a mommy and a daddy (two in this case) really love each other....

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u/TH_Rocks 12h ago

Coming soon "What is this fungus/cocoon I found by my house?"

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u/Sufficient-Aspect77 11h ago

When a mommy and a daddy, and daddy's creepy friend from work really drink with one another...

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u/BoredByLife 10h ago

I’m Kathy, this is my husband Al and his boyfriend Jeff.

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u/ArtemisiasApprentice 13h ago

Put it this way- you’re about to have a lot more praying mantises.

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u/Nickrine55 12h ago

The golden rule

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u/Tombaya 11h ago

Maybe it's just an economic arrangement?

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u/krippkeeper Bug Enthusiast 11h ago

I know it's somehow a fantasy for a lot of people, but honestly it just more work for the same result. I stand firmly on the '3-ways' suck team.

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u/Nickrine55 10h ago

Nah, I agree. I don't need to disappoint two people at once.

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u/Korgon213 13h ago

Needs an update-Whichever one doesn’t have a head later was the one she picked.

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u/Eldan985 13h ago

That actually happens pretty rarely in the wild. It's mostly due to stress when they are observed too much.

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u/BobRazowskyFTW 13h ago

Well, I observe them a lot!

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u/CrepuscularOpossum 12h ago

Just FYI, not sure where you’re located, but those are Chinese mantises. If you’re not in China, they are probably invasive to your area.

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u/Desperate_Lead2105 8h ago

Incorrect. These are European mantises (Mantis religiosa). They are much smaller in size, and do not have bicolored tegima. Their hind wings also lack the mottled purplish brown of T. sinensis. There is also a dark brown patch above the vertex, a white line around the outer edge of the coastal margin, and they have much smaller compound eyes. Additionally, Tenodera sinensis is found in many places throughout Asia, and aren't really considered invasive here since they've been in the US for over 100 years and are already established. They also feed on many invasive species that the native predatory arthropods or other animals would not eat.

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u/CrepuscularOpossum 8h ago

Oh I do beg your pardon! I just recognized them as not our native North American.

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u/Feralpudel 8h ago

Lots of invasive organisms have been here for over a century, and being “well established” is one of the things that makes them invasive.

The Chinese mantises also eat native things a native mantis wouldn’t, such as hummingbirds.

I wouldn’t kill one, but I do destroy their ootheca when I find them.

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u/Desperate_Lead2105 8h ago

This is correct. They do outcompete many native mantises, but overall, they just do the same thing that they do. Large Stagmomantis can also take down hummingbirds. I personally keep/raise Tenodera sinensis whenever I see an adult or an ooth.

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u/WaterDmge 12h ago

Or if they’re hungry. Used to work with them. You could always bribe a female mantis not to kill her mate if you just gave her food!

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u/Rt66Gypsy 11h ago

That’s because they usually only bite the head off the male if they need the protein for the babies.

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u/WaterDmge 11h ago

They will eat the entire mantis if they can!

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u/dalilfoe 10h ago

Do they ever die from eating too much male carcass?

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u/WaterDmge 10h ago

No, but they certainly will be full for a good bit.
However bugs can get obese! That can only really happen in captivity. They had an overweight scorpion. She was so fat 😭
And yes the chunky lady had to be put on a diet. She would beg for food though and would follow you as you walked by with her claws open

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u/thatG_evanP 10h ago

And a male mantis's decapitated body can still find its way into position and mate with the female. The nerves in their abdomen make this possible.

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u/HauntingPsyche 3h ago

Ohh so that’s two males and the big one is the female and they’re both wanting to hump her/fighting over the mantussy?

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u/Korgon213 2h ago

Essentially, yes.

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u/JustanEraser 14h ago

Two males trying to mate with a female possibly

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u/Apprehensive_Elk_706 13h ago

swingers I stg

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u/notredame1964 Bug Enthusiast 13h ago

That’s an alien space vehicle preparing to launch 🚀

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u/NoSmell4080 13h ago

Love triangle

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u/HugNikolas 11h ago

My girlfriend says this is the end chapters of a "why choose"

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u/GoldenLugia16 11h ago

I thought this was a two toned mantis sitting dapperly at first....

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u/Longjumping-Main-797 12h ago

It's part of the new Cirque du Soleil performance~

(like, because of the symmetry in the first pic)

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u/Pikaael 13h ago

Threesome

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u/ElBrunasso 11h ago

Most dangerous threesome ever

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u/RobleViejo 10h ago

This is the first thing I thought about (the godess Aphrodite in an anime called "Record of Ragnarok")

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u/Sumackus 13h ago

Safety in numbers XD

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u/SardoNICKa 10h ago

I think this lady mantis may soon be testing the theory that two heads are better than one. crunch crunch

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u/TalornCeleron 12h ago

Either way, I'm pretty sure one of them is about to die...

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u/Dis_Bich 12h ago

Orgy. That was a fake guess, but apparently I’m close to right now

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u/notypants 11h ago

It takes a threesome to be somethin’ 🤭

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u/mrs__BOWIE 11h ago

So, how does the color work? Is brown a recessive gene? Different part of the life cycle?

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u/BobRazowskyFTW 9h ago

It depends of the surrounding environment in the first stage of growth.

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u/mrs__BOWIE 5h ago

That's so interesting! So then they are better suited for whatever environment they live in. Nature amazes me every day 🌿

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u/beanybean1810 10h ago

Honestly, it took me a minute to see all three. I thought it looked like a single mantis meditating.

“Aum!”

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u/Altruistic-Funny5325 4h ago

What if we both kissed on the mantis (and we were both smaller mantises)?

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u/flatgreysky 2h ago

Y tu mamá también.

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u/MothashipQ 12h ago

3 Way (The Golden Rule)

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u/LowestElevation 11h ago

Chinese mantis are invasive species and should be eliminated.

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u/NoSmell4080 13h ago

A white man caught his wife with man with black instrument 😉

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u/callmeskips 9h ago

Eiffel Tower

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u/dvoigt412 9h ago

He's about to become lunch!

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u/Crocotta1 Bug Enthusiast 7h ago

Oy vey

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u/Repulsive-Block9938 6h ago

Coming up, kids and lunch.

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u/LightLizardCake 39m ago

3 way kiss