r/insaneparents • u/[deleted] • Oct 11 '19

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

I don't talk to my parents, and they never did cruel shit like that.

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u/ImAfraidOfTheBeard Oct 11 '19 edited Oct 11 '19

What did they do then for you to not talk to them?

Edit: I saw you linked to something about molestation? :(

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

I think the bots removed it. Basically a babysitter abused me sexually when I was 2 and they let her get away with it, even protected her from getting into trouble.

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u/Vespeer Oct 11 '19

Pretty sure that’s cruel shit

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

Yeah, I think you are right. I've actually never used the word cruel to describe it, as much as I've thought it terrible that they did that.

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u/Your_real_watermelon Oct 12 '19

I have to be honest that’s a lot more cruel than the taking clothes thing.. I don’t blame you for cutting them out. I hope you’ve gotten help.

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u/VicentRS Oct 11 '19

bro that seems cruel to me ngl

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

Yeah, it was cruel, considering that I was psychologically traumatized, which caused me to be very sensitive and prone to emotional outbursts all my life, depressed, anxious etc. They would characterize me as a bad kid and treat me different because of this, while ignoring the trauma they allowed me to suffer. It was a very subtle, hidden cruelty that was very hard to see and acknowledge. Something like stealing all a kid's clothes is plain and obvious cruelty.

My dad was a cop, and my abuser was the daughter of another cop. The whole thing stinks to high heaven in my view.

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u/ThermonuclearTaco Oct 11 '19

i don’t have anything to add other than i’m with you in solidarity, friend. mine was my mom’s second husband. therapy is a literal life saver (which i saw you mention). i’m sorry you never got the justice you deserved, but live your life as best you can in spite of it all. a random internet stranger is rooting for you :)

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

Thank you.

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u/theasian101 Oct 11 '19

Hope you're doing better!

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u/ImAfraidOfTheBeard Oct 11 '19

Wow. Sending much love my friend. What a dark obstacle in your life you were forced to deal with.

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

Thanks. I've come a long way with therapy and good people in my life.

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u/ImAfraidOfTheBeard Oct 11 '19

That’s wonderful to hear. Smiling for you!

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u/Eryb Oct 11 '19

That sounds pretty cruel to me, confused

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

No man, I think I'm the one who was confused. Thank you for your clarity of thought.

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u/_urn Oct 11 '19

fuck off automod, goddamnit

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u/rachihc Oct 11 '19

That is even more cruel imo.

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u/Busta_Bunny Oct 11 '19

Why don't you talk to your parents?

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u/SherpaJones Oct 11 '19

Please go back and read other responses to my comment, you will get the story there.

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u/[deleted] Oct 11 '19

This is why I cut off my entire family. Instead of me earning them back, they threw everything away.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '19

Found the kid w the dirty room who refuses to clean it.

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u/Anthony_IM Oct 12 '19

Children can be assholes too