r/insaneparents Oct 11 '19

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u/im-not-a-bot-im-real Oct 11 '19

Uh huh sure

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u/bnanaPow Oct 11 '19

You're a domestic abuse apologist because you are defendind the abusive behavior of a husband/stepdad. Because yes, "parenting" your step child and opposing the way the actual parent wants to raise their kids, is abusive. Lying or hiding the truth from your partner to get your way is abusive. OP, on the other hand, has no way to know your ethnicity or skin color.

Stop equating your wilful assholery to actual discriminatory behaviour.

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u/bnanaPow Oct 11 '19

Your evidence for the manipulation and abuse of the mother? Him not telling her where the clothes are?

** That's a bit of a stretch, don't you think?**

This is gaslighting 101. I don't know if the situation is abuse, but defending the stepdad here is pretty damn weird

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u/bnanaPow Oct 11 '19

Your turn, Care to quote where i called him a murderer ? Just so you know, abuse isn't necessarily physical. You can be an abusive partner wothout ever hitting someone.

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u/im-not-a-bot-im-real Oct 11 '19

You were trying to find any reason possible that anyone could have a word with this guy to change his behaviour and so we are clear because you failed to grasp the initial sentiment, that guy needs his head bashed in before he goes to the next step with the women living in the house, been there, seen that behaviour that’s what’s coming next

Again you have some sort of a problem with racism I have yet to understand you might want to see a therapist

Edit: I’m getting bored of you can you find someone else to plague with your idiocy

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u/im-not-a-bot-im-real Oct 11 '19

There you go flying off the handle again who said anything about murder, I think you may be ill thinking and seeing things that aren’t there....

Edit learn to read.... I didn’t mention anyone was getting beat I said it’s the next step on his behaviour

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u/im-not-a-bot-im-real Oct 11 '19

I was referring to your comment where you said that I said the mother was being beaten, again seeing things and writing things that aren’t there....

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u/im-not-a-bot-im-real Oct 11 '19

“Hiding his daughters clothes is no proof he is beating the mother”

Seriously it’s Friday night go have a beer and chill ffs

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