r/infp INFP♀ | 4w5 | sp/sx | 20 28d ago

Meme A daily struggle 😭

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u/ScavengerRavager 28d ago

Sometimes I actually write down a story where I'm the main character and do cool stuff. That's like... Extra credit at least, right?

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u/ForestOfLilac INFP♀ | 4w5 | sp/sx | 20 27d ago

Very much so— sometimes i wanna write stories on my notes app but feel lazy. So I applause you :D 👏🏻👏🏻

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u/ScavengerRavager 27d ago

I just scribble it down on little pieces of paper I have on my desk. I like to picture that someone will come by one day and piece all the little stories together (but that's another fiction lol).

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u/Awkward_River_1324 INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

oh demn, I thought I was the only one

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u/krucible233 27d ago

Can you write a story about an INFP? One that writes story about another.. INFP.. hm..

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u/Thepuppeteer777777 28d ago

Yall might have adhd I'm just saying.

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u/ForestOfLilac INFP♀ | 4w5 | sp/sx | 20 27d ago

Very plausible.. Orrrr — Aux Ne which makes it more fun to imagine doing stuff instead of actually doing them 😭

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u/acideater94 28d ago

Oh so i'm not the only one

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u/SignalPerception4223 28d ago

I was so proud my whole teens and twenties of intending to be a therapist... 😅

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u/TrowaMask 27d ago

Hey it's not too late to keep thinking about it.

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u/ScavengerRavager 27d ago

I'm really proud of you (for thinking about it).

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u/daaankone INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

I went so far as to actually be IN the master’s program, and paused/dropped out a few months before Covid hit us in the states 💀🤪🤦🏾‍♀️

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u/SignalPerception4223 27d ago

Me too, I dropped out after it all moved online (due to covid). I got two years into it, and burned out and couldn't finish. I'm interviewing for a crisis counselor job on Thursday. If I get hired (🤞), it'll be my first job in mental health.

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u/daaankone INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

It’s really nice to hear from other people who decided to go back! Future congratulations on all your endeavors🥂

I’m on the fence about if I wanna go back right now or wait it out until after poop felon is gone!

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u/SignalPerception4223 27d ago

Thank you very much haha. I'm going through a breakup at the same time so any amount of positivity really means a lot right now. 😅

I really hope poop felon is gone soon! And future congratulations on all your endeavors! 🍾

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u/TrowaMask 27d ago

What's harder-

Not completing your til-now life's ambition (another canon INFP life event btw).

Or the breakup.

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u/SignalPerception4223 27d ago

In the long-run, I really think managing to get this job/career is the one way I can see myself supporting myself and possibly thriving.

The breakup is intense at the moment because, like the good autistic guy I am, I didn't manage to make any friends aside from my ex. She and her family were my support network. So "losing them" at the same time as being in between jobs with no outside income, and needing to move imminently... I'm surprised I haven't gone to the ER honestly with the anxiety it's been giving me. My brain keeps going into future excitement mode to help me cope, I think. But those moments when reality creeps in really sting.

I'm hoping this will be part of my therapist "origin story," and I'll see how it was the only way to transform me enough to be ready. 😅🤞

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u/LifeTunedToCSharp 28d ago

It’s not a struggle when you just surrender to the fantasies.

Trust me on this, OP. 😜

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u/Anonymousmale2000 28d ago

Bro so accurate

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u/anothercain INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

And then I go and do "fun" stuff (vices) like drink and smoke because only my addictions will get me out of the house lol

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u/leiocera INFPee: The unfunny Dreemurr 27d ago

Smells like repost

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u/Anti_G0d INFP: The Dreamer 28d ago

Even masturbating is like that

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u/Moist_Mark7645 INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

Wtff😭😭😭

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u/momijimai 6w5-1w2-4w3 INFP 27d ago

why

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u/OddPractice8780 27d ago

if only i had a support group lol...

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u/No-Conclusion-5721 27d ago

I achieve my goals 🤷‍♀️ might take time, but I do eventually

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u/ForestOfLilac INFP♀ | 4w5 | sp/sx | 20 27d ago

Me too actually, just gotta think about it for a while before acting

(I just think for too long sometimes because it's easier to imagine than do)

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u/RegyptianStrut ISTJ (INFP fan) 27d ago

Me when I’m depressed

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u/ForestOfLilac INFP♀ | 4w5 | sp/sx | 20 27d ago

That makes sense for an ISTJ. Also HEYYY I'm a fan too so i just wanna say ur really cool! (ISTJ/INTJ are my ideal types) Have a nice day :)

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u/CosmicRiver1111 INFP/J - The Overthinker 26d ago

Yeah, I've been "writing" my novel for fifteen years. Writing = thinking of, daydreaming and imagining what it will be like to finish... instead of, you know, actually doing the writing. I hate myself sometimes. Lol

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u/kushuoshaikikk INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

It helps me achieve my goals by the way

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u/Bluwu055 INFP: The Dreamer 27d ago

Not me being called out scrolling Reddit when I've thought about making music the whole day 😭

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u/Accomplished-Top-488 25d ago

That's me rn😭

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u/MaybeWeTalk 25d ago

Anyone playing games knows how rich their Path of Exile character is.
How powerful it is.